theres this guy that people have been telling me that he likes me,and i like him a little too,but i'am kinda scared of getting hurt again and giving my heart to someone else who might just stomp on it again,and i'am supposed to hang out with him on friday,i guess you can call it a date but im just scared thats all.
2007-07-24 10:17:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel. That's a normal reaction. Take it sloooooooooowwwwww. Build a friendshipship foundation when your friends their is no expectations.
2007-07-24 10:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off you didn't tell me your age. Guess it doesn't matter tho, because, matters of the heart are always sensitive. You don't have to fall in love with a guy to have a date. Just consider it something to do, to have company doing something fun. Who knows, you might end up having a lot of fun. Just be yourself and things should work out. If not, then when the night is over the date is over. But, never give up that there is someone out there for you.. There is always someone out there for everyone.. When you least expect it !
2007-07-24 10:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen758 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, live like you have never been hurt. That is the best advice I can give you. If you walk around with a guard up because someone in the past hurt you, life will pass you by. It is not worth letting the person who hurt you know they got the best of you. Smile, take a deep breath, and go for it! Give the guy a chance, you never know what he might be going through. Just dont allow yourself to jump in too quickly.....
2007-07-24 10:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Miss. American Nightmare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you just need to take a chance. You may get hurt again, you may not, but you're never going to find out unless you try. You can't keep comparing every guy to the one that broke your heart. They are two different people. Don't let one ****** keep you from finding someone really great! Hang out with the guy on Friday!!!!
2007-07-24 10:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready to date yet-- you should still be hanging out with a group of friends until you get your act back together.
2007-07-24 10:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with the guy and dont wear your heart on your sleeve
2007-07-24 10:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by weenie773 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well here is the thing dont rush into anything. Get to know him really good first before the word "Relationship" comes into play. Dont do anything that you are not comfortable with good luck!
2007-07-24 10:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry i cant help u i feel the same way i dont want to be alone in life but am fearful of getting hurt again i am one of those guys who is sensative...lol
2007-07-24 10:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by u know who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is scared and nervous to get their heart broken but it's a way of life. you'll never find true happiness and love if you don't risk it.
2007-07-24 10:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make small talk. Keep things safe. Get to know him. Concentrate on just being his friend. Someting will happen.
2007-07-24 10:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋