What are the results of a Christian dating in this day and age and one that is shy. Will that person even have a chance to make it in the Christian world full of morals or will there be a life full of no's no's?
2007-07-24 04:07:07 · 22 answers · asked by Healing_Rain 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just hang in there. God has someone for you even if you are shy and it will be someone who is on the same level as you are spiritually. God will not bring someone who does not serve Him as you do. That would be a unequal yoke and He talks against that. I too am waiting for my man of God but I trust God and know that before the foundation of the earth He knew me and also as it says in Jeremiah 29:11 He knows the plans that He has for me. Just stand on His word and He will bring your woman of God. God bless!
2007-07-24 04:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no reason why you would not be able to find people to date that are Christian. Unlike the other poster which I find little odd that this person would find it unbelievable that there are many Christians on the net or this site.
We are in fact out here as said we are not running around advertising it. Not because we are ashamed but because well it just is not something that comes up alot in general conversations. I have met many great Christians online.
Try to find Christian groups Not so much for JUST to locate a date but to met others who share your same moral fiber as you do. Do a google search for groups or forums that relate to things you enjoy, or even just that have a Christian background.
Also look into the many in person places that offer this type of socializing. There are many Church related meetings, outings, etc. Many cities also hold Christian Singles meeting groups.
So do not give up I am sure there is someone out there for everyone who is looking.
2007-07-24 04:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by mylilsims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I'm not sure I understand your question. It seems to me that shy people have the same obstacles in the dating world, whether they're Christian or not. I would recommend that you go to singles activities through your church. If dances and mixers aren't your thing, maybe a nice Bible study class or something like that would be a nice place to meet someone. Also, since those activities are usually organized and led by someone, you probably wouldn't have to be too outgoing or come up with any conversation topics on your own right away.
2007-07-24 04:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't easy.
Sometimes I think it's impossible myself.
This past weekend I was at a wedding of a good friend of mine, who happens to be a female. I am almost certain that her and her husband were, until Saturday night, both virgins. I hadn't met the guy before the wedding.
The guy was the nerdiest, geekiest guy I have seen in my life. Absolutely unbelievable. Horrible pictures from high school. But, you know, apparently the ol' boy pulled it off! Although the girl is quite a catch, I was never attracted to her, she's not my type. So......it might be awfully rare, but by golly it still happens. If it can happen for that geekboy, I'm still holding out a little hope. :)
2007-07-24 04:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating was a perlude to marriage for eons so to speak.In our time it has moved to reacreational status.It was a way for parents and perspective partners and families to get aquainted.Its really your moral code that guides and dictates this answer.If you want to protect strict christian morales, group dateing in actitives exceptable to your faith.This singleing out should be for a purpose to find a mate, not just companions.It's hard with todays dating scene ,but not all follow christian principles.What works better is to join christian activites and groups. In 1on1dating ur in danger of out control situations for a christain woman or man.It's up to your conscience and principles.Your faith can suffer from improper dating.Choose wisely results can be permanent.Give it prayful thought.Best Wishes.
2007-07-25 19:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by oatesmokid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person sets their own pace and how they will live their own life, and, except for the laws, they can do what they want to do in life.
I got confused as your comment sounds like you're playing both ends of the specter, wanting christian morals, then being afraid there are christian morals out in the world.
2007-07-24 04:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the thing would be to date people who share your morals, if not your beliefs. Go out with people you know and if you're not comfortable with something, then don't do it- you can have fun on a date without doing bad things.
Getting over being shy is a problem in itself, however.... I should know XD
2007-07-24 04:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by piratewench 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anybody in this day and age, no matter religion can date, while in the relationship, you are the one that must make changes of morals and values. It is all up to you to lead a decent life with your partner.
2007-07-24 04:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by SaberToothCali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try dating another shy Christian.
2007-07-24 04:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by MensaMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. if you are looking for mate that has the same morals and belifs as you, go through your church. then you know he has the same morals. and dont be shy.. take control ask him on a date or giv him your number. just to set ground rules, on the first date bring up your belifs, and if he goes to the same church as you, he will probably have the same values and morals and respect and belive your belifs and morals.
also, you can go through your pastor or trusted elder IN THE CHURCH! they know all the guys, so they can choose good men.
and if that doesnt work,... dont give up. i am fighting in this battle too, it can be hard but dont give up, you will have some surprises!
but good luck!
2007-07-24 04:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by BIRRRD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋