i mean i have a great personality and all but most guys only find me attractive its like they look past my personality
2007-07-25 07:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:
1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)
Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).
Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth
2007-07-25 07:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course they most likely are going to look at your appearance. But, they also want a girl that is genuinely nice, has a good personality and likes to have fun doing just about anything. Well the guys that are looking past your personality are shallow and you are better off without them anyways.
2007-07-25 08:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by banksd74 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i look for personality, cause if the girl only has looks and no personality then its like owning a lambo with no engine. So ya I look for personality but I'm not gonna go out with an ugly chick. I want a girl who atleast looks pretty.
2007-07-25 07:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets face it, first impressions and the cornerstone of a relationship is physical attraction....if you're gonna spend a lot of time with someone they may as well LOOK nice right?
Personality...outgoing, funny, openminded.....experimental and spontaneous
Its a lot to ask, but hey, thats what I look for anyway
2007-07-25 07:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ain't gonna lie everyone looks at appearance first. boys and girls. thats what first draws my attention is appearance.if a girl keeps herself clean, dresses nice, takes care of herself then thats whats gonna make people wanna talk to them. thats where the personality part comes in. i'd say personality is just as or more important than looks. cause you can be the hottest person in the world but if your personality sucks then it won't work. so i'd say just dress nice, smile, make yourself easily approachable, and be yourself. someone is bound to notice and come your way.
2007-07-25 07:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dom Fresco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this is a fact about boys, young men, adult men, older men, really really old men....up to the time they finally die men. Men are visual creaters...period. Eventually as they get older they do look beyond that...but in all honesty looks are important to guys no matter how old they are.
Hang in there someone's going to notice you through all that beauty!
2007-07-25 07:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by MLJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great personality and a great appearence.
Two winning combinations.
2007-07-25 07:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by jquick13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,,up to a certain age, sex is all guys want, the GAME is trying to fool you into believing we are together in this so you will give up your treasures, all the personality does is squeal and moan and flirt and so on.
2007-07-25 07:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult question. Hmmm... I reckon if we're looking for a deep relationship, the one where we think "she's the one", then, I think it all comes down to honesty & thoughtfulness. A bit mushy, my answer is. ;)
2007-07-25 07:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ureshii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is because they do not have a personality! You are great, and sexy so you have what all guys want
2007-07-25 07:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by ma$e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋