OK 8 MONTHS AGO MY EX LEFT ME BECAUSE WE HAD PROBLEMS AND WE HAD BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS.THEN A FRIEND WAS THERE FOR ME IN MY HARDEST MOMENTS WHEN I MOST NEEDED SOMEONE TO RELIEFE MYSELF.WE ENDED UP TOGETHER AND WE NOW HAVE 6 MONTHS TOGETHER.BUT YESTERDAY ME AND MY EX TALKED FOR SO LONG ON THE PHONE.THE THING IS THAT I STILL LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART AND WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH MY GIRL WHO I HAVE RIGHT KNOW AND WHAT IF MY EX DONT LIKE ME ANYMORE.IT SEEMS SHE REALLY MISSES ME AND I DO TO.ANY HELP PLZ I WILL REALLY APPRECIATE IT.
2007-07-25 09:31:36 · 17 answers · asked by Jokes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LISTEN CAREFULLY: Your ex does not like you--she is calling you because you have a girlfriend now and therefore you are unattainable for her, i.e. you are "out of her reach" and that makes you more appealing to her (the laws of attraction, plain and simple). The minute that you break up with your current girlfriend is the minute that your current ex will get bored and say "bye-bye" to you. If she really liked you so much she would have never broken up with you. And the fact that it's been SIX MONTHS since she's acted interested should tell you something. Do you really want to date someone for whom it takes SIX MONTHS for them to even think about you again, AFTER they broke your heart? I wouldn't.
2007-07-25 09:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are called EX for a reason...for every timethat you are on the phone with her remember the times that she made you feel like crap...for every "I love you" remember the many times she told you to "Go to Hell"...see my point...???
Right now you have a woman in your life who cares about you? Why would you honestly want to jeopardize this? Either you really odn't love this new woman in your life or you should have not dated after the last one so soon...
My advice is to stay with the one you have now unless you do not really love her...but under no circumstances should you get back together with the EX...instead, seek professional counseling instead to help you with this problem...
It is obvious that this EX is back in your life for some reason...and love is NOT it...it never is...it is usually jealousy or deceit...so please be aware of this...
ASHLEYGIRL
2007-07-25 16:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by ashley_bottoms 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you really like the girl you are with now then you should totally stay wit her.She was there wen you needed her, and she has been there 4 you.The other girl needs to move on!!!She broke your heart,now she calls to freaken talk to you???leave her alone,and stay with the girl who hasn't broke your heart.But then again you really love the other girl,so the question you have 2 ask yourself is wich one do you love the most..But if I were you I wouldn't break my best friends heart.
2007-07-25 16:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by cena#1fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remove yourself from both of them for some time until you can make a clear decision. You turned to your new girlfriend on the rebound and relationships based on rebound never work out. Give yourself some room to make the right decision.
2007-07-25 16:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should stay with the gurl ur with since u been together for 6 months now and if ur happy then its a great if not then u know what to do but i know its hard to let go of one thing for another....follow ur heart and dont make a dum mistake....
2007-07-25 16:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by *S!LL!3G00B3R*TTC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take some time away from both and talk to each other on a personal level with each of them either in person or over the phone and try to figuire out what the future holds, just follow what your heart tells you
2007-07-25 16:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by megan_trigg2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is go with your heart right now. if you think you you would be more happy with ur ex then go on ahead. maybe you should be having this conversation with ur ex. you have to find out how she feels about the situation first. then you can decide if its worth going back to her
2007-07-25 16:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by watgrlsnv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fist you should find out if your ex still wants to be with you then you need to decide who you want to be with and who you can see yourself with, keep in mind that you ex did break up with you for some reason, then if you decide you need to let the other one know whats going on makes sure that shes knows that you still want to be friends and that its not her i know that that's one of the dumb answers to a break up but in this case its really not them its you
2007-07-25 16:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Tasha G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your new girlfriend. if your ex left because you had problems that couldn't be resolved, it's bound to happen again. let go of the past and move on.
2007-07-25 16:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by lxs_wlfrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the grilfriend go and tell her whats up cuz ur goin to end up hurtin her really bad
and tell the ex that u still have feelings for her and see how she's feeling
2007-07-25 16:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by shariah l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋