Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

Is it sexy for a woman to go "commando" or do you prefer a thong. Option 1 is what I have been doing for the past 8 years, but I just wanted an HONEST opinion- boyfriends just try to be nice about things:) Thanks guys!

2007-07-25 10:37:46 · 17 answers · asked by ~♥Amanda Dawn♥~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 10:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by jake 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been w/ my bf for awhile,and we both are very attracted to each other,and feel like were in love. im 13,and hes 14,and we both are very mature,and responsible.He told me that we should try to progress are relationship,and i think/know now that he wants to have sex.He said we can def. wait,and he told me we dont have to,ut im starting to think that i want to.I think im mature,and old enough,i know the consequences,and i think we could be safe on that part.

i know im really young to have sex,but i feel like i wana,i think im ready,but i feel its too early,i know some ppl will say its WRONG and i shouldnt,but im confused,cuz i want to,but i think its wrong..

help,im confused..!!

2007-07-25 10:27:55 · 84 answers · asked by ♥[[Thesweetestgurl]]B®i♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 10:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm married with 2 kids and I love my family dearly. Recently I went to a family members funeral and met up with a cousin I hadn't seen in over 20 years. So we started talking (on the phone we live very far away). Out of the blue he texts me and says he's in love with me and always has been since we were kids. I love him I really do and I think I have the same feelings for him but I know it can never be. It's just all kinds of wrong. So what should I do?

2007-07-25 10:24:10 · 29 answers · asked by Sexy Anna 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Make children and forget them......why?

2007-07-25 10:23:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is not meant to be an offensive quesion. I am 24 and when I was ten or so, I saw playboy for the first time and saw it many times. In that era, pubic hair was the norm, now many girls tell me that is no longer the norm.

I was wondering if body hair removal in that area begins because,

1. The girls in men's magizines and videos are doing it.
2. Because older sisters and firends are doing it.
3. Worried about what men might think.
4. Worried about what the doctor will think.
5. It is more confortable.
6. A boyfirend or husband is requesting it.

And when?

1. When it comes
2. Later teens
3. When married

All info would be apreacited. But lets please keep it clean and abide by yahoo's guidelines. If you have a 13 year old, please don't post anything you wouldn't want them to read.

2007-07-25 10:22:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its hard, I know, for her to deal with one day All of us being together and the next 2 weeks apart. She loves him so much. He may be going into rehab right now, or out on the street, not really sure. I just told her he was not feeling well and has to get better. I feel horrible. Who cares about me! I just wish she is okay on the inside. Its hard to tell how she feels, she is so small but so smart too.

2007-07-25 10:21:36 · 4 answers · asked by Ileen P 1 in Family

I feel sorry for those who feel ugly (not necessarily are ugly).

Do you think that appearences have to do a lot with self-esteem?

2007-07-25 10:21:31 · 26 answers · asked by thinkperfect 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend just told me last minute today that she is having a pool party tomorrow. And when she called she was like "I was just wondering if you have a one piece bathing suit" and I was like "No, why?" and she was like "Oh, well I just thought it might be better." That really bothered me, because I wear bikinis, but not tiny string bikinis, and she's seen them. And when we went swimming at a lake with our class, she was complaining about all the girls' bikinis when they weren't even that bad. Her parents and her are very strict about that kind of stuff, and I don't even own a one piece because I don't like them. I feel weird going over there in a bikini, and I'm kind of hurt by what she said. What should I do? (They are mormans, so I think that's why they are so strict.)

2007-07-25 10:19:33 · 33 answers · asked by DunderMifflin 3 in Friends

she lives abroad with my son if i dont give her wat she wants i dont get to see my son why is she allowed to do this?

2007-07-25 10:15:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I found out I was pregnant about 3 days ago. Im only 18 and was with my bf 4 years. (we broke up b4 i found out). I have so much ahead of me in my future!! Im moving to Paris in sept. for school and he is also going to college. We dont want to be together. I dont no what to do. I dont no how i could ever tell my parents!!! And i want to go to Paris sooooo bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... My bf wants me to have an abortion and i am prob 50/50 on the idea. I dont no what to do. Please tell me what u all think!!!! ONLY NICE ANSWERS NO RUDE ONES!! THANKYOU!!


sorry i posted this in dating im trying to get many diff opinions.

2007-07-25 10:12:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this question and did not get a good answer, my fiancee and I are looking for a small, private place to have our wedding and possible reception, indoors or outdoors.

I need specific places please, anywhere in the 5 boros, long island, upstate, maybe even NJ.

NO I dont have a backyard or anyones I can use, I dont want to do it in a park, because thats not private at all! HELP PLEASE!!

2007-07-25 10:11:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi I want as many people as possible to reply to me..basically if you had a girlf who was white, pregnant and catholic and you were muslim and ur bro was having a wedding soon..would you invite your pregnant girlf along - be honest???? and even if she wasn't pregnant would you still invite her???? Thing is his dad actually loves me more than he bloody does..fact. Worst part about it..the dad invited me to the bro wedding today!..not even the dad of this baby wanted that..he said oh she too pregnant to travel etc. - well yes that is true so he is ok there - I did not mind that as I am too pregnant to travel but the fact of the matter is..he said even if I wasn't pregnant he still wouldn't have brought me along..and that was what became the issue..he said muslims don't advertise their girlfs at weddings..and told me to ask any muslim so my response was ok I will..I also said well muslims-yes they don't advertise the fact they have girlf unless they want her for their future - am I right?

2007-07-25 10:08:25 · 8 answers · asked by Babs 2 in Weddings

I'm 19 and 5'8", every doctor I've ever been to says I'm quite a few inches taller than the average american woman, what do you think? Is this too tall to guys?

2007-07-25 10:07:26 · 29 answers · asked by cotton~candy 4 in Singles & Dating

His brother and sister-in-law do not have a joint checking account. They split the mortgage and she pays her fer stuff and he pays for his. But she also pay all the child expenses and medical insurance.

2007-07-25 10:06:50 · 13 answers · asked by heartshapedmailbox 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Some of his concerns are ligitimate some are crazy.He says he needs to make more money (true), I'm not healthy enough (crazy). I'm 36, he's 39 We have a 12 year old child. We've been married 4 years I can't have kids. He was a more or less a single father when I met him. His last wife went through what sounds like a extreme post-partum depression and he says that having to step in and do almost all of the child care and housework even though she didn't work this led to such resentment that it destroyed their marriage. She also gained weight (4 or 5 st.) and I wonder what part that played. I've met the woman and I think she was crazy from the start. The problem is he's driving me and himself crazy now. I'm going nuts because I feel like he's comparing me to his ex. I've had a mild depression and I'm not the best house wife, but I'm the bread winner. I'm a good stepmom . Sadly I've gained weight, maybe 3 stone but so what! How do I get him to decide. This has gone on for too long

2007-07-25 10:05:27 · 11 answers · asked by Miriam 1 in Family

heres the "Bad"
1. has cheated on me and other women in the past.
2.has been known to lie to me about his cheating(even to this day)
3.has money problems(from a bad divorce)
4.has a controlling,nasty,jeasous, in your face exwife who he puts above me(he tells me hes doing it for his childs sake)
5.he has a spolied child(the main reason he has no money) who is disrespectful.
6.never seems to be interested in doing anything with me.i always have to suggest something even going out for diner for my b-day.

the good
1. great dad
2.loyal exhusband(if i ever got divorced i would want him to be my ex)
3.does not drink,smoke or do drugs.
4.hard worker
5.smart and hansome

we have been together for 4 yrs and both in our 30s. So please be honest is it me?should i be happy for what i have as he could be worse?I just don't know what to do anymore i feel so lost.

2007-07-25 10:04:11 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

This guy who I really like is still pissed off at me even though it's already been a week and he's mad at me becuz I asked him if he could hook me up with one of his boys even though we were talking and interested in eachother, but the reason why I asked him that was because I thought he was ignoring me and I just wanted his attention and see if he's trying to play me or not..Because he was asking me if he can come and have sex with me and he said that was just a joke. I been emailing him and leaving him messages saying I'm sorry and stuff..But he's still ignoring me. He really liked me as much as I did though..I can tell. What should I do? I been crying over him and now it's like a living hell because I can't live without him and I have deep feelings for him..I try to move on but I can't..without him I just cant. But I havent told him about this feeling about how much it hurts. What should I do? All he knows is that I'm so sorry but he doesn't know how I'm feeling rite now.
Of course I wouldn't be serious about if he could hook me up with one of his boys. I just wanted his attention since I thought he was ignorin me and wanted to make him jealous to see if he was trying to play me or not

2007-07-25 10:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by NeNe 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married with two young children. I have been unhappy for over a year now and never said anything to my husband, until the day a younger male tried to put the moves on me (sexually). I wasn't at first interested, but after some thought, I was. I'm so confused and I am not sure what to do.

2007-07-25 10:00:39 · 29 answers · asked by miss personality 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lately he seemed to be telling me stuffs that are too bad to be true like- he is dying! and i dunno how to catch him on the act of it (in the hospital as he says) cause i am in the states while he is in asia (we're in vacation). his lies are so detrimental like being stabbed, being food poisoned, etc. i thought it was a bit too much if he's trying to cover up some hidden motives ... i have a friend in his hometown trying to spy on him but to no avail cos he is remote and he doesn't answer calls (even my unexpcted calls)... he is not like this before weve gone to separate vcations for 2 months..

2007-07-25 10:00:05 · 1 answers · asked by ♬müsic-to-yoür-ears♬ 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is the deal, he is the father of my 2 kids and we have been on again off again for 8yrs. Well about a year ago he was dating this girl, the crazy soon too be ex, and things got serious. Well he moved out of state to be closer to the kids and she came later. Things didnt turn out well for the two of them here and he broke up with her and we are now getting back together, all of this has happened over a 7 mo. period. So far she has gone on to my myspace page and his trying to catch us in something, but there is nothing going on for her to see. She is however moving next weekend back home and him and I are getting an apartment in a few weeks. But anyhow she is completely phsyco and following us around and checking emails and his text's which we dont do with each other. What do I do b/c I fear that she is going to continue to do this even after she leaves. NEED ADVICE!!!

2007-07-25 09:59:17 · 9 answers · asked by brookeless 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm OK with this, just confused about how it works.

I have my MOH and two BM's.
I was going to just pick a color and length (sage and tealength) and let them all pick the dress they liked best.
But if the MOH's dress is a different color (she wants chocolate brown) should all the dresses be exactly the same and just have hers be brown?

2007-07-25 09:59:05 · 31 answers · asked by RED 5 in Weddings

As background, I work, and my wife does not. She goes to school part time, but is currently between semesters. Married 10 years. I recently started a new position where I work from home 4 days a week. Since I'm home, I've gotten a new perspective on what happens here when I'm working.

We have 3 kids, all under 6. The kids pretty much occupy themselves all day. Video games, TV, puzzles, books, whatever. Mom doesn't do a whole lot of interacting. They often come to me in the home office for stuff. It seems like my wife doesn't do much. I make breakfast in the morning 90% of the time. I make lunch 75% of the time. We do dinner together.

When I go downstairs during the workday, she is on her computer or watching soaps. She does the laundry. She tidies up when it gets bad (not confused with CLEANING) or when I say something. The house has been mopped twice in the last year - once by me. I agreed to buy this house new so she could have exactly what she wanted in it, and it's going to hell.

2007-07-25 09:57:13 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

something that you think is so embarassing.. you can kill yourself it it happened to you. share it here xD

2007-07-25 09:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by Catherine 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay here's the thing ever since i went on a date with my boyfriend he doesn't call me any more and it's been a month i need help quick.

2007-07-25 09:52:05 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for three years. Each year I have asked my husband about having kids. He said he really wants kids, but doesn't think we get along well enough to have them at this time. He doesn't feel that we will provide the proper environment. We do argue a lot, but mostly because of things he has done (cheating, porn, lying, etc.). Yes, I contribute to the problems because I am the type of person that cannot let something go. I have to beat things in the ground. He also accuses me of wanting to do all of the talking and no listening. I do have a habit of butting in when he's talking. Not intentional, but it's a habit that needs to be broken. I am in counseling trying to deal with all these issues. I was diagnosed with PCOS many years ago, and have never been pregnant. I know that when it's God's timing I will, however, the doctor suggests we use fertility drugs to help me ovulate. Everytime I mention it he says he doesn't feel any different about the situation.

2007-07-25 09:51:38 · 12 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Speaking about monster in law...

Getting married at my fiance's church because his mom wanted to. I did not want a wedding at a church.

Now she says it is up to me if I want rehearsal dinner for my guests. She says she does not want one because she wants to get plenty of sleep before the wedding. My bridesmaids are driving quiet a distance to come to the rehearsal, plus it is my brother's birthday.

I am offended. Should it really be up to me?

2007-07-25 09:51:20 · 19 answers · asked by sweetundina 4 in Weddings

My cousin wants to be married in France because her sister was married in Barbado's problem is I don't want to do it nor does any of the wedding party we have told her this that we can't afford it .she has also told us she expects us to help pay for their honeymoon.My Aunt is already calling us yelling that we have almost 6 month to save up for this.Ilove my cousin but she has threatened not to talk to any of us again and will disown us.even her sister has said she can't pay for it.When she got married she declined gifts and paid for our gowns,has any one else been asked to one of these weddings?

2007-07-25 09:50:34 · 12 answers · asked by annabella 1 in Weddings

2007-07-25 09:49:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce