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Is anal sex bad to do? healthwise
I've been tempted to have my husband penetrate me analy but Im afraid it's gonna screw me on the long run (no pun intended)
I've heard how great it feels and wanted some advise first before I mess my *** up.

2007-07-24 09:22:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Anal sex with a long term partner (like your husband) really eliminates the biggest healthrisk with anal sex and that is STDs. Hemmroids is probably your biggest health risk but this can be minimized by trying to reduce friction and make sure he goes very slowly.

My suggestion is use lots of lube and have him insert very slowly, also if he is bigger, you may have him use a finger or anal toy first so you can slowly get comfortable with having an object inserted there (your anus is much tighter then the vagina so unless you want to be in a lot of pain, do some anal foreplay like I just described). When he is ready to insert himself, make sure he uses a condom (you do not want to risk his penis getting infected) and inserts at a speed you are comfortable with. Also do not cross contaminate, if he has been in your anus, make sure he washes it off before he inserts it into your vagina.

Incontinence and stuff are not usually an issue unless you are having lots and lots of anal sex (everyday). If you do it every so often, even every other day, that should give enough time for your sphincter muscles to tighten back up. frequent but not constant anal sex should not loosen you up so much that you have any bowl control issues. Also if for some reason you do find yourself having less control, stop anal sex for a few days, if it still hasn't tightened up, try some kegel exercises. Kegel exercises can actually be great in having you get better control of your own sphincter muscles to tighten and loosen under your own control during anal sex.

Remember go slow, use lots of lube, and enjoy it is a very different experience for both the man and the woman to have anal sex, one that both partners should find enjoyable as long as they trust each other and go at a pace that is comfortable for both of you :)

2007-07-24 17:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 2 · 1 0

I think if you're lubed up and he doesn't force the issue (no pun intended) and use protection, then maybe it's ok. Patience is important.

2007-07-24 16:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0 0

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