theres this girl at my school iv liked her for a long time but never really done anything about it. iv been noticing her allot more lately and i want to talk to her but i don't know if she wants to talk to me if she likes me or what she thinks of me. her friends hate me and i don't know what to say. i want to talk to her but i just don't know what to say i don't even know if she'll like me.
thats me..
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2007-07-24 00:02:14 · 10 answers · asked by Nevermind 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem with you is that you are not her friend yet . So , try to win her friendship first .And,how do you do it ?If you really like her ,don't rush into this matter . Move with a slow and steady pace . Be the first one to offer help ,if she requires it . Make her know that you exist in this world .Be , careful not to tell her that you like her ( be patient ).Soon , she realise that you really care for her. Once , both of you become friends , start to find out what she likes ,what suprises her,etc . Don't tell her that you love her(be patient).Make her smile as much as possible .Girls love people with a good sense of humor.Don't rush to express your feeling .Very , soon she will realise that you like her ,and she will start liking you too. Now , try to find out how she feels about you through the way she talk to you ,smiles at you ,through her gestures,etc .If ,everything looks perfect , go for it . Express your feelings for her to her. But , remember do it in a romantic manner . They just love it .
In short :
Before telling her that you love her , try to win her heart.
2007-07-24 00:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by VIJAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you never know unless you talk to her. You can't predict what she will say or do. Don't talk to her in front of her friends. Talk to her sometime when she isn't with them.
Girls are just normal people and just talk to her the way you would anyone else. Everyone gets nervous you just got to feel the fear and do it anyway. The worst that could happen is she blows you off or is rude in some way, big deal. But your never going to know unless you actually talk to her.
2007-07-24 00:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not getting the whole story..sorry...I dont know why her friends dont like you but I do know that if you "feel something" for someone you should "always" tell them! What do you have to lose? She will either talk and you can start your relationship or she wont ..and if she dont..then you know how she feels and you can move on but sweetie...never ..never not let someone know how you feel..ever...the worst is that they wont feel the same way but at least you will know and if they dont...then they werent worth your time any way and someone else is destined for you any way...ok? Take care and God Bless!
2007-07-24 00:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worrying about what she'll do won't get you anywhere dude. Instead of thinking deeply to this, find ways to bump into her, don't get someone to help because if she finds out, she's going to think you less of a man. No one in the world can ever predict the future, if you don't get with her, in time someone else will snatch her from you.
So do it like Counter Strike: 'Fire in the hole, go go go!'
2007-07-24 00:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you just gotta frigging go for it! like, seriously. there is nothing worse than a guy who doesnt make a move. just go straight up to her and tell her exactly what you feel, because when people beat around the bush, it can drive a girl nuts. just go for it. your choices are either take the risk and maybe get exactly the outcome you want, or spend your whole life wondering "what if?"
2007-07-24 14:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bring up something neutral, like a current movie, a new song, something like that...."hey, did you see that new transformers movie (or something a normal girl would like). then when she says yes, you talk about it, or if she says no, then say "well, i thought it looked pretty intersting....and start talking." Be casual, dont worry about asking her out yet, start with trying to become friends first.
2007-07-24 00:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make friend with her friends. they will help you know her better......
OR you could just step over to her and tell her that you think she's really nice looking, and you feel that if she gave you the chance you could prove yourself quite interesting too!
Remove your fingers from your a**** and be what your Dad made u. BE A MAN!
(I told my babe that I loved her after 7 years of knowing her,
(dont do what i do, do what I say)
2007-07-24 00:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as her liking you, you'll never know until you try, (i didn't say ask). you can't just walk up to her and say,"hey, do you like me, because i like you." try to find out what she does like by watching some of things she does at school. maybe you can find something you both like and can talk about to get the ball rolling. also, if she doesn't like you because her friends don't like you, your better off without her.
2007-07-24 00:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her when you r just two of you, and if that will b to hard for you, write her a note n let her know that you wanna sometime with her, to xplain something
2007-07-24 01:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by kare007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first look built up your courage and start talking to her and it doesn't matter what her friends say or think about you just stay positive
2007-07-24 00:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋