Either i don't know how to be a good person, or this is just abnormally hard for me. Family, friends and God just seem to be on one page, but loving my boyfriend at the same time.. i don't know
Cus when i look at him, i forget who i am, where i came from. He steals my pain away, but i can't forget what made me who i am. I seem to forget the importance of family, friends and God.
I JUST noticed this yesterday, and i'm trying to change.
I do realize the benefits of the "single life" but i have no intentions at ALL to break up with him.. cus well.. i love him and he has become a part of my life.
I just need some advice.. help!
2007-07-24 02:27:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like you need guidence and direction ,pray and ask God to direct your path,he will show you how you love ,remember he loved us so much he gave his only son,rthink about it , Remember he left us with a special,
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2007-07-24 02:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, man and woman exist together.However this existence must be a pure one ,not a relationship of fleeting fun or deceitful acts.You are a gift from God to this world,and so is your friend, and your family too.As long as you have a clear conscience and your love for your friend is true,true to last a lifetime,you have no reason to worry.
If you truly love your friend go ahead and make a vow for a lifetime.The joys of a true partner and happy marriage life,are the true beauties of life and God's gift to mankind.
Remember,do not hang-on to a person simply because there is fleeting attraction or for the fear of being a singular person without a man.If the love between the two of you is true,I'm sure your parents would consent and God will give the two of you a really happy lifetime.
2007-07-24 02:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by Porus P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you shoulod evaluate how you feel around your boyfriend: Is your heart filled with love...or is it filled with lust? If it's truly love then you should be able to see him as someone you consider your friend and as a member of your family. Getting him involved with your friends and family will help you to balance better. Try activies like making a dinner party and inviting some of your loved ones. As for God, if you are deeply rooted in your religion, talk to your boyfriend about your beliefs and together you can try to build a love for God. However, if he has no intentions of loving your God, then the relationship probably won'y work out in the long run.
2007-07-24 02:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex broke up with me for this reason. We lived for 2 years in the same house(I was 22, she was 28) but she felt like he loved me as a brother.. we broke up! she regreted but the time does not change. L O V E is sth you hardly find these days. Try to protect what you have with your boyfriend...
2007-07-24 02:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by nikos R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic love does that; it kind of wipes out everything else. Your family, friends, and God, understand. Give it time.
2007-07-24 02:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by bonitakale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK. You're normal.
First start by loving yourself. Get counseling to learn to do this.
Then put things in this order
God
Family
Friends (including boyfriend)
But start by loving yourself. You can't love anyone - including GOD - unless and until you love yourself.
2007-07-24 02:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love god firstly
then urself
automatically u would be loving the rest
2007-07-24 02:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think of your bf as a really close friend and make sure you love him really and not just because ...
2007-07-24 03:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sumedha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋