I have no kids and he has 3 kids. the oldest is 17. He doesnt look 40 he looks 28.
2007-07-24 22:43:34 · 21 answers · asked by DeliciousOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We really do love each other. Its jus kinda weird cuz my parents just turned 50. He is not married and neither am i. i just wander what the future holds for us
2007-07-24 23:08:52 · update #1
he sounds a little insecure about women if he is dating someone young enough to be his daughter.
2007-07-24 22:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. Big time. Think about it in reverse..... Could you date a 6 year old? That's a 17 year gap between this guy and you. What advantages would you have over a 6 year old. Are the same advantages he'd have over you. He's attempting to relive is life through you. Is the best thing I can say about this guy right now. You don't seem to mid a 6 year gap, BUT his eldest is too young for you, as the gap in teens should be doubled. But this is not as bad a time gap. 6 years = thought 17 years = what the f---? PS your just starting the adventure and your fresh. Please keep yourself well, or you will carry the burden and the baggage of some else who passed it on to you. PPS are you prepared to be a grandmother when his eldest could have a baby at any time now? Do you want children and grandchildren at the same time? Ohh there is soo much to say.
2007-07-25 06:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter as they say. But let me asked you, do you really love the guy? What about him? Do you think he really loves you? If you are sure you are both in love and serious about your relationship then there's nothing wrong about it. What about if you are both serious and end up getting married, do you really like to be a stepmother of 3 kids? Do you think you can handle it? You are just a kid yourself? Another thing, when he is 60 and you are on your 40's, i think that causes problems. He may have suffered some illness that time and your life just begin, as they say life begins at 40 lol...Bottom line here is that you are just a kid enjoy yourself.
2007-07-25 05:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by gem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to date a man that has children 6 years younger than you.? You do realize that he will be acting old while you will still be feeling young. What about having children. His children will be entitled to part of everything that you and he build together, should something ever happen to him. Also speaking of kids, he is really too old to be having children. If he had one today, when the child was 10 years old, he would be 50 an too tired to spend time with them. He would be also 60 before the even graduated from high school. That is 2 generations away fromt he children. that would not be fair to them.
2007-07-25 05:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares about his looks unless you are that insecure or shallow as to be scared what everyone else thinks, and if so, you probably arent going to hit any great relationships while always caring about random strangers more then your partner. Aside from that with age comes alot of things, potential wisdom, time lived, baggage. If you know and understand what im talking about and your not fazed by that, then you should do well. If you dont get what im talking about then there is a potential for some very serious hang-ups in your future.
2007-07-25 05:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No in fact a know couple with a similar age gap she's 25 and he's 42 both divorced and they make a great couple! They both have kids. If it works, it works. Do what makes you happy ,but no matter what don't ever come between him and his kids.
2007-07-25 05:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he make you happy? Thats all that matters, if you are happy and see nothing wrong with age, then do what you want! You're young and if it doesn't work out, you still have many years ahead of you! Don't take into account what others around you say, its your life, live it to the fullest!
2007-07-25 05:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Smitten Kitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he looks younger its normal to fall in love with someone that looks 28 instead of 40..
but u know this relationship will not last, he is usin u to feel young....he has kids, that means he puts u last...
his kids might even convince him to break up with u...
then u will b broken hearted..
ur young, go find u some fresh meat!!!
2007-07-25 05:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady , you are feeling guilty ?? for dating a man more older to you...
or you are not getting along with the aged man of 40...
or you are worried that you will be criticised...
Your problem is not clear.. Morevove you hae not specified your marital status and his status..
are you both married, or both singles
what is the picture..
2007-07-25 05:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES trust me on this one his children will not respect you. My exhusband divorced me for a women 5 months younger than our son and both my children hate her because they say that she is young enough to be their sister.Then they find things hard cause of the age difference on is more mature than the other and find they have different goals in their lives
2007-07-25 05:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by temptress196269 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a man who was 26 years older than me. It didn't work out, and it was the worst relationship of my life. He didn't unederstand me, and vice versa. Because of him, I only date guys 5 years older than me or less. It might work out for you, but for me it didn't. Good luck, just be sure you both have the same values for marriage and children. For example, if you want to get married and he doesn't, or if you want to have children and he doesn't.
2007-07-25 05:48:32 · answer #11 · answered by baby_doll_738 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋