They just have no respect for me, and any relationship I have always ends up with them using me, or they cheat on me!
Do I really deserve this? why can i never find some right for me? :(
2007-07-24 08:22:28 · 18 answers · asked by Gemini D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont rush G ! let loVe find it's way to you .......
2007-07-24 08:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by klunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you're coming from. I've gone through the same thing and the only reason I can come up with is because I'm letting them.. I am so anxious to get into the security of a relationship that I ignore all the warning sign and let myself be used and abused. For me personally, it's this cycle that goes: I want security, get into relationship ASAP, get hurt, feel bad about myself, think I don't deserve better, feel vulnerable, want security, get into relationship ASAP, etc, etc. I don't know if that's you, but it's what I went through. Right now, I'm just taking a break and enjoying being single, waiting for the right guy. Them I'm going to make sure he's everything he needs to be. Good luck! I hope you find him! Drop an email if you want to talk about it
dream.girl71491@yahoo.com
2007-07-24 08:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, as a guy I have the right to asy that we are complete asses when we think we have the upper hand in a relationship, I personally like a controlling woman and I think that is why I would never hurt a girl that controls me.
2007-07-24 08:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Noe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of all the guy you have in the past? Look at their face, the way they think and speak. Put it all together and see if you keep falling in love with a certain group. If so, leave that group of guy and find another guy.
Their are guy that are tall (good looking depand on you), make good money, and don't drink (no clubbing as well).
So he can be a little or a lot boring. So can you love this kind of guy?
2007-07-24 08:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't. Your picture is very small but you look like you're very pretty, and you sound like a nice girl.
As for 'finding someone right', I'm right here! ;)
Just kidding - probably just you've been unlucky. Maybe try not to pick the guys that are jerks. Us nice guys never seem to get how that happens.
2007-07-24 08:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by pilotmatt19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know you I can't say for sure. There are good men out there that won't cheat so don't give up. There is someone for everyone and your someone is waiting for you right now. Make yourself available without coming across as desperate and you'll be fine.
2007-07-24 08:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by David B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unforunately, most of us seem to pick the same type of guy and the same thing happens over and over. Try to meet someone in a place you normally wouldn't meet someone. Or just wait, Mr. Right will come along and he'll find you!
2007-07-24 08:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by curvygal31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we nice guys exist... You're either looking in the wrong places or haven't gotten past the "bad boy" time of your life. It's always the obnoxious, loud-mouth guys that give us a bad name. Try looking for a guy that's not always in the spotlight...
2007-07-24 08:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these guys are proabaly getting u prepard for something bigger to happen in ur life either somth worst or better u never know! but its maybe a lesson. start to go places u like maybe to the beach or to food store and meet a whole some guy there!
2007-07-24 09:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Gabrielle.A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear maybe u are attracted to jerks- a lot of nice girls have this problm- u will have to chose a good (possibly boring) guy if u want good treatment-and no one deserves to be mistreated so no you do not deserve that-
2007-07-24 08:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by multicurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and i know when guys use girls, honey,simpley they use you because they can, why they can ? because you let them, why you let them ? because you dont know what to do,you have lack of confiednce,when you dunno what ur doing people can fool you,mistreat you,yours a boy in a shop he dont know whats hes looking for so the owner can get him to buy anything by giving him crap,you my friend need to high you work on your self first,(look,people skills, etc) BE A HOT SHOT BE A RARE GIRL,and then dont go after any guy, and if a guy you really like ask you out thats fine,,,MOST importantly,guys check your policey,for example,if you let them use your car even tho their cars are fine, that means you give up things for them that means yours easy,(trust me they do think that) only give stuff because they need to not because they WANT TO!!! one day he didnt call you ? so what, dont flip on that,hes checking you out, hes testing you see if you were crazy about him once he realizes that then he can play you good, FIRST IMPESSION COUNTS! dont let them see your weaknesses, bye
2007-07-24 08:32:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋