Ok im going to see a guy friend of mine play baseball on friday and afterward we were thinking bout getting ice cream w/ a couple of my friends. but this is only the 2nd time im seeing him and he wants me to ride in his truck. im kinda scared to though. like nothing has ever happened to me to be scared to ride in a truck w/ a guy it just that idk i dont feel comfortable. so should or shouldnt i ride in his truck w/ him?? and i feel that if i say no he will be offended and i dont want him to feel that way.
2007-07-25 09:25:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and by the way he is 18 and im 17.. n idk i feel bad if i say no. and i did ride in a truck w/ a guy but it was a close friend of mine too idk this is like different.
2007-07-25 09:33:25 · update #1
Follow your intuition because it is usually right.
2007-07-25 09:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you should go with him if you feel unconfortable. Not if it's just the two of you. Often there's a reason for our first instincts. I'm not trying to be dramatic, but a really high percentage of sexual assaults are committed by people known to the victim, and people often report having felt a bit strange about the person beforehand, but dismissing their first instincts as silly. I'm obviously not saying this guy is like that, but it's just not worth taking the risk I don't think.
2007-07-25 09:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel uncormfortable then dont. If he is a good guy he will understand. He might be kinda ofended at first I know I would be a little but I would get over it.
I would tell him that you never rode with a guy in a truck before by yourself and you just want to get to know him better first. If he gets mad or is not fine with it then he is a jerk and you should have nothing to do with him anyways.
2007-07-25 09:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fissure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you appreciate the thought but that you would prefer to drive yourself so that you are able to come and go as you need without depending on anyone else or hindering their plans/night. You may want to leave before him or need to be accessible in case your friends call and want to do a last minute hang out. Or tell him you have plans after wards (you can make plans to stay with a friend or something if you don't want to lie) so it is easier for you to drive yourself. Just trust your instincts. They've helped you out this far haven't they? Good Luck!!
2007-07-25 09:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Travel369 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think If you don't feel comfortable to ride in his truck , there is this feeling for some reason. You can tell him that you don't feel comfortable! I think it's normal if you tell your feelings honestly!! ISN'T IT?
He should appreciate that you are honest.
And anyways I wouldn't ride in his truck, if I don't know him well....
be careful how are you making your decisions!!!!
2007-07-25 09:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should do whatever you want to do. Think about the pros and cons or like think about what is the better choice. If you decide to tell him no, just tell him that you can get a ride yourself or something like that. Hope this helps and good luck. :]
2007-07-25 09:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how well you know him. If you've known him for years and know some of his history and if your gut instinct says it'll be OK go for it! But if your gut tells you not to don't do it. Just tell him you might want to leave early and so you need to take your own car. IF you do go with him make sure to tell some of your friends that you are (better to be safe than sorry).
2007-07-25 09:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Look if U don't feel comfortable don't do it. Also if u Think that he would get offended then tell him the truth!
The truth always help solving a problem!!
I hope I was helpful
2007-07-25 09:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get to know him well then you can decide whether to ride with him or not
2007-07-25 09:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your gut... is there a friend you can ride with? tell him you want to talk to your friend... or she wants to talk to you
2007-07-25 09:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by aspicco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋