and the feelings have changed for this other man i am starting to like him.should i tell him how i feel?
2007-07-24 01:17:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just don't do it again .. and be loyal to ur man
2007-07-24 01:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by badboy_11011 1 · 5⤊ 2⤋
What has happened in your marriage to make you interested in someone else? You need to get to the root of the problem to know how to fix it. Then once you have figured it out, then sit your husband down and talk to him about it. Let him know your feelings about what ever is going on between your husband and yourself. And let him know that that is the reason why you did it, even though you know it was wrong. And assure him that it stopped at the kiss. Nothing else happened. Let him know how truly sorry you are, and don't blame it all on his friend! Your marriage is the most important relationship you will ever have, and you made vows to him and to God. Do the right thing and work out your marriage. And the best place to find advice is at
www.watchtower.org
2007-07-24 08:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I don't want to judge, I'm sure lots of us out there know what its like to develop feelings for other people that we are unsure about. Are you positive you have real feelings for this other man? Or do you think they might have evolved through boredom. You need to seriously think about your marriage and whether you really want to be in it or not. I think your husband deserved your complete honesty, and you need to expect some harsh consequences. Cheating does not usually end in a good relationship by the way, it normally ends rather quickly, how could you stand the guilt? How could the best friend stand it?
2007-07-24 08:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your husbands best friend - lets face, it - he's going to find out at some point. Best off telling him the truth. Not sure that taking things further with his best friend is such a good idea - it can only end in disaster for everyone!
2007-07-24 08:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without sounding judgemental, think you should either leave it by a one time thing or start by talking to your husband.
Dont know the circumstances, but to my opinion you should be faithful to your husband.
The so called best friend doesnt go free either, you dont do that amongst best friends, I take it you didnt force him with a knife.
This can only go very wrong to my opinion.
2007-07-24 08:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by Gwen1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dint tell your husband keep your mouth shut about it tell this other man it was a mistake and try and see your husbands best mate as little as possible when hes around find something to do but be near your husband when you cannot get rid of him .............unless you really deep down want to end your marriage think about this and what you will lose just because of a kiss is it really worth it .
2007-07-24 08:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have 2 men on the go. Its unfair on both of them. If you no longer love your husband split from him before forming a relationship with another man.
2007-07-24 08:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by HeatherzFeatherz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what can i say u naughty girl.haha
Well how about just saying to your man that you want a 3sum and see what happens. Then select the friend and see if he is ne good in other areas.
Then if you do still want him i say use the 3sum as a excuse to leave ur man then he will not find out u cheated.
Hope that helps
Chri$ x
2007-07-24 14:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by chri$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your husband tell him he should understand that you meant nothing by it, and that u still love him and need to gain his trust. he will find out best he hears it from u . but if you do really have a lust for the friend u need to make sure it is true and not like a crush that will ruin ur marriage. sme couples do need another lust in life to realise what they already have. im sure that u will choose the rite step.
hope i helped xx
2007-07-24 08:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your husband he will only think worse of you if you try to hide it because it will come out in the end . You should also distance yourself from his friend as it was probably only the danger of getting caught that attracted you to him in the first place.
2007-07-24 08:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This shows just how much you think of your husband and it tells us all what kind of person you are.First you should sit down with your partner and tell him the truth{like what you did with his so called best mate} and give some thought to this so called best mate,what dose this say about him.to me he is a low down rat and you and him deserve each other.
2007-07-24 09:46:54 · answer #11 · answered by hans m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋