Secret brother and sister sex games growing up?

Question

Have any of you played secret sex games with your brother or sister when you were growing up? My wife told me she did it with her brother starting at the age of eight, and they kept it up well into their late teens. And my wife is one of the most well adjusted (and tremendously sexy) people I have ever known. I know that a bunch of you are going to say, "eeeew!" And I am going to hear you say I am sick, because I think it was ok for them to do it. But if any of you have had a similar relationship with a sibling, please let me know about it and how it turned out. My wife said they quit doing it when they were about 18 because they moved out into their respective lives, but she said she still finds him sexy, and that neither one of them were harmed by it. So what do you think? Anyone else done this? And how did it turn out for you?

Answer 1

Good thing I don't have a brother!

Answer 2

Sister Sex Games

Answer 3

My partner had a similar experience. Him and his sister are year apart and they also had sex through their teens. he is also the most well adjusted person I know.
I think there is not much harm in it if it's kids close in age, and one kid is not taking the advantage over the other and parents freaking out can do more damage than the actual sex.

There is the social stigma and problems with having kids together, but other than that, seemed to work well for our partners.

I'm just treating that ister as an ex, so I am keeping an eye on her, lol...

My Partner is a very gorgeous very smart man, you better believe it she still wants him and he, well he had worse lovers than his sister. She is beautiful and smart as well..

So...LOL

I think as they are both adults now and getting rid of shame tied into it coz they are siblings they actually will have a better relationship than I have with my brother...

So yah, not necessarily a scarring thing at all..

Answer 4

Well I have really thought about this question, and since you are not related by blood, its not wrong to like him, but I think your family might really question it. I wouldn't know what to do as a parent, because you both have to live under the same roof and I would be worried that you all could hook up whenever you want/be alone together all the time. I probably wouldn't tell them, at least not until you are sure you two really like each other. And don't feel bad, its not your fault that you like him, it really doesn't make sense that parents can bring other people into your family that aren't related but still expect you to treat them like blood (not have feelings for them I mean). This kind of sticky situation is a lot more common than you think

Answer 5

I have played sex games with my younger sister and have been involved with her sexually and continue to be! It started when we were 16 and 14. She was in 9th grade and I was in 11th. She used to come back from school at around 6pm in the evening and take her uniform out and remain only on slip which hardly covered her thighs. That was the time when she had started developing breasts but had not started wearing a bra. Her thighs caught my attention and I used to stare at them. One day my sister asked me as to why I look at her thighs and I was really very embarrassed. But as I was apologising she stopped me and smooched me. The rest is history...

Answer 6

I don't know anybody that has had that type of relationship ... but I do remember " playing " around with some of my girl friends when we were younger. Kinda like house - but we were exploring a little more than we knew. I didn't think much of it until my 5 yr. old started masturbating with pillows & blankets - thinking to myself ... well what did I do when I was younger and began to drop my own jaw remembering ... I think some people are just sexually curious earlier on in life than others ... guess I was one of them and maybe your wife was one too ... if she's alright with everything and so is her brother - guess that's just a part of her past that should stay in her past ... strange but there's a lot of things out there people don't know about ... I say move on and forget about it ... good luck ... !

Answer 7

I haven't personally experienced anything like this, but I know many who have. It's more common than people think. Sometimes it's harmful to healthy family relationships and other times it's only short-lived curiosity. Your wife is lucky that no real harm was done, and that no pregnancy resulted. She's also lucky that you're very open-minded and accepting. To each their own, depending on the circumstances, I guess.

Answer 8

I am going to answer this although I have never been involved with any of my brothers. My brothers were older than me but I would still never consider it even if we were closer in age.

I can understand the curiosity and if you have a close enough relationship to your sibling to do the, I will show you mine if you show me yours thing. But at some point I would think it would begin to feel wrong as you grow older. The only thing you have said that I would feel uncomfortable with is the fact she still finds her brother sexy. Don't misunderstand me. I think it is great when we can look at our family and think how attractive they are but with the history they have it makes me wonder if she is still attracted to him, not just his looks.

Answer 9

I can see when there little but se with a sibling in your teens isnt normal and is really sick I remeber doing stuff like that when I was like I dunno 78 9 at the oldest but If your 17 youshould not be having sex with family meber Im sorry its wrong maybe a hot uncle or maybe a aunt orrr maybe a cousinnn ...... butt ,,, I suisnter thats a little belwothe belt but whatever floats your boat but what bothers me is how you, are so non chalant about it If I found out my boyfriend did that I'd be in disgust man !

Answer 10

my sister (20 months younger than I) tried once....maybe twice..but we were like 8 and 6......we certainly didnt continue into our late teen when we actually knew what to do.