I really kinda like this guy, but I am also trying to get over an ex. But this guy is really cool, but I'm just not sure. help?
2007-07-24 08:41:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The very worse thing that'll happen is that you'll learn something new about yourself (and what you want). The fear of making the "wrong" decision can be so paralyzing sometimes that we can't see it's not that big of a deal. So what if you go out with this guy and find out he's not the one! Good for you, if you do!! So many people stay in relationships just cause they're afraid of being alone and wind up regretting it later.
You never know, he may be the one!!! Maybe that's why you and your ex broke up, so you could find this guy!!! You won't know if you don't try.
I say go for it!!! Have a good time and don't worry about it working out or not. Just enjoy his time.
Good luck!!!
2007-07-24 09:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen some people get so caught up in the physical appearances that they fail to realize what a dunce that person really is. I mean shouldn't the person's personality be more important? Granted I have had my share of gorgeous men and some men that some women would not consider to be hot.
However I found that the guys that were not really lookers treated me better than the hot guys. I mean that doesn't mean that hot guys don't have great personalities and even some guys who are not that attractive have bad personalities also.
I think that it depends on the person and just mainly if you have a great time with him. If you find that you have a great time with him then believe in no time you will find him very attractive because even if his looks are plain to you this personality will definitely make him sizzle.
Give the guy a chance. You won't know until you give him the opportunity right?
Good Luck!
Charlie
2007-07-24 15:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how good you look. If you are definitely a lot hotter than this guy, well then you might regret it later on or end up dumping him when you find someone on the same level as you. Not trying to be mean, but its seriously the way most relationships end up being. It also at times can cause the other person to become very jealous if lots of people are checking you out (if you're really hot).
2007-07-24 15:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Misterman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not going out with him just to help yourself get over another relationship. It is not fair to him and it is not really fair to you. You should be strong enough to get over another guy instead of jumping to a relationship...it is better to be alone (trust me I used to jump from one relationship to another - feared being alone) than to hurt another person. What if this nice guy falls in love with you? And how can you offer him anything if your hurt is not there? Besides my mom told me a long, long, looong time ago...if you can not picture a man being a father to your children you shouldn't even go out with him. And if he is not good looking so what? If that bothers you now why even start with him? I do not think that looks are important as when you get old that will matter little if you do not love each other as a person and if you're not in love with "what's inside". Think about it first...maybe another guy is just around a corner for you and you can just be good friend with this fellow. Or maybe you can take it slow with him and see where it goes? Just don't tell him that you broke up with someone recently and if he asks just say"It didn't work out". Guys no matter how nice they are tend to use your confessions against you when you least expect it. They have a long memory. I hope I didn't confuse you more with my answer. Good Luck!!!
2007-07-24 15:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it would depend on how you look at this person. If you have preferences for the style and looks of the person you intend to date, you should keep them. However if your willing to make an exception, just make sure you don't lead him on and then "yank the cord" at the last second, leaving him depressed. Beware though, rebound dates are normally disastrous. Make sure you could see him as a friend as well, that way respect is kept in the relationship. Good luck!
2007-07-24 15:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sanman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a "great looker" is only part of the package. I'm sure he has other attributes that make up for that. I see no reason why you shouldn't give him a chance. He might be a terrific catch. But there's only one way to find out.
2007-07-24 15:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks really just attract, but if he has what it takes for you to go ahead and wonder and even ask this question, than I think It's worth the chance to give him a chance unless you aren't over the ex because that's not fair to him.
2007-07-24 21:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the chance. Looks aren't everything. My husband isn't a George Clooney, but he's handsome to me. What matters more is that he's a kind, caring, loving person who I want to spend the rest of my life with. Looks fade in time. A big heart and wonderful personality won't.
2007-07-24 15:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by liselle2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything!! I say if you like the guy take it slow to help yourself get over the breakup, and see if the two of you give each other what you need out of life and a relationship.
Just a note... "really kinda" like him? I'm confused hehe.
2007-07-24 15:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yups, its superficial to only base your relationships on looks. If you are attracted to someone in any way, you should be able to make it work. You never know, sometimes love can come in any form.
Check out the classic play about Cyrano de Bergerac. Its an eye opener!
2007-07-24 15:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by Closed for business 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋