well i m 20.i meet a guy last year.he was ok but thougth him as a hero.we talked to each other in d phone.?

Question

gradually he convenced me 2 lov him.but besides he felt interested about my friends.after some time he show me that he really loves me and my friends means nothing to him.he do this just to make me jealous.but it crossed the limit.he talked to girls in phone go out with them but didnt let me know that.when i found out i started to avoid him.he noticed and become alart.he then make me feel that i m the one for him.he was always very romantic,caring.but in my sad day he was not there for me.he just say'sorry i wasnt there for u'. he didnt proposed me.just indirectly want to tell me that "u have to start it.first he called me every day.but the gap started to 7days 10days when he called me after so many days he blamed me for not calling him.but i was afraid that if i call him often he will notice that i love him.one day i become feedup with him and without saying anything i stoped calling him.he didnt call me for 2 mounths.10 days ago he called me for2times.should i call hi back?

Answer 1

Ouch, maybe for the sack that you'll learn your lesson, but I don't think you know enough to know which lesson that is. Frist ROMANCE is a very, very small part of a deep and meaningful relationship, but lol thats all you have. Second he could never make you love him, you made up your own mind, which you need to accept because thats the way you type it later when you hide how much you love him. Third this guy is no friend and therefor you have nothing there with him but hopes and dreams, let go of the fantasy hunnie. Fourth love is a very, very powerful thing, and what he has for you lol, isn't love.... also you don't really love him, you have warm disney feelings for him which means you have a attraction to him, a interest, a desire, a want. But true love requires more then that, a need, and hunnie if you need this, you most truly hate yourself....