Okay so a boy i know asked me out. and i have to admit he's my ideal boy:] but the thing is he has piercings well only one on his left ear and kind of like a tattoo on his back. i dont really care about that,i actually like it.
But mostly ppl who ask me out turn out to be messed up as soon as i know more about them so my relationships never past a month. [sad huh?] but i really like him and i think he's okay but ppl judge him by the way he looks you know the piercings and such?
i dont think they even know him that well but they tell me not to and such.
What should i do?
2007-07-25 09:33:11 · 13 answers · asked by Cattttt32 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And i think he's a great friend:]
and im worried if i deny or end the relationship like i did with my present the friendship will no longer be there
and i dont really want to go through those things as well
last time i went out with a guy he had some weird problems so i borke up with him and its not just like a problem its totally messed lol
2007-07-25 09:39:07 · update #1
Don't care about what ppl say. Give him a chance. Give yourself a chance. You don't have anything to lose if you accept but you'll have sth to lose if you don't accept to go out with him and then you'lll wonder "What if...?"
Make the choice your heart feels and don't be influenced by the others. Good luck. :)
2007-07-25 09:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him go out with him. There's nothing stopping you.
And you may have million boyfriends before you find Mr. Right guy and land on a serious relationship, so don't worry about your relationships not lasting much.,
And as to what everyone else thinks about the guy; screw them! You shouldn't care about what they say.
If you really like this guy then go out with him and see how things turn out.
Good luck!
2007-07-25 16:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by yumi_yune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIve him a fair chance and go out with him. Look past the piercings and tattoos because if you like him what everyone else thinks shouldn't matter.
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2007-07-25 16:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him a chance and hey you might like him more than anyone else that you have know
and if ppl give you a hard time about his appearance just tell them to grow up and learn to get to know a person before they judge them
2007-07-25 16:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by LM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what dating is all about, getting to know a person. You aren't going to want a long term relationship with every person you date. But if you don't spend some time with them you won't know if you want it to be a long term relationship.
2007-07-25 16:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out in itself does not constitute a relationship. Can't you just go out to get to know him?
You can go out to get to know him romantically. Test the waters.. I wouldn't even call it a relationship or steady until like 3 months.
2007-07-25 16:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and get to know him some ,before you go out.
Don't base your opinions on someone elses opinion.
Find out for yourself and make up your own mind.
2007-07-25 16:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think before you say anything, tell him how you work, and that you don't want some short petty relationship. make sure he knows you want to date him for who he his. Good luck, and say what you want back.
2007-07-25 16:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by young and broken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know what someone is like until you give them a chance. You like him, he may be your dream guy. DO IT
2007-07-25 16:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Aubs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no reason to suspect he's anything but a good guy, and you like him, go for it.
2007-07-25 16:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by The Seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋