Why do men feel the need to cheat when they have a good home life with loving wife?

Answer 1

Obviously the home life isn't as good or as loving as the wife believes it to be.

People cheat when their marriages are not fully satisfying, they cheat when their marriages lack something that they need/want. Most people don't cheat willy nilly. No, this is usually the final act of a desperate person who sees NO OTHER WAY to get what they need/want. This explanation doesn't make cheating right, but it is a valid reason as to why people cheat.

Answer 2

They do it for all kinds of reasons so remember it is about them not you! Some are never satisfied with only having one person and some are sex addicts. You can be the most beautifull person in the world and it just dosen't matter to these types. They are very dangerous people to care for and fall in love with when there are so many diseases out there that they can bring home to you. You can only take so much abuse from them before you have to give them a choice to get help for their problem or ask them to leave. It is so difficult to ever trust them when they break your heart. You never get over it ....you only learn to live with it and that's alot of work emotionally. Please know that cheating is always a choice and it is never the fault of the one being cheated on. Take care now.

Answer 3

Well there is no one answer to this.
- Some do it because they are not happy with the physical relationship at home.
- Some do it because they want to get away from reality (home) and live a fantasy life
- Some do it for curiosity. To see how it's like being with other different type of woman.
- Some do it to feel sense of security. It could be emotional or financial.
- Some do it simply because they can away with doing it.

General advice for married women: Oh, it is so easy to get married to any man but it is so difficult to keep him in your fist.

Answer 4

For the life of me, I don't know. I would never have gone looking for someone. I made a vow, a choice, he was my choice forever, come hell or high water. I never even suspected. What a sap. I still don't get it and its happened to me. Sorry. Some sites say its because the spouse had an unfulfilled need. But heck, don't we all? And I didn't go and sleep with someone else! Good luck.

Answer 5

Cheating happens for a number of different reasons. If you want the answer to your question, you need to ask him. Everyone has an opinion as to why people cheat, but the only person who can really answer the question is the cheater.

Answer 6

Because they want sex!

All else can be great but if he isn't happy with the sex, it's usually a deal breaker.

I have to add that many women think that the man is just as happy with the 'home life' as they are... many times the woman assumes the man is happy and ignores the signs.

Most men I know who cheat, do so after years of fighting about the quantity or quality of sex with no improved results.

Answer 7

Men dont like the same things in bed over and over again, if you want your man to not cheat on you, do some role playing, think of new ways to keep other women off his mind, heres a good tip for you. Take a cup, fill it with hot watter, put some hot watter in your mouth and dont swollow it (you can if you want after you're done), suck him off and he will be all over you like a monkey on a banana :)

Answer 8

Are you sure he feels that he has a 'good home life'? I'm not saying that this is a good reason to cheat, but maybe you should talk to your husband (assuming you are talking about yourself) and find out if there is anything bothering him.

Answer 9

To me men always want to feel they are needed and wanted
even if they have a good home life. Perhaps they feel they are not getting what they want at home. Or just plain stupid.

Answer 10

Some men always dream of the other side of the fence, then when they get there they find out there is another fence, and another, until they have lost all since of right or wrong. They really don't have a reason, they are just selfish.