Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

I am 34. I have never had a girlfriend. I am still a virgin. I have a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck and balding. I have NEVER asked a girl out in my entire life. It's because I am ugly. Even when I was younger, I was a dork with glasses, plus a big nose, a skinny face and way too skinny, though I did have hair. I am real depressed about this. I am going to end up alone for the rest of my life. I want to fall in love, get married, have kids and raise a family. But I can't talk to girls because I am ugly. What should I do?

2007-07-25 12:47:28 · 28 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

i have my aunt staying with my family and my cousin her 17 year old son kicked my dog because he sat next to him on the sofa and i snapped at him and my aunt got mad at me and started crying her exact words were "why are you getting mad at Gorge over your stupid dog" should i feel bad?

2007-07-25 12:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

would you be turned off by you're gf if her breasts were two different sizes?

2007-07-25 12:46:28 · 5 answers · asked by maya 2 in Singles & Dating

S Help. guy i need your opnion.?
there is this guy i know used to like me and i used to like him. well, we haven't talked much in a while, but he has asked e to study with him and a friend out of nowhere, and then i asked hi t play tennis with me and he agreed and we played. i felt that he really might like me but i am unsure. now today my friend just told me he had asked him whether he likes me and he didn't respond but just walked away. and he asked him again and he walked away again. what does thi mean

2007-07-25 12:46:11 · 14 answers · asked by Ladislav K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 12:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'll try to sum this up quickly. Ever since college my husband has been unsure about his career. He got a history major b/c he didn't know what to do and thought "I can always teach." Soon after college he married and joined the Army - again avoiding choosing a life career for the next 4 years. After the Army he got a job at a factory b/c the pay and benefits were good. Once again, avoiding the career issue.

Now he's frustrated with the factory job (he can't really advance like a professional would). He wants to find his career. He hates math and science so med school and engineering and electrical and other such jobs are out. He has no interest in law school. So we're back to teaching. But we can't support a family of 5 on it and pay off debts.

Any other career ideas? And guys....can you tell me if is this a common problem with men??

2007-07-25 12:43:01 · 13 answers · asked by Veritas 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I found the most BEAUTIFUL dress but it does not come in a color that is anywhere close to the color that I want for my wedding. I'm sad.

2007-07-25 12:42:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been married to my wife for near on to 5 years now, last year we went through a very bad patch with money and during this time my wife cheated on me a few times on nights outs with her friends though she swears none of these times lead to sex just kisses, though I did find emails and txt messages from a couple of the guys that she was still in contact with. when I found out and confronted her we spilt up for a short while but got back together and she swore things would change I later found out she was still in contact with one guy (diffrent guy from the ones before) and after a weekend away with me she slept with him on the night we returned, I chose to forgive her and move on as I wasn't as model husband I never cheated on her but didn't give her the attention needed. we are currently together but not living together and its been a while but I can't forget what she never starts sex anymore and says she just isn't sexual person but she jumped into bed with another man.

2007-07-25 12:41:43 · 27 answers · asked by TJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 12:41:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a pretty girl and i'm 14...i have like more than 12 guys crushing on me..but i ignore them cause i'm not interested..i have been voted pretties girl in my class...and the one boy that i like doesn't like me back..i mean..come on..what is this..he said i'm not his type..well..he didn't tell me that.. he told one of my friends.

2007-07-25 12:40:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so at camp this year I met this super cute guy. He was blonde with brown eyes. The camp was in California and the only thing I know about where he lives is that he lives in California. I forgot to get his address and e-mail. Now I'm really sad because I might never see him again. I know this sounds cheesy but I think he was my soulmate. I really miss him. What should I do can anyone help me find him?

2007-07-25 12:40:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend says he has always wanted a son and so have I. However, I don't mind if we have a daughter just as long as our child(ren) is healthy. He on the other hand seems to be pushing towards "I wanna son" and says it doesn't matter, but I think it would.
I want 4 children, he wants 2 boy/girl, but he says if we have 21 girls and a bus...with no boys we would still be trying for a son. So, is he satisfied really with whatever God gives us or is he just saying he is to make me calm?
* We aren't pregnant just ironing out situations before we tie the knot.

2007-07-25 12:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by Queen 4 in Singles & Dating

now its esculated he is sleeping on sofa now and he told me not to flaunt my body i only do this as a make up thing i feel so insulted what would you do if this was said to you married to him for 20yrs jeeze flaunt haha

2007-07-25 12:37:57 · 9 answers · asked by astra 5 in Marriage & Divorce

now its esculated he is sleeping on sofa now and he told me not to flaunt my body i only do this as a make up thing i feel so insulted what would you do if this was said to you married to him for 20yrs jeeze flaunt haha

2007-07-25 12:37:27 · 2 answers · asked by astra 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've looked for her rings, none have the size in them. Obviously I don't want to get her a ring if it's the wrong size. How do I get it?

2007-07-25 12:36:46 · 30 answers · asked by Keith M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a single mother and a few months out of a fairly long relationship.I have met a few men, but it is my "policy" that none of them meet my seven year old son. They are all "friends." We are not in a committed or sexual relationship, but some of them are offended by this. Should they be?

2007-07-25 12:36:11 · 11 answers · asked by GIG45TXFL 3 in Family

a guys asks you for sex while you never knew him beforeeeeee?
if u are a girl.. how would you reply
if u are a guy... y do u do that
i was once passing my journal to some friend and then a random gay in my claa wrote for me that hea wants to have sex with me in his car????!!!

2007-07-25 12:36:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

need someones advice..i like this man whom i met in my work enviornment (no longer work there) but the only problem is he still lives with his babys mom (and has two kids with her) but says shes too jealous. he was honest enough to say he was with her (he couldve said he was single)we havent done anything and he hasnt tried anything. trust me he is really respectful and hasnt even tried or said anything disrespectul which is why i like him so much.we only talk on the phone he said he likes me and that that has nothing to do with the realtionship he has with her,he said the problems theyve been having are nothing new. he hasnt made any attempts to see me,but calls me often why do you think?

2007-07-25 12:35:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i know used to like me and i used to like him. well, we haven't talked much in a while, but he has asked e to study with him and a friend out of nowhere, and then i asked hi t play tennis with me and he agreed and we played. i felt that he really might like me but i am unsure. now today my friend just told me he had asked him whether he likes me and he didn't respond but just walked away. and he asked him again and he walked away again. what does thi mean

2007-07-25 12:34:58 · 3 answers · asked by Ladislav K 1 in Singles & Dating

is it wrong to cheat on your spouse that you been with for almost a year because of sex....well i been dating this guy for 11 months and i was talking to this guy before him and i use to mess around with this guy for alomst a year and i called him today out of the blue and he was telling me how much he was thinking about me and he wants to see me but o love my boyfriend dearly but the other guy is very sexual and i like that about him and he made me remember what we used to do and i got really horny but i dont want to cheat on my boyfriend, i dont wan t to hurt him.but over all my bf and i have sex and we planned on doing it today but we didn't i had to go straight home ...but my boyfriend and i are the sane age but the other guy is 4 years older than me.......what should i do? i dont want to hurt my boyfriend and he' slike my world but i dont want to betray my trust with him but the other guy jus want sex and i just want a one night thing...........

2007-07-25 12:34:57 · 5 answers · asked by Tamika B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 12:34:38 · 9 answers · asked by theheytings 1 in Weddings

2007-07-25 12:30:35 · 6 answers · asked by seadog 5 in Family

2007-07-25 12:29:35 · 15 answers · asked by chinagateimports 2 in Weddings

We have found the perfect engagement ring on Isreali Jewellers. It would be an internet purchase.
Can anyone recommend them? I found the perfect ring, really unusual, but am hesitant about buying on line.
Thanks

2007-07-25 12:29:09 · 1 answers · asked by bluegirl6 6 in Weddings

2007-07-25 12:28:56 · 6 answers · asked by raz ma taz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He yells at me for little things I do. Our neighbors have called the police twice because of the yelling. This hasn't stopped him from yelling even. He has yelled at me during the day and said the police wouldn't be called because it wasn't night time when people are trying to sleep. I know we need to find a marriage counselor. But is there a medication for people with an anger problem?

2007-07-25 12:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by jojo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me what goes through your minds. Do u think about the hurt you are inflecting on innocent people?No really I really want to know. I already know that the married people are very much to blame but they can't do this without your help.I'm not whinning about any situation just want to know.

2007-07-25 12:27:43 · 7 answers · asked by jusayg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, I have a question for you guys. When you are looking for a girl to date, does it matter what size she is? Just curious!! Thanks for the answers!

2007-07-25 12:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by livelaughlove 2 in Singles & Dating

well i am in the point where i am almost free, soon to be 18 in less than 2 months, and well my relationship with my mom is super bad, she is a controling, possesive person that she wants things done her way, i just cant stand her anymore we fight like every day, and if i get her mad she punishes me by not letting me go out with my boyfriend, the truth is that i am thinking of moving with my boyfriend as soon as i turn 18 but i dont know i think i am too young for a comittment that big, but my mom is pushing me to the edge... what should i do??

(p.s she doesnt listen to me so there is no way of talking things)

2007-07-25 12:21:41 · 7 answers · asked by babygirl17 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-25 12:21:20 · 18 answers · asked by boo bones 3 in Other - Family & Relationships