Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

I get on well with a girl at work recently she has been teasing me quite a bit about something in particular, today I went to see her at her desk again she teased me and whilst doing so she made big smiles, was looking up at me and making good eye contact and stroking her hair.

Now I know that these are supposed to be signals of flirting, but are they really, or is it just friendly banter?

Could as many women as possible give their point of view as to whether they would act like this as a way to flirt. Thanks.

2007-07-24 10:06:04 · 17 answers · asked by shark 2 in Singles & Dating

I give him everything I do everything I clean my house
I cook every day and I pick up 4 kids from school
and then I put makeup on and dress up for him everyday

I work very hard to keep up my appearances, as well as down to earth, with a freaky side in the bedroom
he is really jealous . all his friends tell me I am good looking

im sick and tired of having my heart pounding and losing endless hours of sleep due to the sadness and uncertainty as to what is going wrong with my relationship?

2007-07-24 10:05:18 · 21 answers · asked by bylovemagic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i am a first time bridesmaid, i have only ever been to 3 weddings, im 14 years old..and i hav NO IDEA how weddings work...
(its a church wedding)

can you basically tell me everything there is to know about being a bridesmaid? what to do before the wedding, during, after? just i need to know what they do, i know they help the bride with whatever she needs to do..but what do i need to do for like during the wedding, and rehersal and dinner and all that?

my brothers wedding, his fiance asked me if i would be in her bridal party...november 17,2007 is the date.
thanks so much!

2007-07-24 10:03:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i dont know how this girl who i've been seeing for over 1 1/2 year will react.i'm about to ask her to be my girlfriend,but if she says no i'm going to break it off. Should i be loving and say how much i love you and need you in my life,how much i love her kids,all that mushy stuff, or should i just ask her to be my girlfriend and if she says no, just brush it off as no big deal? But honestly if she says no, i dont think i could continue being with her, while i'm falling more and more in love with her and the kids. i'm taking a chance, but i know there could possibly be a chance in the future, maybe after some time, but what is best she remember? some people tell me if you say all that mushy stuff, she will feel pressure and smothered, others tell me she will like it, some tell me to be a little like its not a big deal, that way when i leave her i save face, and its most likely she will come back to me in the future, i dont know, anyone had that experience, or can give me advice?

2007-07-24 09:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me what you perfect looking girlfriend would look like. i want details. lets see how guys view things, they all have different likes and dislikes.

2007-07-24 09:57:54 · 3 answers · asked by MIKEL 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 3 small children and I just got divorced 2 months ago. I will be filing for bankruptcy next month. In our divorce papers it said I was responsible for two debts, a Target card bill, (which I was never on the account my ex said I had to have more than one bill on my side for our divorce to go through) and a joint car bill of which I was the co-signer on the vehicle. My exhusband got letters today stating that Ford is taking him to court, and so he called up Ford and because I'm on government assistance Ford said since he's the primary they're going after him. So he says he's going to countersue me for the money... is that a possibility?

2007-07-24 09:55:24 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boss gave me permission to go out with her daughter and is okay with the idea but I want to know how many dates till it okay for her to "spend the night". She currently lives with her mom. She is ready now but I don't want to till I've waited the socially acceptable time, but I don't know what that is HELP!

2007-07-24 09:50:58 · 17 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to find some ways to make my my bf feel loved and appreciated. I have low money, if that helps. He is a great guy, he's fa great father, he's funny, sweet, caring, works hard, and he's adventurous. I need help, I feel bad cuz I'm hard on him sometimes. Plz help!!!! I'm up for anything.

2007-07-24 09:46:43 · 8 answers · asked by Jenel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This boy i have been talkin to for 3 weeks is already sayin he's fallin in love wit me, and im not feeling the same so what should i do without hurting his feelings

2007-07-24 09:45:12 · 4 answers · asked by classychick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it considered insulting to be a Mama's boy, but being a Daddy's girl is a term of endearment?

2007-07-24 09:44:17 · 15 answers · asked by posttk421 3 in Family

all of the people I went to school with are either engaged or married or serious with someone. I just dont have time with college and work to "settle down" are they moving too fast or is it just me?

2007-07-24 09:40:58 · 51 answers · asked by petiteandsweet!! 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been having issues with my husband of 5 yrs (you can read my other post for details) He had been haveing :temper tantrams" and they are getting worse. I hav asked him to leave, and even called the cops, but they will not make him leave. I WILL NOT leave because #1 I am out of owrk and we have 2 kids. #2 This is my house that was gifted to me by my father. #3 I can't go live with my parents - they live next door, and my brother lives on the other side of me.....

I want to reconnect with an ex of mine..... My husband has cheated, and I have been making him sleep in the spare room, but I really want and need to feel like a woman again. Something that I haven't felt in 2 years. I plan on getting a job, and soon. And then I planto file divorce and force him out of my house, but how wrong is it of me to reach out to another man?

2007-07-24 09:39:13 · 22 answers · asked by Brandi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There was a question on here about it, and I ran it by my hubby and he said..

"Sure. Everyone at some point has that desire. Men and women. It's just whether you act on it or not."

But I disagree.. I'm part of everyone right? Well, sure, I've THOUGHT about.. or WONDERED about sex w/ someone else.. but never actually WANTED or DESIRED it.... I think there is a big difference.

Do you think he is right? Or are we both right? Is it just a difference in definition of the word desire?

What do you think? Have you ever truly DESIRED someone other than your spouse?

2007-07-24 09:36:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really need help becuase the last time i saw her she was mad at me and i wan't to make it up to her by being friends again.

2007-07-24 09:35:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-24 09:34:52 · 10 answers · asked by felicia d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a situation that will never be??

2007-07-24 09:34:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 09:32:44 · 1 answers · asked by KADY 1 in Singles & Dating

you see i work for tcf bank and me and a beutiful female collague of my went to a bar and drank a couple we were drunk and we went to her house one thing led to another and we ended up haveing sex. you can imagine the akwardeness when we woke up. i immediatly left after a few moments of silence. i immediatly went to church to confess my sin to the lord i thank god that we both weren't married. after that i decided to call in sick to ponder what i would say to her tommorow. when i came back to the office i heard she had called in sick yesterday too. eventually we bumped into each other and said nothing. after a couple of days of silence we eventually decided to confront each other at olive garden. there she confessed that she wasen't really drunk at all and that she actually drunged my drink to blackmail me but after she rememberd the that we made a great team she decided not to do it. i was suprised and she wants to start a steady relationship with me i don't know what to say since she

2007-07-24 09:32:05 · 13 answers · asked by j.r. 3 in Singles & Dating

My "BFF" doesn't talk to me anymore! The last time I heard from her was like 2 weeks ago when I went to her pool and stayed for dinner. After that I called her like two days later to see if she wanted to go catch a movie but she never called back. Today she called me and it said so on my cell so I called her back (becuz i hadn't answered when she called me) to ask y she called and i asked her and shes like no. im like oh well it says tht on my fone and shes like well i didn't and then i said um ok then bye and she said bye and hung up! i dont want to lose my best friend but i dont want her to treat me this way. oh and its not like she found new friends cuz she always hung around me and never talked to anyone else! what should i do?

2007-07-24 09:31:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my grandmother passed away and left her wedding ring with my father to give me when i got married. i want to reset the stones and mostly want it for sentimental reasons. my BF asked me if i wanted my own ring and i said no. but my very controlling father is saying he doesnt want to give it to me bf. he isnt too fond of him and for no good reason. he doesnt like anyone... i told my mother that my father has no say. my grandmother left it to me and just because my father is holding it doesnt mean he makes the decision. it was already made...
the ring is going to me anyway... its not like my bf is wearing it.
my father for some reason thinks my bf is getting a free ride...
whats your opinion? my mother wasnt supposed to tell me this, but she did.... so i cant say anything.

2007-07-24 09:30:31 · 15 answers · asked by coco 2 in Weddings

i feel i missed an oppertunity for happyness for a lifetime when she told me she still had feelings for me 6 years ago that day still lingers in my mind as i said what can we do about it and she turned and walked away and i didnt stop her. i went home and didnt think about it till it was to late. now im lonley and dwelling on the past how do i git over my mistake even though i tell myself it was probly for the best and it was so long ago

2007-07-24 09:25:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay...so here is the issue in a nutshell:
My wife and I are going through a divorce. She has been hurting me any way she can legally and financially. What she did was try to get it to where I cannot get any type of physical custody of my daughter. I was seeing a theripist regarding being sent back to Iraq. Information regarding the diagnosis was sent by mistake to a joint email account. She pulled it off and used it against me stating that I would harm my daughter because of issues I had in Iraq. Also, when I was 18, I was convicted of sex with a minor. The girl bascially lied about her age. This was 8 years ago. She pulled that paper work and made alligations that I could possibly molest my daughter because of my past legal issue. She later admittinly told me she didn't belive ANY of that and only did it to protect herself. Does anyone know if I can do anything about this? Lawyers are expenive and I just want to know if I have any chance of doing anything about it.

2007-07-24 09:25:26 · 11 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Because my old ones are on to me now.

2007-07-24 09:25:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is anal sex bad to do? healthwise
I've been tempted to have my husband penetrate me analy but Im afraid it's gonna screw me on the long run (no pun intended)
I've heard how great it feels and wanted some advise first before I mess my *** up.

2007-07-24 09:22:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm about 5'4, brown skin, dark brown eyes, perfect length hair, average sized, nice job that pays real good, nice car, BANGIN personality, nice teeth, NO>>pimples, big forehead, big nose, ugly feet, etc...or anything like that. Never been in jail, no babies, very educated, I got goals, dress nicely WHEREVER I go...I mean, the list can go on and on and on. Im not conceited or anything like that. I have a lot of friends who think im really funny. So, I know I have a good sense of humor. To anyone who's reading this....please tell me whats wrong with me. I don't think im perfect but I can't find anything thats wrong with me that could lead to me being single. Im single and I've been single for a while now and cant find anything wrong with me. I know I shouldnt go after love, and I've waited for it to come to me many times before. Please tell me whats wrong with me or tell me what I should do. Is it me? Is it them? WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? ***Please, serious answers***

2007-07-24 09:20:14 · 5 answers · asked by Latina Diamond 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do they have to feel like they are losing a part of themself in the process... it's really quite the contrary, I would think.

2007-07-24 09:19:57 · 3 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 09:18:18 · 1 answers · asked by emilly 2 in Singles & Dating

I'v been with a man for 13yrs. Premaritial sex is a sin all in itself. I will be recieving $500,000 inheritance from a woman I'v takin care of for 5 yrs. I was legal advised that "Joe" is trying to take me for 1/2 since he says we are common law. Since I have not gotten the settlement yet I may need 2 divorce him. He is a junkie/ crackhead & I broke up with him 2 yrs ago what should I do?

2007-07-24 09:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by Melody M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Consider this, that both men and women release chemicals that induce a feeling of connection between the two creating a bond that otherwise would have been weak if personality and attitude were the only factors.
If people would refrain from premarital sex or wait until some time then you get clouded by all the chemicals and rush into something your not ready for.

2007-07-24 09:09:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am struggling with the fact that i don't feel like i can be myself around anyone. not my whole self anyways. i can be pieces of myself with people, but never the whole thing. is it possible to find someone i am completely comfortable around? i have always been a little bit of an odd ball, but...i don't know. will i ever get to be myself and feel someone there at the same time? or will i always be an echo chamber of ideas, kept to myself? is it just harder for me? or does everyone feel lonely to an extent? i've heard before that loneliness is the human condition. i just need some oppinions. thanks.

2007-07-24 09:08:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships