Ok so my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago because he said he needed his space. Our relationship has been pretty rocky throughout, a lot having to do with trust and communication issues, but i love him more than anything in the world. We were living together for a few months and the fights just seemed to get worse. Then in may after an arguement he told me he needed space away from me but that he still loved me. He said he didnt want to be with anyone else and that this was just temporary. I moved back home and now we never see eachother and we barely talk on the phone. He told me not to expect him to call me everyday. I dont kno wat to do! Im going crazy, 1 min i feel like i hate him and then love him the next, im in so much pain. Wat should i do? All i wanna do is be with him but even if we talk now we still end up fighting. I feel so lost and confused. Is this the end of my relationship? How do i kno if i should stick around, or should i just move on? PLEASE HELP!
2007-07-24 10:13:22 · 6 answers · asked by Rosie F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As hard as it is, i think you need to move on. It's painful but its not worth your time to fuss over. Who knows, maybe it'll work out eventually, but for now, your best bet is to move on. But, this needs to be your decision, you shouldn't let what others say persuade you. We don't know all the details and aren't living your life so our advice may be incorrect as we just assume.
From the information gathered in your statement, I would definitely suggest moving on.
2007-07-24 10:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by donthaveanickname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sucks, but I think it's over. If there were any indication that this was to last, I don't think he would have left, instead, stay and tried to work it out. Sometimes it's easier to run, then to stay, and maybe he doesn't want to hurt you, so he says he just needs his space, but in reality I think he might want to move on. There's nothing more painful than a broken heart, I know. I think you should start to move on. Let whatever happens happen. Sometimes when you push an issue on someone, you only push them further away.
2007-07-24 17:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by paz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this and live it..........
"Dont waste your time on someone who isnt willing to waste their time on you."
I think its self explanitory but, I know doing it is alot harder than saying it. I lived the same pain and I feel for you girl. Its never easy to let go of something u want so badly, but sometimes its whats best to do. I found that quote one day in a book and it really got me to thinking. It is so true. The truth is, we all deserve to be loved the way we need to be. But, sometimes the one we pick thats right for us, sometimes we arent right for them. You will find your match but you must cross this hurdle first. Let it go sweety and you will live to love again.
It hurts and feels as if it will never go away, but with time it does get easier. Your Mr. Right is out there waiting for you. Go get him and let this one be a memory.
Dont cry because its over, smile because it happened. There is good in everything.
Good luck sweety.
2007-07-24 17:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely the end. Sorry, but this much fighting really isnt necessary! Its... ummm... bad.
2007-07-24 17:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
move on.....you siad yourself that your relationship was rocky....why would you want to go back to that??? neither on of you seem mature enough to handle a real relationship...move on with your life.
2007-07-24 17:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by kystik83 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has already moved on--you should too..
2007-07-24 17:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋