i'm still a vergin but im thinking not for long. i'm nervous tho b/c all my friends i talked to said it hurts really bad the fist time.
does it get better or is it just them?
2007-07-24 05:36:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep it does hurt for some women.. others it doesn't. It didn't for me but that is because, i think, i was completely ready.. no doubt..
However on another note.. anyone with spelling this bad is to young to be having sex.. please don't.. save it for when the time is right completely and when you are older
2007-07-24 05:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are like stages in life. Dependence when you live at home. Independence when you are on your own and a whole person and can handle what you already should handle. You can imagine what independent means. Not leaning on others, able to stand alone for a year or two without needing anyone. Otherwise you just another needy person. Then two adults capable of being on their own and needing no one, well, that's the perfect guy and gal. What's wrong with perfect? Then he will move in your time and not in effect rape you. Your whole quality of life will be on the level you reach before you get involved, as a pretty good general rule. Hardly anyone teaches you anything, because they don't know. You could look inside for the answers by asking yourself questions and questioning the answers. To judge the answers that come to mind, Einstein said that "if it doesn't sound wrong at first there's no hope for it". The good ideas are the ones you don't listen too, because they don't seem to make sense at first. Examine those and ask questions about those and so on, testing everything in you mind. Then you have a good one..But who listens even to themsleves, just blah, blah, blah. Just listen, all the ideas are pretty much inside your head already as it thinks in pictures and pictures don't lie. Listening is turning them into words and asking about those thoughts and so on to the answers. Then you learn to trust yourself..
2007-07-25 03:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain is minimal and varies of course from person to person like anything else. It also depends on how gentle and patient the guy is with you. If you are young, DONT hurry into having sex. Once your virginity is gone, you cant get it back.
2007-07-24 12:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hurts for some girls (to a greater or lesser extent) the first time, but it does not hurt once you have done it a few times.
2007-07-24 12:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be an idiot. of course it is going to hurt. a foreign object is being rammed inside a spot that has never been opened...so what do you think!!! and your nervousness is the reason sex is for adults and not you little kiddies!!!
2007-07-24 12:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by stop it 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep
2007-07-24 12:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is some pain and there will be for the first couple times. but as your body gets used to it.....it wont hur anymore.
2007-07-24 12:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by whisper_in_the_wind1186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there will be some slight discomfort, but after a while your butt will get used to it
2007-07-24 12:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋