Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

I just asked this question and people dont seem to read very well I am ANTISEXUAL, so in other words I dont have any feelings of love or want sexual relationship with anyone. I like being. O someday I will meet a girl that has the same interests as me, haha doesnt matter I have no interest in women or men , so enough of that. I just like being alone.

I hate when people say I am to young to decide what I want to do with my life, no I know what I want to do and no one will ever change that. My mind is made up and it will never change.

I just wanna live alone maybe with a dog or two. I dont want kids or marriage or any of that, just a dog or two
I am 18 and find myself alone after I graduate college, with my own house with two dogs a Doberman and a black lab is this weird or just different
I mean I feel that I can relate to dogs more then people, I dont really see myself like most americans with a wife and children. I really cant stand kids or women haha they nag to much

2007-07-25 09:47:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friends sister (who I used to know fairly well for a year or so in high school 10+ years ago) got married about a week ago, and my friend gave me his own verbal invitation saying that I'm welcome to go. I didn't get a written invitation and my friend didn't say "my sister would like you see you there" or anything so I decided not to go.

I've met the new husband a time or two and he seems like a good guy and I know him a little.

What is best to do in this situation? Should I just leave it alone and congratulate them when I see them or mail some kind of gift card?

I just wondered what best practice or common practice is.

Thanks!

2007-07-25 09:47:38 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. J 5 in Weddings

Hi everyone, I'm hoping someone can help me, I live in the United Kingdom and my Husband lives in California we are waiting to join him. I want him and he wants to adopt my 14yr old daughter, he has been a dad to her since she was 5yrs old although we have only been married 3yrs. Her biological Father is Unknown on the birth certificate as in the U.K he couldnt be named without his consent. All I know is he lives in Virginia and his name of course. He has had no contact and this is because I am white and he is black so my daughter is mixed race and his famikyn don't approve and to be honest she is a regret of his. How do we go about getting her adopted by my husban in the state of California. Your advice is much appreciated.

2007-07-25 09:47:27 · 2 answers · asked by I need help 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 09:46:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lived with my boyfriend for 9 months...we are no longer together and he seems to think we were common law. I am going to end up talking to a lawyer becuase I started paying all the bills and now he seems to think since we were common law he may not be responsible for paying half the utilities... He invited me to live with him(lease in his name,utilities in his name) and we agreed that i would only pay the for the groceries but it turned out that I ended up paying for a couple months worth utilities, groceries, and rent. He didnt have any money to pay so i ended up paying it with the agreement he would pay me back. will i have any right to get at least half the money back?

2007-07-25 09:44:20 · 8 answers · asked by karaoke742000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married about 20 years ago because I was desperate.

Is this possible to have wanted marriage for security and have felt sadness and depression because of the choice?
I have been on medication on and off for the past 6 years. Married for 15 years.

Sometimes I want to run away or die.


I am that person people think is always happy.

I smile often.

2007-07-25 09:43:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are some of the best pick up lines (give 1) and did it work?

2007-07-25 09:43:25 · 16 answers · asked by tmac5445 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 09:41:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am from Belgium and I research a friend who lives in Perth
Can you help me?
Thanks

2007-07-25 09:37:31 · 1 answers · asked by Michel W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-25 09:37:06 · 23 answers · asked by sohio44811 2 in Weddings

I think reading this Bible verse did it for me, and says it all
"However, each of of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must repect her husband, " Ephesian 5:23

2007-07-25 09:37:02 · 13 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 09:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by sohio44811 2 in Weddings

2007-07-25 09:34:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so a boy i know asked me out. and i have to admit he's my ideal boy:] but the thing is he has piercings well only one on his left ear and kind of like a tattoo on his back. i dont really care about that,i actually like it.

But mostly ppl who ask me out turn out to be messed up as soon as i know more about them so my relationships never past a month. [sad huh?] but i really like him and i think he's okay but ppl judge him by the way he looks you know the piercings and such?

i dont think they even know him that well but they tell me not to and such.

What should i do?

2007-07-25 09:33:11 · 13 answers · asked by Cattttt32 3 in Singles & Dating

OK 8 MONTHS AGO MY EX LEFT ME BECAUSE WE HAD PROBLEMS AND WE HAD BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS.THEN A FRIEND WAS THERE FOR ME IN MY HARDEST MOMENTS WHEN I MOST NEEDED SOMEONE TO RELIEFE MYSELF.WE ENDED UP TOGETHER AND WE NOW HAVE 6 MONTHS TOGETHER.BUT YESTERDAY ME AND MY EX TALKED FOR SO LONG ON THE PHONE.THE THING IS THAT I STILL LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART AND WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH MY GIRL WHO I HAVE RIGHT KNOW AND WHAT IF MY EX DONT LIKE ME ANYMORE.IT SEEMS SHE REALLY MISSES ME AND I DO TO.ANY HELP PLZ I WILL REALLY APPRECIATE IT.

2007-07-25 09:31:36 · 17 answers · asked by Jokes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've just started seeing someone but because of a bad relationship in the past, I've very wary of trusting someone new and bringing them into my life. Is there any online website that would allow me to search using his full name, date of birth, place of birth, or details like that, to find out if my new boyfriend has had any court appearances or arrests for physical assault, or anything like that or any kind of crime in his past ??? This guy is from the United Kingdom.
Any good advice would be appreciated. Many thanks.

2007-07-25 09:31:28 · 6 answers · asked by Sandy W 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 09:30:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't feel that I am grateful to wear a white dress, because I am not a virgin. I was thinking of champagne or ivory. This is my first marriage.

2007-07-25 09:30:26 · 36 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

The marriage is now null and void because he did not get a divorce from the previous marriage. I am not in love with him any more but he treathen me alot saying if i don't come back to him he will kill me. He even threatens to kill my friends and family. He is now a full pledge member of the cult as well. Advice please.
I am a female by the way with a male image.

2007-07-25 09:30:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been separated for 8 months and we are getting ready to go to court over our divorce. He refused to sign the papers and now its going before a judge. We have no minor children, no property, no mutual anything. I just want this to be done, but he doesn't want the divorce. He cheated on me several times and there is no hope for reconciliation. We are representing ourselves. What happens in court?

2007-07-25 09:25:59 · 10 answers · asked by jn_rosser 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering?

2007-07-25 09:25:50 · 9 answers · asked by Lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I wrote my friend who I only talk through email about how cute her newborn was cuz she sent me pics and I just told her how happy and excited I was for her and her family. Well she hasn't wrote me back yet.... what do you think?

2007-07-25 09:25:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok im going to see a guy friend of mine play baseball on friday and afterward we were thinking bout getting ice cream w/ a couple of my friends. but this is only the 2nd time im seeing him and he wants me to ride in his truck. im kinda scared to though. like nothing has ever happened to me to be scared to ride in a truck w/ a guy it just that idk i dont feel comfortable. so should or shouldnt i ride in his truck w/ him?? and i feel that if i say no he will be offended and i dont want him to feel that way.

2007-07-25 09:25:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are getting together this week after not talking for 10 months. what do i say to her? what not to talk about?

2007-07-25 09:23:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother dissappeared in 1974.She hung around the Hollywood area,and Mac Arthur Park.Her name was Shirley Akins, but sometimes used Maldonado ,or Tennight if thats how it's spelled,but the pronunciation is as just as it is written.She was an African American, who the last known person that might have any knowledge was a caucasion with the last name Tennight.She is buried as a jane doe somewhere where they keep graves of unclaimed bodies from the Los Angeles area.
I recently saw an article about such a place,but because of my own misfortune I was unable to recall the date of said article.It was in the Los Angeles times Around August-October.If anyone recalls that issue please respond A.S.A.P.

2007-07-25 09:21:00 · 1 answers · asked by brownie90249 1 in Family

My ex and I are still very close and we talk everyday.we've been broken up 7 months now.And we still have strong feelings for eachother.but now he told me that he's seeing this girl.First he didn't want to tell me the name of the girl,after a while I got it out of him.She has the same name as me....and it's really bugging me alot....should I tell him or just let it go?

2007-07-25 09:18:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy over the summer at a camp, we flirted, madeout, and now talk all the time. But he got boring so i started to flirt with his friend and now we're talking all th eimte, and this other guys is also wanted me to go out with him so i am flirting with him too. My friends say i took it too far, but I have never had alot of guys like me so i am taking it in. Is there a problem with me...

2007-07-25 09:17:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a diamond ring, and I'd like to sell it, is there anywhere else I could sell it besides a Pawn shop, since they never pay any good. Are there any jewelry stores or something that would buy it?

2007-07-25 09:17:28 · 12 answers · asked by jimena 2 in Weddings

2007-07-25 09:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by ER 2 in Singles & Dating

According to calculators on the Internet, Nebraska's child support guidelines are much steeper in terms of payment than that of Iowa's. I want to know what to expect when I have to make support payments. Nebraska's payment is nearly $500 more than Iowa's. I don't understand why...

2007-07-25 09:13:20 · 3 answers · asked by Mac 1 in Other - Family & Relationships