How do I get my man's crazy ex to stop bothering us??

Question

Ok, this is the deal, he is the father of my 2 kids and we have been on again off again for 8yrs. Well about a year ago he was dating this girl, the crazy soon too be ex, and things got serious. Well he moved out of state to be closer to the kids and she came later. Things didnt turn out well for the two of them here and he broke up with her and we are now getting back together, all of this has happened over a 7 mo. period. So far she has gone on to my myspace page and his trying to catch us in something, but there is nothing going on for her to see. She is however moving next weekend back home and him and I are getting an apartment in a few weeks. But anyhow she is completely phsyco and following us around and checking emails and his text's which we dont do with each other. What do I do b/c I fear that she is going to continue to do this even after she leaves. NEED ADVICE!!!

Answer 1

Have some self respect is my advice to you! Why in the world would you have two children with a man who clearly does not want you? Learn to be ok alone and true love will find you but this my dear is so not it! Your are probably correct that she will continue to stalk you but it is also a good bet that he will continue to schtupp her.

Answer 2

Unending Drama is the theme of high school. You will not be free of this $#!t until you're partway through college. He doesn't let it bother him, he's got your back, you should embrace what she says as a compliment and it will make her NUTS. Embrace the uniqueness that he's so tall and you're not, it's nothing to be ashamed of so people who make fun are really just pushing a button you've already shown is a fun button to push. If you change the reaction to a genuine smile, a knowing glance and appreciate that someone is bringing attention to the wonderful thing that is your unique relationship, they'll all move on to something else that bothers someone else and gives them the reaction they're looking for. It's the oldest story in the book. Why is it so much fun to taunt the nerds at school? Cuz they whine about it so good.. Don't whine about teasing and they'll focus on someone else.

Answer 3

I feel so sorry for the 2 kids. I'm saddened to think they've had to endure these love life games of their parents, and other women in the mix for 8 years.
My advice is to remove your myspace page. You're too old for that nonsense. Then change the email and phone accounts so she can't contact him. Then file a restraining order if she keeps it up.

Answer 4

Confront her and threaten to sue her for harrassment if she doesn't grow up and act like an adult and leave you two alone. Tell her you and him are starting your lives together again and neither of you are going to let her come between you. Tell her that it is time to move on with her life. How can she check his text messages and emails? All he has to do is change his passwords.

Answer 5

First of all, if she tries 2 continue snooping like a nasty dirty dog she is, u stick ur foot up her a**! And if she still hasnt leave u alone then u need 2 stick her finger n her own a** then place that same finger n her mouth. And OH YAH she'll STOP! GOOD LUCK..lol

Answer 6

How is she checking his e-mails and text messages? Does he still live with her? The hole problem is not her, it's HIM. Why is she a "soon to be " ex? He needs to dump her, and let her know that he wants to be with you! I think he is leading you both on!

Answer 7

get a restraining order. And press charges. Dude that's stalking and they cna like go to jail.... lol

Answer 8

Call the cops.

Answer 9

restraining order