i had a quarrel with my girlfriend because of her bad manner which i have corrected her time without number and she wouldn't change but this eventually lead to our our break off, but each time i remember her or see her picture in my box, i always remeber the time we were together and i keep loving her the more. but there a was a certain day i called her on phone, but the ways she reacted and talk to me on that day made me believe that she had not change at all. what should i do? should i go to her and talk toher may she will change her manner or should i forget about her and find another girl.
2007-07-24 06:04:46 · 8 answers · asked by Benonis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People don't realize how much they love someone or how much something means to them until they are gone. One thing I've learned over the years is that you can't change people or make them change; they have to want to change themselves and from there, make it a work in progress. So unless she is willing to change, she will continue on with the same bad manner. You have to realize though, it is very rare for people to actually change their patterns on their own and even then they usually fall back into the same pattern. So I would find another girl.
2007-07-24 06:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Rachel The Great ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Why does what she does bother you? Is it something that only you are affected by? Is it a mannerism that society dislikes?
If it is just particular to you, then why does it bother you so much? If she is a girl you could really like you need to decide which you are willing to deal with...her mannerism or life without her.
2007-07-24 06:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try talking to her again first.
Here is an idea: Try setting up a date and take etiquette classes together. Talk to her about it so she won't feel embarrassed or disrespected. There is always room for improvement in everyone.
Good luck and if you love her she is worth the try.
2007-07-24 06:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Pear36LL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it bothered you so much that you corrected her, and the two of you argued about it, then chances are she is not going to change.
If you are willing to be withsomeone that has no manners than by all means try it again, I am betting you won't be happy.
My vote? Move on
2007-07-24 06:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Michael H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her and move on.
There's a/b 250 million adults in this country.
About half are girls.
Out of 125 million girls - there's bound to be at least who is nice enough for you. Most are probably nice.
Go find the one you really want and need.
And, be nice to her.
2007-07-24 06:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by idplmali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her.
You are not her father. Anyone you feel you have to correct you don't need the aggravation. You're dating. You aren't married to her. Get it together. Move on.
2007-07-24 06:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some girls are just rude depends on what she is being rude about. but if you don't think she is treating you right maybe you should find someone new
2007-07-24 06:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lara M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another girl, you cannot teach old dogs new tricks
2007-07-24 06:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by ilovelilPhof 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋