Guys, how would you have taken that? He says it made him feel uncomfortable and is mad at me. By the way one of his friends bought me a lap dance and I think that bother him too.
2007-07-24 06:47:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I know I should be thankful that he wants to be true to me and I am, but my actions were not mal intentioned. I just wanted to learn so I can do him later and what other place to learn than Vegas. He said he wants to think things over between us. I don't know how to apologize anymore...
2007-07-24 07:16:25 · update #1
All sounds fun to me. Tell him to get over it because what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas!
2007-07-24 06:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by handyman7799 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think your guy is acting rediculous, but I don't know his personality. It seems like you 2 would have talked about how you felt about being in a strip club. It really doesn't seem like you know each other well or can read each other well either.
Personally, my fiance would love that. We've been to strip clubs a few times together and I love watching him get a lap dance. One time I went up on stage and got a lap dance from a guy! My fiance loved it! But, this is my relationship. I know my relationship well. I think you should get to know yours a little better.
2007-07-24 16:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Brooks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see that you are getting alot of answers here both positive and negative. Did your fiance not know what happens at a strip club? If he were uncomfortable with the lap dance he should have been uncomfortable setting foot in the place to start with! Do you think he would have been that uncomfortable with a naked girl on his lap if you weren't there? I bet not!!
2007-07-24 13:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really? Your fiance must be a bit of a prude, because lots of guys I know would LOVE it if their woman even let them into a strip club, let alone purchased them a lap dance. My man and I like to go to the strip clubs sometimes, and we actually have plans to get his-n-hers lap dances sometime, for fun. I think you sound like the best almost-wife a guy could ask for! However, now that you know stuff like that makes him uncomfortable, just apologize and promise not to do it again.
2007-07-24 13:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that is crazy. have you ever given him any money when he goes out because you probably have paid for many more lap dances than that one. i could care less if my fiance goes to strip clubs he always comes home to me. sit down and talk with him and ask him what the difference is between you being there while he's getting a lap dance and you not being there? maybe he just felt a little uncomfortable. good luck with this one.
2007-07-24 17:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Amy l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I go to strip clubs at with mine all the time. He loves it when I guy him a lap dance. He like to by me them. But if his friend bought me one I think he would be a little upset with them and probably me. I would sit down and ask him exactly why he was upset. Then just let it go.
2007-07-24 13:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by Va princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... you've got yourself a unique one. Most men I know would love that, and then their girlfriend/fiance/wife would be able to take full advantage of the teasing later on behind closed doors. Perhaps he's embarrassed that another woman could turn him on right in front of you. Perhaps he took it as a test of devotion, not a lighthearted attempt to switch things up.
I'm a little concerned that the man you're going to marry reacted in such an unexpected way. You're going to want to sit him down and talk this one out. Chalk it up to a learning experience when it blows over. And congratulations on your engagement!
2007-07-24 13:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sunnishine 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand how he can get mad if you two were at a strip club together in the first place...what did he expect?
2007-07-24 14:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by LSU_Tiger23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never do that. My fiance would have felt uncomfortable too. He skipped out on his own bachelor party last weekend cuz his friends were going to get a stripper. If I was with my man and some other naked girl was on him... I would knock the b**** out. We don't need to look or feel other people to be happy. We love eachother and you two should too. It sounds like your man is happy to have just you and you should return the favor. You are a lucky girl to have such a devoted guy.
2007-07-24 13:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by mommyoftwo 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If he's that uncomfortable with the situation, he shouldn't have taken you to the strip club.
2007-07-24 13:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Kainoa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋