need someones advice..i like this man whom i met in my work enviornment (no longer work there) but the only problem is he still lives with his babys mom (and has two kids with her) but says shes too jealous. he was honest enough to say he was with her (he couldve said he was single)we havent done anything and he hasnt tried anything. trust me he is really respectful and hasnt even tried or said anything disrespectul which is why i like him so much.we only talk on the phone he said he likes me and that that has nothing to do with the realtionship he has with her,he said the problems theyve been having are nothing new. he hasnt made any attempts to see me,but calls me often why do you think?
2007-07-25 12:35:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about why he calls, it could be emotional support he doesn't get with his girl or maybe he wants to get in your pants. You need to find a guy in a better situation to have a chance. Please, move on from this.
2007-07-25 12:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by David B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows - maybe he just wants someone to talk to and you're a good listener. Personally, I wouldn't get involved with someone who lives with the father/mother of their children. They have a family and things would almost certainly get complicated. Best of luck to ya'!
2007-07-25 19:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by anaconda23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her is setting you up to be his safety net. That is, if things don't work out with momma, you will be there for him. You are his #2 choice, or his "good for now girl". Don't do this to yourself. You are worth waiting for someone who will treat you like a woman.
2007-07-25 19:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mess up this guys family and his relationship. coming from a woman who has 2 kids. i wouldnt want that going on behind my back. tell him to stop calling and work on his relationship with his girl. and plus if she is super jealous (like me) then dont mess with her man. it might not be the best outcome.
2007-07-25 19:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mexicangrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That kind of relationship is sinful. What would you feel if you were in the place of that woman? would you be happy? Get someone who is single and doesn't have any child.
2007-07-25 19:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by rb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can do alot better than a man who has two kids AND stays with his baby mama.
2007-07-25 19:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by FAMU GIRL 09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not seriously considering hooking up with a guy that lives with him babys momma and their 2 kids?
Theres greener pastures out there, dont graze on this one.
2007-07-25 19:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋