It is going to be my first time having oral sex with my wife who doenst have any past history of sexual activity just like me. We have both tested ourselves for stds and are both virigins. Would like to know whether it is necessary to wear a condom while engaging in oral sex as I trust my wife's health as well as mine.
2007-07-24 10:11:25 · 25 answers · asked by dsa7691 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No need for protection. You have been tested. Just have fun!
2007-07-24 10:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa!! Let's back up there Shane ol'man ! 1st of all if you or your wife havenot had a previous history of sexual activity and are "virgins" then can you please justify the STD testing?? I also do not know of any condom that can be obtained for oral sex!( and for what would the purpose be?)What are ya going to do put a condom on your tongue? I would question also just excatly how old are you and how long have you been married? I think before jumping into any thing having to do with sex,that you need some education on the subject first!! No insult intended..Good Luck to you !!! (you are gonna need it!!)
2007-08-01 08:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by SpellCaster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats so cute and admirable no if you have been checked what would be the purpose for it you cant get pregnant like that which would be the only other reason for a condom besides protection against diseases.
Advice: if you want her to keep doing it and not have a problem with it make sure you make it comfortable for both of you by
shaving the area well enough to not have any accidents choking on a pubic hair plus hair absorbs a certain sent that
you want to stay away from.
These have been bad experiences for most people ask around and read on how to do it ( both of you) you dont have experience so its important to know what your doing and learning together is fun and the chances of doing again increase and trust me you will want it to.
MOST IMPORTANT tell her when you are about to climax it might be to scarry for her to do it for the first time knowing any minute it can come and will the taste be to her liking its a nervous thing at first let her taste its not so bad after so she will know if its something she wants to do and be comfortable.
2007-07-30 13:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by laflaca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah dont listen to any add that says use a condom when engaging in oral sex. as long as your wife stays away from 10$ male strippers then you are ok and as lond as you keep your equipment clean she will be ok as well. lol just be aware of the fact that you will love it but most girls do not enjoy giving oral sex to anyone. good luck
2007-08-01 02:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude do not put a condom on if your wife is going to give you oral sex. because after she tastes that condom she will never go down on you again so just trust her if you have no stds you have nothing to worry about. Have fun... just watch some porn and u can learn a lot from them. hope that helps.
2007-07-24 17:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
oral sex and condoms?... i dont know about others, but i dont like sucking on rubber. and its more pleasurable if u do not use a condom... and since u guys are all checked up on STDs and etc and are both virgins, i guess the only thing left to do for a nicer experience is a good bath. i like it better when my guy is fresh and clean.
but if u're worried, get flavoured condoms i guess. thats why they're flavoured.
2007-07-24 17:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are both virgins and plan on having a monogamous marriage then there is no reason to use a condom for oral sex.
2007-07-24 18:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even though this is the first time, wear a condom. and them decide if you want to go without it. Test the feel and the outcome of the whole event afterward.
2007-08-01 12:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately not, condoms are mainly for girlfriends and boyfriends and mosltly someone you don't trust/know so since both of u guys are clean go for it .it's more sweet without just imagine eating a sweet with paper that's how it feels on a condom, enjoy and happylove making
2007-07-29 18:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by 2q2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a bath togheter and use a lot of soap. Even without STDs, if your genitals are not clean she may get a infection. I do not see the condoms "necessary", just optional. discuss it with her.
2007-07-24 20:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Darth Eugene Vader 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes wear a condom because if you don't she could get pregnant before you get married and you don't want that unless you both have agreed on it then it is ok to have sex without a condom
2007-08-01 11:41:13 · answer #11 · answered by netra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋