My "BFF" doesn't talk to me anymore! The last time I heard from her was like 2 weeks ago when I went to her pool and stayed for dinner. After that I called her like two days later to see if she wanted to go catch a movie but she never called back. Today she called me and it said so on my cell so I called her back (becuz i hadn't answered when she called me) to ask y she called and i asked her and shes like no. im like oh well it says tht on my fone and shes like well i didn't and then i said um ok then bye and she said bye and hung up! i dont want to lose my best friend but i dont want her to treat me this way. oh and its not like she found new friends cuz she always hung around me and never talked to anyone else! what should i do?
2007-07-24 09:31:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well the best thing to do is to talk to her. how else will you find out why she is treating you like this? maybe she thinks that you did something to hurt her. and something bugging her or something. Call her. she doesnt always have to call u. mayb thats the deal here? thats wat happened to one of my friends. she and my other friend got mad at each other because one of my friend said that she was always the one to have to start the conversation or cal or something like that. so maybe you need to do that. hope i helped and gud luck.
2007-07-24 09:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you all are best friends forever, then it shouldn't be hard to communicate about this problem. And why the attitude with eachother. She probably called your number by mistake or something. And it's not a biggy if she denies it, just let it be. Try asking her, why she hasn't spoken to you, she is probably thinking the same about you. After all BFF's usually think the same sometimes, that is what makes such a strong bond, am I right.. < (Not a question) Maybe there is a frustration of something that was done or maybe she has been really busy there could be plenty of reasons why she might have not called you.. So just give the benefit of the doubt.
2007-07-24 16:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Glamorous Unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to back off. Stop calling her. Maybe if she doesn't hear from you for a while, then she will call you. You need some new friends. Join a club or hobby group, or just get out there she is not the end of the world..
2007-07-24 16:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible you hurt her, or that someone told her a lie about you? Ask her if you can catch a movie, or meet at ur house for something you enjoy, and ask her if everything is ok, tell her you value your friendship and it means a lot to you. She will at least let you know what's going on, I'd think.
2007-07-24 16:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by black_eyed_sue 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well go to her house that way she won't get away from you and ask her whats wrong and tell her that you don't like the way she's treating you.
2007-07-24 16:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what is wrong maybe you did something without realizing you did it. maybe she just needs space and if it that you need to let her have her space, but don't just sit there and wonder be direct and ask her what is going on.
2007-07-24 16:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mariana M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels the same way as you. When you called her you should have said you miss her.
2007-07-24 16:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her and tell her that. maybe she thinks your mad at her. i mean did you call her at all besides those two times?
also you should try to hang out w/ different people.
2007-07-24 16:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to let her know you miss her. maybe she's just had a tragic event in her life.
for now give her some space, and give her hints.
she'll come back to you. :p
2007-07-24 16:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
rucha, which one????
umm just talk to her maybe she is sad and may be sha just wants to be alone sumtimes!! I feel like i want to be a lone sumtimes and then u bug me!!!!geesh!!
FINEE!!!! im sorry!! now are u happy??
2007-07-24 16:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋