i hate my bro girlfriend and I live with him and her only she gets on my nerves and i cant really disrespect her but i want her to get the idia i dont like her and never will i have dispised her for years we have no relationship whatsoever...i want to give her some kind of sighn in my actions towards her any help?????
2007-07-24 10:31:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she disrespects me and i cant live with my mom and my dad hates me my mom does drugs and my grandma doesnt have a room for me im only 15 i got kicked out of all the scholls in my district and this ***** doesnt like me i can notice it and i want her to get the hint i hate her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-24 10:54:22 · update #1
MOVE OUT...maybe she is tired of you being there...have you ever heard the word...indirect...maybe she is doing that for you to get the hint....it's always someone elsefault.....
2007-07-24 10:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, where you live with her, there's not much you can do right now. Once the two of you have different addresses, it will be easier- I'd start with avoiding her. If she ends up marrying your brother, you don't want to completely burn a bridge- I'd still be decent.
I have a sister-in-law I don't really like- She's immature, vulgar, mean... I avoid her, but because her husband is my husband's brother, I am polite. When she's rude, I tell her. Same when she's mean- I simply tell her that she's being mean. And I pray on a regular basis that she will someday grow out of it.
I also have a brother that is the meanest little beast ever. (You should hear some of the catty things he's said to me!!)Maybe I'm a chicken. I don't visit or call unless I absolutely have to. At family events, I'm polite to him and his partner. I've recently started walking out when he gets on a soapbox about something.
2007-07-24 10:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to let her know you hate her? Obviously you're not real close to her, and she probably gets the feeling that you don't want to have a close relationship with her. But letting her know that you hate her (and there's no subtle or nice way to do that) you will only be hurting your brother in the process. This is the person he chose to spend the rest of his life with, so the best thing for you to do is just be nice.
2007-07-24 10:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your actions probably let her know that you don't like her, or are you two faced. Are you nice to her in front of your brother, and a complete jerk behind his back. You need to find another place to live if you can't respect your brother's girlfriend. It sounds like you have been living there for some time, you have a choice to be nice or leave.
2007-07-24 10:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be willing to bet after all these years she pretty much knows how you feel about her.
2007-07-24 10:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her. dont' talk to her unless you have a direct question or are asked a question. she'l catch on. but don't say anything you'll regret.
2007-07-24 10:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by stephanie l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,you live with them.get your crap togeather and move your sorry butt out.
2007-07-24 10:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by dona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cold and happy
2007-07-24 17:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋