I just got together with him about 15 days ago... He didnt seem so peverted when we started going out for the first few days then his younger brother started thinking up preverted stuff up and laughing when ever he grabed or touched me somewhere.. I dont know if he thinks its what I want.. I guess I have some fault to blame myself b/c I wanted to lay in the bed with him and that was it nothing nasty but while we were laying on the bed he kept hugging me and touching me in ticklish spots but when I got close to him he was getting hot and his heart was beating fast non stop till I left does this mean anything what happened to my boyfriend and how can I stop this? Oh yeah hes 14 and I am 15 hes 11 month younger then me..
2007-07-24 04:23:58 · 36 answers · asked by si 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX. GROW UP!!!! IT WILL NOT BE FUNNY WHEN YOU GET PREGNANT EITHER! AHH THE IGNORANCE!
2007-07-24 04:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by babysteaks3 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hi. When I read the question I assumed that you were older. I was suprised to find out what was going on. Not because it was wrong though. There are some particulars I want to share about it.
Girls at your age don't have the feelings for sex that boys do because you ladies know, its like it's coded into your emotions, that the consequences of sex (pregnancy, diseases, and most importantly the emotional involvment that results) are inappropriate at that age.
Guys aren't nasty or sicko or anything else. Not really. The just don't "suffer" the consequences that girls will.
Later, when You are ready, you Might find his interests interesting to you too. You Might go through a phase where you like those feelings and thoughts too. Eventually, if you do do that, you will tire of it and your thoughts and emotions will turn to commitment.
Just trying to help you see and understand what's going on and what will go on.
All my best you, and to all girls/women
2007-07-24 04:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by as;ldkj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always hang out with others around. Lay in bed if its your own bed at home, alone.
Take things slow. You are both still very young. Enjoy being a teenager cuz you will have those kinds of concerns for the rest of your life after you start working until the day you die! So why start so early? Postpone those problems as much as you can!
Be a teenager! Enjoy being 15 and stay away from those boys if you are alone with him...
2007-07-24 04:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by rachel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys see this provacative touching on TV that they're desensitized to it. They think that because they see it on TV and in movies that it's all right. Put him in his place: tell him that you don't like being touched that way and that there's a line he's crossed. I'm sure other people have told you this, but you're too young to be having sex, and too young to be having to deal with the responsibilities and the craziness that having a sexual relationship with someone can do to you and your life. Just let him know where you stand on the touching, etc. and then you guys can go on with your relationship knowing the boundaries. If he can't except your feelings and wants, then he's too immature and not worth it. Good luck! We're pulling for you!
2007-07-24 04:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Agent D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex maniac? No. He's just a normal average horny hormonal teenage boy. Nothing unnatural about that. Nothing to do with you. All you did was excite him. Alot of girls excite alot of boys. Nothing amazing about that. Anyway, if you really are so concerned, you can tell him about it. Say something like, your a little worried the relationship is moving too fast. Tell him, if he wants to stay in it, he's got to stay in it together as a team with you. And he has to stick to the pace your going at. Something like that. You'll know what to do.
2007-07-24 04:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Menon R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't make him this way. 14-year-old boys are thrilled to have someone to "practice" on... he'll push the envelope as far as you let him.
This thing about his younger brother thinking up stuff-- that's just weird! Tell him to get a blow-up doll and go and find yourself a guy with some integrity.
2007-07-24 04:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't turn him into it. He's 14 and has hormones going like crazy, he's already a sex maniac. Just let him know it makes you uncomfortable, he'll lay off. He probably feels it's OK with you. He's just starting to feel out his sexuality. You two are pretty young, so you should cool him off a bit.
2007-07-24 04:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't play with fire, you're going to get burned. You're way too young to be letting that stuff happen, and if you let him get away with that stuff, it will lead to other things, and then yes, your boy will become a sex maniac. He already might be, and I think you need to stay away from him, and if he keeps bothering you, tell an adult you trust. You don't owe him anything, you owe it to yourself to make sure you don't do something you regret your whole life.
2007-07-24 04:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you are much to young to be messing around like this. Second, do your parents know what's going on? If not, they should. And third, it stands to reason that a teenage boy will want more than life itself the one thing he can't get. So, yes, he'll perv out until you give in. My advice: DON'T!
2007-07-24 04:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hoping u r the one...get out of the relationship...u r too young......everytime u are with him...one more step....get out now...before you regret anything.
Fun with a friend should be get some ice cream & go to the beach or movies....walk around the mall spending time together.........
2007-07-24 04:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you did not. It sounds Like you really didn't do anything to invite that behavior from him. It was his doing. Just be careful of the situations that you get into with a guy that isn't ready for but one thing...
2007-07-24 04:32:57 · answer #11 · answered by libra_100270 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋