Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

By telling her I slept with her hot mom or by telling her I hate everything about her? She's a total b***h and has this coming to her.

2007-07-24 09:06:53 · 27 answers · asked by Stinky Peterson 2 in Singles & Dating

Long story short. Went overseas, was gone so long so broke up (my fault-hey, i was lonely over there and looking at another 1.5 years) ended up dating someone else, still with that newer person and now ex is overseas(where I was was her country while she was in the US-ironic, i know). Now, ex is back in home country to move on with life bc I didnt work out and there is no reason for her in the US anymore she claims. I'm back in the US living with more recent gf (although it's been over 2 yrs!). We've kept contact rare, and when we do it's friends like-but we both care. We had an abortion together which was an emotional ordeal for us both and were 2gethr for 2yrs. She doesn't know I'm living with a girl. Should it matter? She doesn't ask-things have been kept friendly up until now.It's just that, I just feel for her bc of what we went through and I have a lot of respect for her. She never mentions pursuing things or anything-just that she likes to hear from me every now and then.

2007-07-24 09:05:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have argued and fought and now she said she cant be faithful to me anymore. is she sleeping with someone else ???

2007-07-24 09:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by cldad07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a good-looking 24 year old college-degree woman. My husband, though, seems to be attracted to the kind of woman that you would look at and say "Man, she's had a hard life." Usually they have no education and work the night shift at a gas station. On several occasions he has formed relationships with them. We are working through this and he is getting help. But I am just wondering why he goes after these kinds of women... He is a very attractive man and can probably get any one he wants.

2007-07-24 09:02:35 · 21 answers · asked by emily1980 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would you be with a girl who is like a goddess personality wise and looks but who isn't sexually active or would u much rather be with a girl who may be good looking but her personality doesn't match up but where u could have sex. just curious to see how u guys respond to this one HONESTLY

2007-07-24 08:59:51 · 13 answers · asked by snowflakes 4 in Singles & Dating

Long story short my husband have a ten year old son.He stays with his mother and visits every once in a while.He is doing terrible in school example just learned timetables this summer still reads on third grade level, they placed him in special ed in michigan because he was so far behind.Now his mother and my husband have decided that he will come and stay with us for the school year. The only problem is she wants to keep the child support money eventhough he stays with us. My husband is fine with this because he really wants to help his son through this. I can't comprehend this because it is not fair by a long shot and we are not talking three or four hundred dollars.Not only dealing with it financially difficult but his mother calls and complains about things that have nothing to do with her. we just bought a house and it is difficult to furnish but bc we also have alot of things going on so he called his mother to say he couldn't take a shower bc we didn't have a shower curtain so

2007-07-24 08:59:37 · 25 answers · asked by sweetluv2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The kicker is you both know you are soul-mate's and there is only one for one... You have both made mistakes and it caused the break-up but is it what you want, both of you or are you both done sewing your oats? Is there not enough love and respect to find that flame again, work out your differences, drop all of the past and get on with you future and this time take the flame and put it in a safe!

2007-07-24 08:57:38 · 8 answers · asked by AzNative89 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there any typical questions to suggest that would keep mefrom looking bewildered today and provide me with some sure-fire questions that will enable me to see through a liar cheater doper husband

2007-07-24 08:56:22 · 8 answers · asked by darealdanielle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont understand why, because to me it never look good to see a man standing like a giraffe over a woman, or even seeing a woman straining her neck to look into the face of a man while having a conversation. What is wrong with having someone couple inches taller?

2007-07-24 08:55:51 · 8 answers · asked by DFlavor 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently moved in with my family and separated from my husband. My family does not like my husband at all because we have gone through some marital problems. He and I have decided to get back together and he is moving to this state to reunite our family. I understand why my family does not like him and they have every reason to. I believe people can change, they do not. How should I break the news to them?
Please do not say you should not get back together and that your family probably is correct because my husband and I are getting back together, I would just appreciate some comments on how I should let them know that.

2007-07-24 08:55:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It is very easy to turn him on, we've been together for more than six months, actually, I've never seen his dick in a regular & soft state...
But the problem is it seems quite hard for him to ejaculate.
Sometimes, when he is almost coming, he held it a bit, then continue, I asked him what happened, he said he didn't want it finish so soon.. But my god, he always lasted like 30min or more, which made me really tired.

What can I do to make him faster?
Please help, thanks.

2007-07-24 08:54:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey guys! Quick question. If you have red color bridesmaid dresses can you have red flowers? Or is it to much red?
Thanks

2007-07-24 08:52:39 · 15 answers · asked by Jen* 7 in Weddings

I have been married to my husband a little over two years, we have a 15 month old son, that i would not trade for the world. I am NOT happy in my marriage and i have not been for months now, i do want out but i am scared and this is why: Me and my husband agreed that if we ever got a divorce he would let me get our son, but let him see his son anytime he wanted to, no big deal, we my husbands monther said one day that if we ever did get a divorce that she was going to try and get my son, i am not a bad parent, i take very good care of my child and i always will no matter what, but can she get him? What does she have to prove?(sp) I don't like for my husband to even be around me anymore, plus i think he has something going on behind my back cause i want have sex with him, i just don't feel that way about him anymore, and i want out, and i'm so worried about what people will say about it, i honestly don't think he's happy either, but he want admit it. What do i do?

2007-07-24 08:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by punkin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy I like smiled back, but I think it was just a polite smile... does that necessarily mean that he's not interested? There've also been other things that he's done that may have hinted at him being interested (standing very close to me when it wasn't necessary, for one), but I've got no experience with this stuff, so I'm not sure if I'm reading too much into nothing. Any advice would be greatly appreciated - thanks in advance!

2007-07-24 08:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by olivia2589 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I called him to check on him and see that he is ok. I worry because he is always crawling under the house or in the attic or on the roof. He has come home many times with cuts on his body, that he got from work, I guess at least I did not put them there.
Well, I just tried to talk to him and he acted all pissed off because I was calling to see if he was ok. I mean, he fell off of a ladder not too long ago, not a short ladder, one that reaches a three story house!
So, anyways...he was acting all guilty, and saying. "What do you want? I am trying to finish up here. Trying to show this lady how to use." And then his phone shut off and I can't reach him.
I Talked to his friend Barry the other day, and he said that his wife was divorcing him because he was screwing around on her with his customers. He goes to a ladies house and smooth talks her into sex and repair service. Should I be worried?
Thanks in advance. We have been married 10 + years, & are having our 2nd child.

2007-07-24 08:46:41 · 30 answers · asked by blackwolfinwinter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf asked me to married him....of course I said yes. He has always been a bit of a jealous guy. I have learn to deal with it. Now that we are engaged he told me to delete my both of e*mail address and make a new but not give it out to any of my friends (family only). Am I thinking too much into this or is that normal? He also wants to get married as soon as September. Im not even sure my mother will approve because she knows how jealous he can be. Does this get any worse when you actully get married? Or am I just setting myself up to be like one of those girls who cant even look at people while shes with her husband!

2007-07-24 08:42:32 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really kinda like this guy, but I am also trying to get over an ex. But this guy is really cool, but I'm just not sure. help?

2007-07-24 08:41:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find it very difficult especially when we're fussing or angry or tired...etc.

What are some good pointers for learning how to do it?

2007-07-24 08:38:34 · 3 answers · asked by getusedtoit 4 in Singles & Dating

My significant other and I work out of the same office. There is a woman with our company who comes to our office from another to train new employees. Awhile back she showed strong feelings for my significant other, and approached him with the idea of having an affair. At the time he and I were not together, and were only friends. She was and still is married and has a child. Every time she comes into our office she flirts with him. She stairs at him, smiles at him, and tries to make funny jokes. I try to remain as professional as possible, but I can't help but not like her. I find myself becoming angry with her for looking at him, or talking to him. I don't think she knows that I know she has a thing for him. I kind of feel silly that I feel this way. Should I even care? What would you do?

2007-07-24 08:34:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's possible for a man to realize he was wrong to stray? And would that realization keep him from doing it again? Do you think having kids to lose factors in to his decision?

2007-07-24 08:33:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I cant ever find a good guy I always fall for the horny, stupid ones!!

2007-07-24 08:33:03 · 25 answers · asked by petiteandsweet!! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 08:28:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is vietnamise and pakistain. I am american. I never imagined I would marry out of my race, but I did and I see absolutely nothing wrong with this, nor does my family. I however can't say I feel the same way about his family. Mostly the pakistain side. My husband gets upset because I never try to get to know his side of the family very well, nor do I involve them in our sons life very much. He wants me to let his mother watch our son during the day while I work (which my mother does now) my major problem with it is 1. she doesn't speak english and never tried to learn although all her children speak fluently 2. they treat me like im an idiot around my child, always telling me he's too hot he shouldn't be wearing this or that, or i should be giving him this or that. Which honestly I don't appreciate. My family has done so much for me, my husband and our son...and his family has done nothing. They didn't even show up for the baby showers.

2007-07-24 08:28:14 · 13 answers · asked by Leigh08 4 in Family

I was invited to my friends wedding reception pot luck and so I asked on yahoo answers what I should bring to the pot luck. I am a very giving person and am happy to do this. Even if it means I just pop something frozen in the microwave, I will do it for my friend because it's her speaceal day. I'm happy for her. Well, some of the answers I recieved from people were very negetive. A few people said that it was rude of my friend to have a pot luck wedding because a guest shouldn't have to bring anything and that she should DELAY her speacal day rather than ask for a pot luck. My friend is getting married and people are dwelling on the "negetive." You usually bring the bride and groom a gift anyways. Why not food for their wedding if they can't afford it. I asked the question so oviousely I didn't mind. Now I'm upset because these answers put me in a bad mood. Maybe they're really religous people and they can't wait if you know what I mean. Gosh!

2007-07-24 08:27:54 · 35 answers · asked by imsocoolforever 1 in Weddings

We have two kids together and we have been together for 4 years he cheated on me and will deny that he did it till hell freezes over, but i never would have known except i got an std. now i havent confronted him about it yet i just want some input.
Is it worth fighting for?
Should i stay for the kids?
do i walk away and say screw him?
please any advice would be great!

2007-07-24 08:26:26 · 32 answers · asked by Kristina D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 08:26:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not really taking about sexual intercouse but anything sexual during the massage.

2007-07-24 08:24:08 · 20 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Serious answers only please. I'm curious because my man loves it in the morning....

2007-07-24 08:24:03 · 32 answers · asked by Tanesia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

They just have no respect for me, and any relationship I have always ends up with them using me, or they cheat on me!
Do I really deserve this? why can i never find some right for me? :(

2007-07-24 08:22:28 · 18 answers · asked by Gemini D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 08:19:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends