I want to find some ways to make my my bf feel loved and appreciated. I have low money, if that helps. He is a great guy, he's fa great father, he's funny, sweet, caring, works hard, and he's adventurous. I need help, I feel bad cuz I'm hard on him sometimes. Plz help!!!! I'm up for anything.
2007-07-24 09:46:43 · 8 answers · asked by Jenel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At the minimum.. ask yourself if you're hard on him for his own sake. If it isn't the case.. then you can try being not too hard on him.. and be so for the right reasons... and when it happens.. once you get to the cuddling (meaning it's all good already) let him know that you're like that because you care for him.
You can start with being a better girlfriend to him. Perhaps the amount of tolerance and patience you have for him is great.. but if you love him that much, then perhaps extend it a bit more.. but with proper reasoning still. Be more understanding.. and always tell him when he does a good job. :)
Like a previous answer, you can make a great homecooked meal for him... and when he asks what the occasion is... tell him it's just a day for thanking him.. because he's a great partner.. a great father.. and overall.. a great person. :)
2007-07-24 10:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rogee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can get the house to your self for an evening then try this
cook his fave meal, get a bottle of wine or campaign, some red roses and candles. make him a bath set the table with the candles and chill the wine. after you do that use the Rose and pick off the petals and drop them leading to the table and then away to the bedroom lay out an outfit (could be some silk boxers or just maple syrup ) cover the bed with petals and then you get in to a very sexy night gown or (just your b-day suit with a tie around your neck) and then I don't have to tell you what to do next.
and then just let him know how much you mean to him
good luck
p.s remember that you are in charge that night be aggressive they tend to like that lol
2007-07-24 17:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by fancy4not 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What about just opening a bottle of wine and listening to some music.
Gets you in the mood all the time.
Then seducing him.
Be the aggressive one, show him how much you want and love him.
Not much money involved in this except for the wine and that can be a cheap but good wine for around $10
2007-07-24 16:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey jenel
what most guys would say is turn him on a little and maybe have sex, but what i think you should do is send the kids for an over night to maybe their friends place and then prepare him a candle light dinner, then prepare a romantic bubble bath with roses and tell him how much you love him as you guys are bathing and then whatever comes next is your choice
2007-07-24 16:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you love and appreciate him. And do it honestly. Do it in a way that you would want someone to tell you that you're loved and appreiated if you were standing in his place.
2007-07-24 16:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by livemoreamply 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a back and foot massage followed by passionate love making.. with roses, chocloates, etc. (Get connected emotionally and physically)
2007-07-24 16:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by littlemama882003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him a good homecooked meal and tell him how much you love him.
2007-07-24 16:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, a women can be hard on a guy "conspiracy" or what?
AAAWWWWW, poor thing..OH, please!
2007-07-24 16:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋