I met this guy over the summer at a camp, we flirted, madeout, and now talk all the time. But he got boring so i started to flirt with his friend and now we're talking all th eimte, and this other guys is also wanted me to go out with him so i am flirting with him too. My friends say i took it too far, but I have never had alot of guys like me so i am taking it in. Is there a problem with me...
2007-07-25 09:17:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are getting physical with all of these guys or leading them on, then yea, it is slutty. There is nothing wrong with making lots of friends (male & female), but don't let them all think that you are looking for anything more than a friendship. And if they're all friends or know each other, they'll all eventually figure out what's going on and you'll look like a real slut then.
2007-07-25 09:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by hplss.rmntc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!! men do it all the time, so why should you feel like a slut/slutish person? Have fun, you havent made a commitment to any of those guys, so if 1 finds out & is upset or dont agree with it................WHO CARES, flirt with someone else! to me it only turns sluty when you are flirting & then sleeping with a lot of guys
2007-07-25 09:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by SBprecious2007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not only acting like slu+, but you are making a name for yourself and disrespecting yourself. Honey, guys talk. They tell each other about the loose woman they have slept with. And of all things, you talk to his friend!!!!! Caution, if you are strong enough to accept the consequences of your behavior than go ahead and have your fun. I would hope you are more about your self respect enough to stop this foolish behavior. Flirting is fun be be careful of the flirting with friends in common, and be real careful if you choose to have sex with them. You will regret it, and then again you might not.
2007-07-25 09:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are just meeting different people and exploring your options. Just don't take things too far with them...make some light kissing..in private. Otherwise you may develop a reputation that you are promiscuous. Try being friends and getting to know someone before taking it to a physical level.
2007-07-25 09:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like you're under the age of 25. So you're young, have fun with it. Try to keep the legs closed. Don't let them fall in love and don't start dating someone if you're not ready to. Or, if you have strong feelings for one guy, let your focus be on him and the others will get the hint.
2007-07-25 09:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are having sex with different men every day of the week - that's slutty. But if you haven't made a committment to any ONE guy and you are just flirting, that is part of being young and free.
2007-07-25 09:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no problem with you at all!
As long as you are just flirting, no there is nothing wrong with that. Do not take it to much farther than that though. When you get ready, pick one & leave the others alone.
2007-07-25 09:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you're acting slutty...Just have some self respect and don't let 'em touch you any where and don't make out with them..Life is short and is only lived once so live life to the fullest..
2007-07-25 09:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,guys do the same thing if you can go for it. but make sure your not just going after it for sex or just making out. enjoy these times and have fun. as long as your honest to everyone you be fine,if not and you are asked if you have made out then that makes you look slutty. nobody likes a lier.
2007-07-25 09:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by Megan M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with flirting, but once you start sleeping with alot of guys is slutty. dont be a slut, i understand your new at getting attention, but being a tease will make guys want you more too!
2007-07-25 09:22:52 · answer #10 · answered by valcoriousmaximus 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋