what should i do to make him feel secure he doest feels good if i talk to anyone.he wants me to be with him always.what should i do?
2007-07-24 23:25:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Possessive is not healthy. Pangs of jealousy and protectiveness are normal in every relationship but when it becomes unhealthy it will damage the relationship in the long-term. There is nothing you can do to make him feel more secure, if you indulge this side of his nature by always being at his side, never doing anything without him, he will get worse so you feel totally trapped. A part of a healthy relationship is spending time away from each, so you can miss each other and cultivate your feelings. You need time with other people and pursuing your own interests in the best interests of any relationship so you really value the time you have together, and have something to talk about etc. As long as you trust each other, being apart sometimes can only serve to strengthen any relationship. Talk to him.
2007-07-24 23:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hi, Possesiveness is also a form in which one shows his/her Love , until or unles it does not cross a limit . So plz its you whom have to understand his problem and make him feel that you are for him. Ask him to make friends of his opposite sex , then he could some time understand the value of true friendship. So its you to decide whether his possesiveness can b changed or not . All the Best
2007-07-25 00:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possessiveness is not a healthy sign in your boyfriend. In the long term it will make your life miserable and unhappy. Try to change your bf's habit or u may need to change your bf.
2007-07-24 23:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant make him feel secure hes a control freak he doesnt want u to have any friends and you need to get away from him because hes only going to get worse i know i had an abusive relationship it starts out this way then they start knocking you around dont say it cant happen bec it does. he isnt going to change u will u will loose your identity and become his little scapegoat trust me i know what im talking about
2007-07-24 23:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by marianne l 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
the only thing that you do to make him feel secure is to be possessive on him, i too had the same problem, so i too started being possessive on him for each and everything now he is not too possessive but manageable. guys are like that, they expect us to do what they do to us, just try this out and tell me wat happened
2007-07-26 22:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by puppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem sweety... Well just be yourself in front of him. If he loves you he has to understand you and more importantly BELIEVE in you!
2007-07-25 03:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Dia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is possessive there is nothing you can do about it, he will never, ever be secure no matter what you do. If I were you, I would run!
2007-07-24 23:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tel him how great he looks, how wonderful he is, how much you need him, etc. Then send him to a pyschaitrist to learn to be confident in himself.
2007-07-24 23:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
neglect hi s worries ...well u know such kinna lovers need a regular reminder that u love them .., thts it thesolution....
2007-07-24 23:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by nivesh s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs therapy. You can't change him, so either accept it or move on.
2007-07-24 23:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋