Confused about a friend's affection?Is it liking ?Can we have affection for a relatively new friend?

Question

I am a 25 year old married woman and I met this girl in my friend's place some time back.I liked her and I immediately connected with her and I knew that she also liked me.We met for 10 days consecutively as we were organising something together.
Initially ,she was also friendly towards me.then from the third day onwards,she started ignoring me.I didn't mind that as I barely knew her.
Then,from the fifth day,she started imitating my dressing style,hair style, and being very affectionate to me.she used to sit very close to me(not even 1 inch apart),would caress me every now and then and would come into my personal space on the plea of whispering something to me.As I am not a very touchy feely or expressive person,this kind of behavior from a same sex person started freaking me out.This lack of reciprocation resulted in resentment in her behavior.Still,she was signalling that she likes me and expressed the desire that we should hang out sometime.I liked her a lot.
but is it only liking on her part or something else?

Answer 1

You'll never know unless you do what me and the boys call "BALLZIN UP". Which basically means confronting her on it. Tell her that your not a very touch feely person but you don't want to upset her you just don't know how to react. Hopfully if your clever enough with confronting her, you'll get your anwser. Get use to specking your mind, life is ten times easier, now, go, go, practice!