i really need help becuase the last time i saw her she was mad at me and i wan't to make it up to her by being friends again.
2007-07-24 09:35:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just say your sorry and you miss being friends with her. Nothing worth losing your frienship
2007-07-24 09:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by mariaaa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't say anything. Maybe she's not a friend that you really want around. My very best friends and I have gotten into TONS of fights and have NEVER stopped talking to each other for more than a few days.
You can tell when someone's moved on and forgiven you and when they're still holding on to the grudge. Ask yourself whether you really want to be around someone that holds on to their anger like that? You may be better off without her.
It's sad I know - losing a friend is never fun. I haven't talked to one of my friends in 6 months cause she's still mad at me for something I did. I've made the effort and called and requested to see her, but still no response. She obviously isn't interested, so I've just backed off. This is someone I've known for ten years!!!
She's decided that what I did was bad enough to make her willing to sacrifice our friendship and that's just okay. My other friends haven't cut me off, so there you go. I think fights show you who your true friends are. The ones that will ALWAYS be there, will ALWAYS be there.
Who knows? Maybe somewhere down the line she'll forgive me and we'll be friends again. Until then, I have plenty of other friends to spend time with.
Hope this helped. Good luck!!
2007-07-24 16:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
... Hi?
... I'm sorry?
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Sorry, I'm having trouble seeing why this is such a big problem because you could just start off the conversation normally and see where things go. I wouldn't start off talking about her being mad at you and I would try to stay away from that topic as much as possible, unless she brings it up. If you really want to be friends with her, then you're just going to have to apologize for whatever it is she thinks you did or whatever it is you actually did, whether or not you want to admit it. As long as she thinks she's right, you're going to have to meet her on her turf before she'll consider being friends again.
2007-07-24 16:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, what happened? You might be in the wrong or she might and is just to afraid to admit it to you. If you are in the wrong and you need to swallow your pride and truly tell her that you want to know what is going on and that her friendship is too valuable to miss. If you think she is in the wrong, but don't feel like it was a big deal for yall to stop being friends then you need to bring it out! I have had lots of friends and some have had to go because they didn't realize what they were doing was detrimental to my health. I never explained nor did I feel like I had to. So evaluate yourself and the scenario before you go poking around to wounds that won't heal!
2007-07-24 16:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by djzlyric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation. First you need to decide how important her friendship is to you! Then just apologize with as much sincerity as you can! Don't expect her to just accept and move on, she may want explanations. Just be as honest as you can. You may never be at the place you once were, but having her around in some capacity is better than not at all right!
2007-07-24 16:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jackson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing with one of my friends. The best thing to do is just pick up the phone and call them. What's the worst that can happen? They will hang up on you? Never hurts to give it a try...
2007-07-24 16:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by clbowman06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can apologize for not talking to her in 3 months and tell her you missed her. You can apologize for anything you may have done wrong. Ask her if she can let bygones be bygones. Give her a hug and start your friendship anew.
2007-07-24 16:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat up some cool stuff, like the news or whatev.
then invite her to a movie and be nice! hopefully she'll be nice too and yall can be godd friends
2007-07-24 16:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out with a super apology. Even if you don't really mean it, the gesture is great!
2007-07-24 16:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Alli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say. well u no i'm really sory for what i did and i promise to never do it again and i just want us to be friends again
2007-07-24 16:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by unknown317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋