how can i get rid of my mom and live with my grandmother. Try not to say its not right to treat your mother like that. Because you have no idea how mean she is. Thanks.
2007-07-24 10:37:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
For those that think relationships with a mom can be repaired and dealt with, I urge you to remain silent unless you know an entire situation. For all we know, the asker may have a mom that's seriously abusive in some way, and encouraging him to "suck it up" because it's his mom is horrible advice.
That being said, to the asker, if you are a certain age, you can request that your grandparents take guardianship over you. It's a process that has to go through the courts, so you need to make absolutely sure this is what is best for your well-being.
If your mom is abusing you (and I'm talking actual abuse, not just punishments - punishment does not = abuse), tell a teacher or some other family member. Let the adults handle the situation if abuse is going on.
However, if you're just upset because she disciplines you, I'd seriously reconsider your thinking. Parent's can be a pain, but leaving a stable home because grandma spoils when you visit you isn't a good idea. Grandmas do spoil - it's what they do, hehe. However, if you were to live with your grandmother, there's a good chance that the special treatments will stop. Afterall, once you live under her roof, she has to act as your guardian as you safety is now her responsibility 100% of the time.
Be smart about this and don't act based on emotions. Think things through, talk about things with your grandmother, and let the adults help you.
2007-07-24 11:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't get rid of your Mom. No matter where you go in life, what you do or whom you live with...your Mom will ALWAYS be your Mom.
I know where you are coming from. I had a hell of a time growing up living with my Mom too. She is still one of the most cruel and cold hearted people that I know.
I didn't realize it, but while I was living with this woman and being treated worse than most people would treat their animals...I was learning. I was learning how I did not want to be as a mother and as an adult.
While it may not seem like it, you are learning too. You are learning to be a better person because of the circumstances that you are in. You are going to use these experiences to better yourself in the long run.
Look at this as an opportunity and a learning process.
2007-07-24 11:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if the grandma is your moms then think about it if she raised your mom to be that bad she will be even worse .....does she knows you want to get rid of her own flesh and blood? You wont find happiness living with your grannie but why not ask her to spend some nights you will get the idea and give up.......but hey when the time comes you live by yourself you will miss your mom and you want your wife to be just like your mom.....
2007-07-28 02:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom is gonna live with you...don't think about how mean she is and think about it this way...
"This is the woman that held me for 9month when she could of send me elsewhere like every other mother might do yet she kept me with her; a few weeks won't kill me".
Talk 2 your mom and be the calm one in the conversation and if she end up saying harsh words 2 u ...simply ignore it because she's your mom.
I'm saying this cuz i been there,looking 4 a life in other words "privacy"...your mom loves you and she doesn't know how 2 let go so she decides 2 leave with you so talk 2 her and she may understand.
Start like this " Mom, i love you and its cool having you stay her with me but i just wanna b alone rite now...i hope u understand...etc
1) explain y u wanna b alone
2) where she may go
3) you just need ur space
2007-07-24 11:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2007-07-24 14:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say i cant really help you on that cause i have not seen or heard from my mother sents i was 3 n i live wit my father if you want you can email me at barroom_babyblue@yahoo.com n we can talk some more hope to here from you
2007-07-24 10:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by misty m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of? seems alot of people are useing grandma's to raise up kids, which is very sad today,, you give no age, so ill say shes your mother,, shes the boss until your 17/18 years old.. so deal with it like others do... maybe change your thinking will help too......
2007-07-24 10:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go to court, and if you aren't old enough to do that, call Child Protective services.
2007-07-24 11:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Blondy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG! That sounds awful..well try to love your mom. Make a life for yourself so you do not have to be in that hostile situation OKAY. best wishes *
2007-07-24 10:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ashely 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you only have one mother,so try to make the best of it,the grass is not always greener on the other side
2007-07-24 10:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋