I am an A cup girl, but pretty, nice and lovely.
I know he does think my breasts are small, because he always said I looked beautiful when I was nude, I had the most beautiful sex, etc. However, he nevered said I had beautiful breasts..and, he joked about the size of my breasts couple of times, like when we were on vacation, we saw a very fat girl swimming in the sea, he said "apparently she has no floating problem as you do, she got two bags there.."
Even I think he is more a "butt" guy, seems he is really into my butt, always makes thousands of kisses on it.
But I still wonder maybe he will be a breast man if my breasts are bigger.
I am very sure he loves me very much, but do small breasts bother him? does it matter?
Thanks for your opinion.
2007-07-24 06:41:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am married man and my wife breast is an A cup as well. I love her the way she is not how big is her breast. To me it doesn't matter if her breast is big or a small I still love her. Of course, most guy would prefer a bigger breast. Sometimes I joke with my wife's breast too, but it doesn't mean that I don't like them. I really adore them so much. I can't keep my hands off of them. Most of the time I am not allow to touch her breast, which sometime really make me frustrated, but yeah the bottom line is he should accept you for who you are not for what you don't have.
2007-07-24 06:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Harmless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really answer for him, only he will know the answer, so you would probably have to ask him.
As far as a guy stand point, some guys are breast men, others are butt men, others are leg men, as for me, I like it all. I am not a big fan of large breasts, but if they look good on the woman, then ok, I will be a fan for that woman. You have an A cup, and without seeing a pic of you, I would have to say you are pretty skinny and short, in other words, you breasts probably look good on you.
Your boyfriend joking with you is just that, he is joking around. He is actually making fun of the fat girl more than he is making fun of you.
Please don't worry about it, they are perfect.
2007-07-24 06:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by George P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real truth is that only men who have been indoctrinated into the social myth that equates big breasts to fertility and sexiness, are the ones to make a big stink about the lack of breast size in a woman. Some men tend to opine that they are breast, leg, or butt men but that is all just following an absurd social fallacy.
A true man is attracted to his mate for more than one physical feature. There are myriad things that keep couples together or tears them apart. He may joke about the size of your breast just to be part of the social phenomenon that holds big boobs in a completely overrated status. Whether he jokes out of sheer social momentum or because he is hinting at not being satisfied with your bra size, he is still with you and if he wants to keep you he should make a conscious effert to STOP joking, hinting or inferring anything about your breast size!
Personally, I don't even care if the woman only has one breast or for that matter, none! I seek company in a relationship based on the overall satisfaction I can get and give, not on color, height, weight, or the condition of body parts. I am not saying I am not inclined towards a certain type of woman but I am inclined for reasons other than bra, waist or hip size!
By what you've mentioned I can see you are starting to doubt your self-image. DON'T!!! You are fine the way you are and if he can't live with that, then that is his problem, not yours.
2007-07-24 07:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Breast man or butt man. I have dated women with large breasts and small breasts. Big butts and cute small butts.
It's the whole woman that counts. There may be men that only date or stay with a woman for her looks but don't you think that is kind of shallow?
Would you stay with a man because he has a big dick?
If your answer to that is yes than you in for a lot of disappointment.
2007-07-24 06:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Big Red 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Small breasts are OK as long as you have a nice butt to compensate...which you've said you do. Boobs that are too big eventually start to sag as women get older...then they need a lift....etc... When you get pregnant they will get bigger and that will be a nice treat for him. Don't sweat it...be happy with who you are....I watched a TV show about a woman with breast cancer and she had both breasts removed...how would you like to be in her shoes??....Be happy!
2007-07-24 06:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys small breasts bother guy loves girlfriend
2016-02-02 17:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a guy, sry, but if you're sure he loves you, than he loves every part of you. I have the opposite problem myself, but I am still self-concious.
Play it up, sexually. You get to wear those completely nasty outfits that some of us just can't pull off. For instance, if you saw King Arthur, the leather strap Kiera Knightley has on....yeah, that would physically be impossible for me to even remotely wear. It doesn't have to be a "joke" but play up your breasts w/ sexy outfits, like the ones w/ a hole where the nipple is. He'll totally think that's hot, trust me.
2007-07-24 06:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. small breasts are a real turn on to some men. You do not have to worry about them becoming saggy or loosing there shape. There wonderful to play with. And most of the time have nice nipples on them.
2007-07-24 06:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you carry yourself in a sexy way he would not need you to have larger breasts. When you are naked he does not need for you to have larger breasts. However, if you do not really stick your chest out, but instead look self conscious that your breasts are small he might wish you had bigger ones so you would look sexier when you have clothes on.
2007-07-24 07:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he has any issues at all with your breast size. Sounds like a nice healthy look, and in the future when many women look like the have cow udders hanging to their knees, you'll look great!
DO NOT GET BREAST IMPLANTS! Most men actually hate those.
2007-07-24 06:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by gromit801 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋