well i am in the point where i am almost free, soon to be 18 in less than 2 months, and well my relationship with my mom is super bad, she is a controling, possesive person that she wants things done her way, i just cant stand her anymore we fight like every day, and if i get her mad she punishes me by not letting me go out with my boyfriend, the truth is that i am thinking of moving with my boyfriend as soon as i turn 18 but i dont know i think i am too young for a comittment that big, but my mom is pushing me to the edge... what should i do??
(p.s she doesnt listen to me so there is no way of talking things)
2007-07-25 12:21:41 · 7 answers · asked by babygirl17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
O.M.G!!! that is so crazy im in the same situation well was but i was living with my dad and we fought almost like everyday. But listen i an away. Whatever you do dont do that. Because now i have to live with my aunt until i go to court to live with my mom. The best thing 4 me was to stay away from him and not barely say anything to him. Do what your told but try ur hardest to jus say away from her. You'll be out of there soon anyway. But about the boyfriend thing, I think you should do it. If he treats you rite and you love him then go 4 it. But make sure u find a job so if anything goes wrong u have something to fall back on so you'll be able to get your own crib. and not have to go back and live with your mom anymore. Feel me
2007-07-25 12:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's with the playing house stuff? Why can't you just look for a roommate and get a job and move out and share an apartment and have a good life? I wouldn't have your boyfriend figure in this at all except as a person you continue to date if you want. Since when do you have to jump out of the frying pan into the fire - from living with your mom to living with a guy? Date and have fun. Buy clothes and travel. Honestly, live a little - why would you want to 'hide' inside a fake 'marriage' where you play house and call this guy your fiancee although you have no wedding plans?
2007-07-25 19:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe write her a letter explaining that you're planning to move out but that you still love her. Maybe say that you hope that when you're not under the same roof you can mend your relationship. If you're the last one out of the house and she's a little bitter about it all taking steps towards reconciliation will make all the difference. It would be awful if you left her house on bad terms. Please try to fix it for your own peace of mind.
2007-07-25 19:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by cosmic_beads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, both my sister and brother moved from home when they were 16 and 17... i will move as soon as i'm 18... so i cant see what the problem should be in moving?
2007-07-25 19:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may need to move out as soon as you turn 18 to protect your own sanity; however, i would not suggest moving in with your bf unless you are ready. there are plenty of other living arrangements you can find to live on your own or with roomates. good luck...
2007-07-25 19:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by sportguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, your mom is afraid of loosing you I think.
2007-07-25 19:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move ...that simple ...move ... start packing and as soon as your 18 ...move ... end of that chapter of your life .... time to move on and start your new life ...just becareful
2007-07-25 19:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋