im in love with a girl but i havent yet told her and not sure if i should. we both live in london but in september im off to cardiff uni for 3 years while shes gona be in london for at leats one more year to finish her a-levels. im not sure whether i should tell her that im in love with because it mean we wont be together for a long while
2007-07-24 06:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by The Greatest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TELL HER!!!!! You'll regret it always if you don't. And if she doesn't feel the same way, you're staring over in a new city. So this is actually an ideal situation for something like this.
2007-07-24 06:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by sleepy_grrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell her you love her then you leave it might not do you much good b/c bettween now and then you cant get much done and youll be gone and shell be there and find another guy i know this sounds bad but it might happen if you really need to get it out tell her really b/c once your in cardiff your gona regret it and maybe itll give her time or maybe she loves you back you two can send letters and keep in touch ok now i think you should making that choice by tellling her might be the best one you made so take that risk and tell her.
2007-07-24 13:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by xemilykx09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her your feelings. But do yourself and her a favor, don't cut yourself off from other people. What I mean is you should hang out with people possibly get involved with someone ect. I say that because no matter what happens if it's really "meant to be" between you two you'll find your way back to each other eventually. Just don't put your life on hold for it is what I'm saying because you might find that the person your really suppose to be with is still out there, she just hasn't come into your life yet. And if you cut yourself off from others how can she find you. Understand?
2007-07-24 13:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by MLJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in your situation i would sit down and have a talk with her.and tell her how you feel.atleast then you knows what she thinks of you as well.and if she does...you talk about what happens next.most people say long distance relationships dont work but it depends on the people.if long distance doesnt work then atleast there will be visits and she'll still be there when you get back.but either way you need to tell her....or once you leave you'll regret not doing it.
2007-07-24 13:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by emma t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way you gotta leave so I think you should tell her so even though your away she'll feel good knowin theres someone loving her and missing her.
2007-07-24 13:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should always tell the woman how u feel they love to hear it.. who knows maybe she will wait for u.
2007-07-24 13:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by gail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, she might like you too.
2007-07-24 13:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion u shud..u dont want to regret not tellin her.
2007-07-24 13:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by swit_babyangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her now you will regret it if you don't
2007-07-24 13:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kennedy w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋