Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

I have been married 5 years, together for 8, we have 1 4 year old and another on the way. my husband has cheated on me all 5 of those years, too many times to count, and he still wont stop, he is always looking for someone, mostly for sex, i dont really know why, i think i give him it enough, why cant he just have me? i need help, what should i do?

2007-07-24 10:50:46 · 33 answers · asked by danirose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister in law is a widow(she was married to my brother who died last year). Amanda has two little girls, Cassie is four and Elsie is a year and a half. Amanda thinks shes got it all right, and that wants to marry this single guy who is two years older than she, works at a real estate agency, and looks like he's seventeen(he is acctually twenty-eight). they have gone hiking together several times and he said that he doesnt mind that she has two kids. his exact words were: "I think you are fabulous, and you're kids are just an extra bonus." i mean i like this guy and all, and i know that Amanda is ready to move on, but i dont know that i am ready for her to have another relationship like this so soon. so, is Amanda REALLY in love??

2007-07-24 10:49:52 · 10 answers · asked by norskie_gurl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

nice to meet u :)

2007-07-24 10:48:25 · 19 answers · asked by MADELINE 2 1 in Friends

I like a white boy right now, and me and my homeboy got into a argument . He told me I'd be a sellout if I dated a white boy, and that I'm making it harder for black men. I've dated black boys before, I just happen to like a white boy now. I told him I don't understand why it's alright for a Black man to date a white woman , but it's not okay for white men and black woman to date ? I'm not racist either; so cut that crap off. But Most black men date latinas and White woman now, so why isn't okay for a black girl to date a white boy

2007-07-24 10:48:11 · 14 answers · asked by Em[ily] 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 10:42:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 10:42:40 · 27 answers · asked by lilygrace3992 1 in Marriage & Divorce

IN a relationship....is there anything else?

2007-07-24 10:40:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance has been acting out lately such as drinking and not really caring about my feelings. We finally had a good talk about it & he says he thinks it's because he feeling so overwhelmed at work. Does this sound plausible?

2007-07-24 10:40:10 · 9 answers · asked by SugarFreeRedBull 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the difference between growing apart and just hitting a bump in a relationship?

How do you know which is which? How do you know when a relationship is just dying out?

I'm talking long term relationships 2+ years.

2007-07-24 10:38:12 · 8 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is love addicting? I know this is going to sound stupid coming from a 13 year old....but still, i need some grownup advice here. I fell in love with a girl once, and she said she was in love with me too, but we gradually started not liking each other. but now that we broke up i miss the feelin of love. that feeling that u have someone special, that someone ur always thinking about, always wondering about. asking yourself what are they doing right now? what are they thinking right now. now all the adults reading this i know what your thinkin you dont know wat love is, but i reall do, and i miss it badly. whenever i hear a song, a slow song, i think back to what love felt like, and i miss it. so just give me some advice to get over this. also this was kinda ova the internet, but i think loving someone on the intenrnet only strengthens it, becuz u get to kow the person be4 u base ur opinion on looks.! so help me

2007-07-24 10:38:06 · 42 answers · asked by Charlie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 10:37:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can i get rid of my mom and live with my grandmother. Try not to say its not right to treat your mother like that. Because you have no idea how mean she is. Thanks.

2007-07-24 10:37:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It's will be my 10 year reunion and I have kept in touch with most of my friends, but I know there are some people I wouldn't mind catching up with. There is no one I am trying to avoid. I had a nice time in high school. What do you think?

2007-07-24 10:36:59 · 23 answers · asked by Miss 6 7 in Friends

Girls-would you have a threesome w/ another girl and a guy? The guy may or may not be your significant other.Why or why not? And what would the terms or circumstances be if your answer is yes. Honest answers only!

2007-07-24 10:34:37 · 15 answers · asked by UGAgal 1 in Singles & Dating

we have discussed this and she knows I let her live here to pay my bills. I have no intention of ever marrying her. She says it's ok I don't love her, she just likes to be around me.

2007-07-24 10:32:37 · 54 answers · asked by JeffAV 6 in Singles & Dating

i hate my bro girlfriend and I live with him and her only she gets on my nerves and i cant really disrespect her but i want her to get the idia i dont like her and never will i have dispised her for years we have no relationship whatsoever...i want to give her some kind of sighn in my actions towards her any help?????

2007-07-24 10:31:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 14 and this boy is really cute

2007-07-24 10:30:50 · 29 answers · asked by 1st baby on his way 1 in Singles & Dating

This day in age it seems you can't trust anyone.Even your spouse.

2007-07-24 10:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by foxtrott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 25 year old married woman and I met this girl in my friend's place some time back.I liked her and I immediately connected with her and I knew that she also liked me.We met for 10 days consecutively as we were organising something together.
Initially ,she was also friendly towards me.then from the third day onwards,she started ignoring me.I didn't mind that as I barely knew her.
Then,from the fifth day,she started imitating my dressing style,hair style, and being very affectionate to me.she used to sit very close to me(not even 1 inch apart),would caress me every now and then and would come into my personal space on the plea of whispering something to me.As I am not a very touchy feely or expressive person,this kind of behavior from a same sex person started freaking me out.This lack of reciprocation resulted in resentment in her behavior.Still,she was signalling that she likes me and expressed the desire that we should hang out sometime.I liked her a lot.
but is it only liking on her part or something else?

2007-07-24 10:26:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was once abused physically, emotionally and sexually at the age of 21. i dated a 30year old then. one day he forced me to watch him and his ex ******* and ever since then i dont enjoy watching people do it but i have atleast learned to enjoy sex. how do i deal with the thought that brings back my nightmares..?

2007-07-24 10:23:38 · 9 answers · asked by blackbooty 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

just because i hang out with some bangers.... and occasionally the "just wanna have a good time" "STONER" does that mean that i'm going to wind up in prison like everyone keeps telling me? I mean don't get me wrong... i have smoked marijuana before? and i have broken the law... but just because of who i hang out with... and how i dress people automatically say... "Well by tthe time you're 17 you'll be in prison.."and i try not to surround myself with these people... but itz gotten to the point where my own father has been telling me this? is something wrong with me?????

2007-07-24 10:21:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I lived in Oz 1957 to 1960 and fell in love with a beatiful Oz girl. I split and regreted it ever since. I won't embarass her by mentioning her name, but we worked for Social Services in Sydney. I would love to know what became of her. She was so nice, I cannot imagine her not being a grandmother now. I'll only say that I'm a Canadian and her name is Val.

2007-07-24 10:19:44 · 2 answers · asked by LEONARD W 4 in Friends

They were good friends then dated for 2 years didn't get along as a couple he broke up with her but they are still friends. She calls occasionally and wants to hang out with him. He told me she wanted to see a movie with him and he said he'd like me to go if i could but if i couldnt he'd still go with her. I at first was upset but I thought I should just bite my lip and trust him.
Now his family from texas is in town and I met them the other day for a bbq. Now they are having another bbq tonight and I can't go until later cause i work but he just told me that she wants to see them and she might go. Which means, while I'm at work waiting to get off to go over there she will be hanging out just him and her the X GIRLFRIEND like old times with the family. This just isnt fair...What should I do?

2007-07-24 10:17:54 · 13 answers · asked by LambiguousGoat 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok if I wanna have sex, but use condums, where should I buy them, cuz I am kinda embarresed about the transaction.

2007-07-24 10:17:51 · 35 answers · asked by lemerdanzam 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that people have been telling me that he likes me,and i like him a little too,but i'am kinda scared of getting hurt again and giving my heart to someone else who might just stomp on it again,and i'am supposed to hang out with him on friday,i guess you can call it a date but im just scared thats all.

2007-07-24 10:17:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago because he said he needed his space. Our relationship has been pretty rocky throughout, a lot having to do with trust and communication issues, but i love him more than anything in the world. We were living together for a few months and the fights just seemed to get worse. Then in may after an arguement he told me he needed space away from me but that he still loved me. He said he didnt want to be with anyone else and that this was just temporary. I moved back home and now we never see eachother and we barely talk on the phone. He told me not to expect him to call me everyday. I dont kno wat to do! Im going crazy, 1 min i feel like i hate him and then love him the next, im in so much pain. Wat should i do? All i wanna do is be with him but even if we talk now we still end up fighting. I feel so lost and confused. Is this the end of my relationship? How do i kno if i should stick around, or should i just move on? PLEASE HELP!

2007-07-24 10:13:22 · 6 answers · asked by Rosie F 1 in Singles & Dating

We are keeping our options open and I was wondering if anyone knows of nice places to get married in vegas? I have looked up some places online but I get so confused with all the options. Has anyone had personal expericences so they can share? I don't want Elvis to marry us. We are on a tight budget and people have been telling me how you save $$ in Vegas because they have pckg deals. Also, so any places allow the ceremony and a reception? please help!!

2007-07-24 10:12:36 · 14 answers · asked by Noah's Mommy 4 in Weddings

so i like this guy. and i see him every single day. and he sits next to me in all the classes we have together. he sits by me at lunch. and we are like really good friends. but i dont know if he like likes me back. and i really want to tell him i like him but i dont want to get embarrassed and ruin our friendship. what should i do? i guess it doesnt matter if the the guy likes me or not though, b/c i like a lot of guys at my school and i mean a lot! but he is my favorite!

im 13 if that helps at all. and i appriciate all your answers. be honest.

2007-07-24 10:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by °lia° 2 in Singles & Dating

It is going to be my first time having oral sex with my wife who doenst have any past history of sexual activity just like me. We have both tested ourselves for stds and are both virigins. Would like to know whether it is necessary to wear a condom while engaging in oral sex as I trust my wife's health as well as mine.

2007-07-24 10:11:25 · 25 answers · asked by dsa7691 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this guy. he's 2 years younger than me and i'm 16. what do i do?? btw i'm shy and he's shy....for the most part.

2007-07-24 10:09:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating