I'm about 5'4, brown skin, dark brown eyes, perfect length hair, average sized, nice job that pays real good, nice car, BANGIN personality, nice teeth, NO>>pimples, big forehead, big nose, ugly feet, etc...or anything like that. Never been in jail, no babies, very educated, I got goals, dress nicely WHEREVER I go...I mean, the list can go on and on and on. Im not conceited or anything like that. I have a lot of friends who think im really funny. So, I know I have a good sense of humor. To anyone who's reading this....please tell me whats wrong with me. I don't think im perfect but I can't find anything thats wrong with me that could lead to me being single. Im single and I've been single for a while now and cant find anything wrong with me. I know I shouldnt go after love, and I've waited for it to come to me many times before. Please tell me whats wrong with me or tell me what I should do. Is it me? Is it them? WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? ***Please, serious answers***
2007-07-24 09:20:14 · 5 answers · asked by Latina Diamond 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, besides our looks (and the fact I'm a guy), you and I sound very alike: goal-oriented, mature, not conceited, funny... And single. I've been single for over three years... I find that most girls my age don't want a guy that's smart and goal-oriented. They'd rather have the drunk, "hott" football player. When people start to grow up, you and I will be hot commodities... We'll have money, looks, and personality.
Have patience and good luck!
2007-07-24 09:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen carefully - being single does NOT, absolutely NOT, mean that there is ANYTHING at all wrong with you. You are NOT any kind of failure because you've tried to get something and haven't yet, or looked for someone without finding them.
Love is complicated, and it doesn't always happen just because you're ready for it. It doesn't matter if you're looking for a boyfriend, a job, a house, the perfect pair of shoes, whatever... the search may be frustrating, but that doesn't mean it's impossible or wrong. What you're looking for is out there somewhere... but it will take perseverance and luck to find it. Think of it this way - maybe the right guy for you is on special order. So you don't know when he's coming, but you'll know he'll be awesome. In the meantime all you can do is get ready for the delivery, and practice "trying on" the others that come your way.
2007-07-24 09:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O k i see u have a GIANT SIZE EGO!!!!! even still it could be u what ur friends think is so great may not seems so great to others. then u could probably seem very intimidating to men were they would b like naw . so the list could go on and on but i would say do some soul searchin and bring it down a couple ov thousand degrees. and try not to be u as much!!!! and with that i mean i have a nice smile a good job,long hair etc etc etc
2007-07-24 09:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by sean a 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should definitely go out places with ur friends and try to find some guys!Good Luck!
2007-07-24 09:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur problem is ur tryin to hard let them come to u
2007-07-24 09:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Queen T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋