Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

I am 24, married and a mom, but 2 of my 16 yr. old neighbors only talk to me and act rude towards my husband. I try to avoid the 2 neighbors, but they see me if I go to get into the car to go somewhere or if I come back from the store.

I don't like it and it's making my husband angry. What are some suggestions??? Please help!!

2007-07-25 07:40:46 · 31 answers · asked by Bien Chula 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 07:40:25 · 2 answers · asked by shortie8844 2 in Singles & Dating

I have seen this guy out and about throughout the years,he has always tried talking to me but I always blew him off(i was still hooked on my x)I saw him out a couple weeks ago and he looked adorable(im now over my x)at first he seemed into me,but i ended up drinking a little too much,i found him on myspace the next day and sent him a message apologizing,he did not reply,so the next morning i sent another message saying'you are suppose to accepy my apology'he replied with'im pacing myself'and a smily face.so a few more days went by and I sent him another message telling him to add me on his friends list,and he did.a little over a week passed and i sent him another message about how i know a friend of his and i dont like him(his friend)he had no response to that.I feel like an idiot now,what was'pacing himself'meaning?Is he into me at all or not interested?

2007-07-25 07:38:48 · 11 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi my name is Brittany and i am 13 i really want a boyfriend but how

2007-07-25 07:38:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We live in the Northern VA area.
My fiance loves to be surprised.

2007-07-25 07:36:42 · 9 answers · asked by gillpickle1 1 in Weddings

I'm getting married in 3 months and we already have our hall picked out. My future mother-in-law, myself, and my fiance all went to look at the hall and my mother in law decided she does not like it and began to look for a new one. I did not think she would find one on such short notice but she did. Now she wants to switch and we have money down on the other one. The new hall is two dollars per person more but it does include the booze, the old hall did not and we would be out our deposit. What do you all think I should do?

2007-07-25 07:34:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am in college, I have been for 2 years. I have recieved a 4.0 the whole time and I am a criminal justice major. My professor is not married, a little older than me but who cares. I just want to know how to flirt a little (SUBLTY), you know tease him a bit, since I think he has a little crush as well.

2007-07-25 07:26:52 · 7 answers · asked by ma$e 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been a musician since I was 14. I am now 20. I have a part-time job, and help out with chores around the house. I try to do my part in exchange for my room and board. But my parents want me to get a degree, in order to be financially secure and safe in the future, when my musical aspirations inevitably fail. :)

I adore what I do. Music is all I care about. I cannot waste my youth in a school doing work I couldn't care less about. I cannot grow old and pretend I care about an awful day job I need just to pay for a rotten apartment. Fortune favours the bold, and I will go nowhere in life if I do not take risks.

What do you think I should do?

2007-07-25 07:24:04 · 17 answers · asked by KurtR 2 in Family

My husbands ex constantly hangs around one of his sisters and it bothers him. Not only because she's done him very wrong and his siblings know that, he's also bothered by the fact that his sister wont accept me all the way..but rather half way including the ex.(gossip, pathological liar, peaked through our windows in the home, to see what we have etc..creepy)
He's expressed several times to her that it bothers him, but the sis does as she want and he has to deal with it.
I personally could care less if they accept me whole or half, I am not married to his siblings but I can understand his side and getting fed up with the family feud, constantly seeing the ex on family events that trigger my hubby to walk out and me sitting in the middle.

How would you handle this mess? Just not messing with that sibling?

2007-07-25 07:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by greenie 6 in Family

I took the day off and was bored. So I thought of a few questions to throw out there. First tell your age and if you are male or female.

1. Do you usually date people
a. younger than you
b. same age as you
c. older than you

2. When you go on a first date do you prefer
a. a group date
b. a fun date where you go just the two of you to a movie or putt putt golf etc
c. a more romantic dinner and dancing type of date.

3. At what point on a first date do you know if you want to kiss them or not
a. first 5 minutes
b. by the end of the date
c. Not for at least 2 dates

4. On a first date you are usually the
a. shy one hard to get to talk
b. try to carry on equal conversation
c. usually control the conversation

5. You usually spend how much time preparing for a first date
a. 5 minutes. You basically go as you are
b. 30 minutes. You shower and and get dressed.
c. several hours. agonizing over what to wear, hair etc.

Thanks have fun

2007-07-25 07:22:53 · 23 answers · asked by Jim 3 in Singles & Dating

She quits for a while then falls off the wagon. I worry about our finances because of her habit, so I told her to quit or get the f@#$ Out. She told me she needed me to be supportive not put conditions on our relationship. What should I do?

2007-07-25 07:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by mygirlfriendsafreak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 07:19:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Additionally, where does this fall in reference to other strong traits? (ie. guy is cute, witty, intelligent, etc. but is also a recreational drug user)

2007-07-25 07:19:26 · 17 answers · asked by Whiterabbit4220 4 in Singles & Dating

O.K. ya'll its time for true confessions.I havent seen my family in many years and gave my two girls up for adoption to my brother and his wife 10 years ago.Last week they found out that my brother has stomach cancer and as of yesterday it had spread and today they had to remove a testicle.I finally found the courage to call him after all these years and when I called the hospital he answred the phone.I cried like a baby he said my girls are beautiful and that if i wanted to that I could go see him in the hospital.I never looked back after the day he got my girls because it broke there heart because they couldnt stay with me and I swore I would never brake there hearts again.My husband is taking me to the hospital tonight.I am scared and in fear that I will fall apart.I am clean and sober now and so afraid that I wont be able to handle this.I need you guys.Ya'll have been my family when no one else would be my family.I need encouragemant and I am asking ya'll for help.

2007-07-25 07:19:21 · 3 answers · asked by ღOMGღ 7 in Family

2007-07-25 07:14:56 · 4 answers · asked by usaknight77 1 in Family

2007-07-25 07:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by van girl 2 in Weddings

i mean i have a great personality and all but most guys only find me attractive its like they look past my personality

2007-07-25 07:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love one of my classmates she's a girl?! but not what you think. i mean what should i do to say her that i love her but not as a lover like boys and girls. yoi know i have my own boy friend?!
what do you think i can do to tell her that i love her?

2007-07-25 07:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what could make my left nipple hurt. Just the top of the nipple hurts, not the whole breast or the other nipple. It's a little red but bairley....I'm just wondering what would make it hurt. I took a pregnacy test the other day, just in case, and it's negative. I've been taking hormones that is supposed to make my period come so I can get on birthcontrol because my gyno says I'm not ovulating correctly (I'm 21 by the way).

I'm just really wondering....please....some opinions on what it could be.

2007-07-25 07:09:16 · 8 answers · asked by Flip-Flop Crazy Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

and cops cant give u a ticket for it?

2007-07-25 07:09:01 · 7 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Singles & Dating

what do u like him/her 2 do 2 u, and what is a total turnoff???

2007-07-25 07:08:21 · 11 answers · asked by cmockica 1 in Singles & Dating

What really happened is that i just barely became a resident this year and ma bf became a resident last year n well he`s 19 n I`ll be 18 on Sept 3rd I have already applied 4 ma citizenship does anything change? any advice or stories should I do it but I don`t want him 2 go to jail or sumthing

Please help me! or just give me an advice

2007-07-25 07:06:08 · 13 answers · asked by Blanca F.R 2 in Friends

There is this girl that I used to have a crush on, I never got a chance to tell her how I really felt about her. She had a bf for about an year on and off. I just found out that they have broken up for good. I still do like her, I would like to tell her how i really felt about her. In the past we have done stuff intimately b4 she had a bf. What kind i do, we have talked on and off when she was with her bf. How can i tell her how i feel about her to be able to win her heart. I truly do like her, i thought it was just a fling, but i do think about her at times. I would like her to know how i feel that i want her to be my gf when its right. what is the best way to go about this ladies. thanks again.
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2007-07-25 07:05:11 · 5 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like to find one girl for me and that 's call me jason

2007-07-25 07:04:52 · 6 answers · asked by jason c 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i were broken up for about 4 months and in that time he made a close friend who was a girl and they spent alot of time together. she lived in a dif city and they visited each other on the weekends. i am certain that nothing is going on now that we are back together, but he keeps telling me that he just liked her as a friend while she wanted to be more than that and thats why they dont talk anymore. I am not convinced and think that something else was going on. a friend of mine just told me another piece of information last night that got me thinking about it again, and i am bothered by it because i just dont know the truth. what i am wondering is if i should confrotn him again and once again try to get the truth out of him or if i should let what was in the past be in the past even though it will be hard for me since i do think something went on between them that was more than a friendship???

2007-07-25 07:04:49 · 19 answers · asked by Lynne. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 07:02:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just ask a ? about child support and leaving kids.Well I paid for a trip and was waiting to caught my last plane .My husband called and said he was going to call the police on me for child abandoment.So I was not able to go on my vacation we are seperated.He knew I was going, where i would be ,when I was coming back.So seperated people can't go on vacation?Can he do this to me ?

2007-07-25 07:01:52 · 19 answers · asked by cash07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

his girl that I like lives in my apt complex. I like her and i think she is very attractive. When i'm coming in from work we bump into one another as she leaves for work. We have said hey, whats up to one another. I have hold the door open for here a few times she has said aww thanks im very sweet. Last friday when i was coming in as she left she said that im very nice and charming and cool. we formally introduced ourselves to one another last week, and I saw her on the phone as i was walkin towards my car she said hey whats up while she was on her phone. i havent seen her with a guy in da complex but one time a long time ago. does that mean she is single? what should i do next? does she like me? thanks

2007-07-25 06:59:00 · 10 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very interested in a man that recently filed for divorce & has a 9 month old baby. I too a single mother of a one year old, w/ no ties to the father. We have a great deal in common. He has informed me that he is going through a lot right now & is very interested in me but is not ready to date yet. He requests that we take it really slow. I respect & understand this because it has taken me 2 years, up until now, before I am even considered dating again. This could be a long, painful process for him. I want to give him the space he needs to heal but dont want to miss out on the possibility of having something in the future. We are in different places in terms of being ready & capable of dating. I also know that if we jumped into something right away it could complicate his divorce, which I don't want to do, and I could end up being a rebound, which my heart can not take. How should I pursue this while respecting his wishes & without rushing it?

2007-07-25 06:56:02 · 8 answers · asked by Abby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy. He told me he liked me 2 :)))
But no 1 liked him before I did and know every1 does.. I havent had a chance 2 talk 2 him about it yet.. Idk wat 2 do bc i dont want 2 loose friendships, but I relly lik the guy help me plz

2007-07-25 06:53:53 · 1 answers · asked by kate c 1 in Singles & Dating