I know how I feel about about it but I would like to know how others feel. This is the kind of conversation that goes on between my wf and other men either face to face or over the net usually with guys she knows. This is what I found recently
From Guy
Hay mate Good to catch up with you. Even if it was just on the net.blah blah I'd like to get up there just to get away. If we get a wink wink on the side, that's ok. blah blah I was just thinking how good it would be getting away from it all and making you wink wink every where,lol, blah. blah got training on tonight so It'll be late when I get back. I may miss chatting with you.blah. wink wink you one day,lol.
Responce from my wife
hi ya mate, u have to watch what you say in your emails mate, daughter just read it, she is upset with you talking to her mother like that, lol, i so cant wait untill to you do
Sorry I had to delete and start again it was a mess and unreadable
2007-07-24 23:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry for the benifit of gizmo I will add the whole message its just that I only had a certain amount of room and see no real difference but here we
wifes reply
hi ya mate, u have to watch what you say in your emails mate, daughter just
read it, she is upset with you talking to her mother like that, lol, i so
cant wait untill to you do ( but i will be waiting a long time lol)
chat soon my good freind
2007-07-25 00:24:12 · update #1
and original message (this is now way too large a message) replacing swear words with wink wink
From: "MRX"
To: "MRSX"
Sent: Recently, 2007 5:58 PM
Subject: PM
> Hay mate
> Good to catch up with you. Even if it was just on the net.
> I haven't had time to do any thing lately. I'd like to get up there just
> to get away. If we get a wink wink on the side, that's ok. I haven't had time
> to do that ether. I'm in a bad way. I was just thinking how good it would
> be getting away from it all and making you wink wink every where,lol, sorry, in
> one of toughs moods.
> Any how, the reason for sending you this is that I've got training on
> tonight so It'll be late when I get back. I may miss chatting with you.
> Be good and stay safe. wink wink you on day,lol.
> MRX
>
As you can see from gizmo she seems to think this is ok and I am out of touch. Please have your say
2007-07-25 00:28:38 · update #2
She is flirting and making plans to see another guy. I would say that you definitely have the right to be angry. Tell her to stop the emails, or get out!!
2007-07-24 23:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many people think it's ok to flirt over the internet...=(...and many think it's ok to meet up w/ exes now and then...=(...Then again, some ladies like to lead men on...just for the heck of it...and have no intentions of meeting up w/ anyone...this is wrong...in any case...! You need to remind her she is married and has children at that...and give her an ultimatum...stop talking to these men in this way...or you will pull the plug on the computer! =). I would also find out if she has met anyone yet...and did the "deed". Sit her down...even if it takes hours...you must confront this issue...otherwise you will always wonder...=(...
2007-07-24 23:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an email something like:
Hey mate
Good of you to catch up with my wife and NOW I've caught up with you. I hope you can make it to wink wink so I can wink wink your ears.
I will be back late but I may not miss chatting with you because I will be chatting with MY wife wink wink.
2007-07-24 23:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should tell them the hole story, the message was from him like that but my reply was i cant wait unti you (i will be waiting along time lol) as if to say that it will never happen and it was not just to a male that i meet online, but to a married man that i ahve known for a long time, i know his wife and there kids, now tell me i am flitting
2007-07-25 00:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by gizmo_macca_au 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run mate ,somethings are not worth the effort.
2007-07-24 23:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Charlotte's Dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound innocent to me, it sounds sneaky and mischievous.
2007-07-24 23:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋