I am 24, married and a mom, but 2 of my 16 yr. old neighbors only talk to me and act rude towards my husband. I try to avoid the 2 neighbors, but they see me if I go to get into the car to go somewhere or if I come back from the store.
I don't like it and it's making my husband angry. What are some suggestions??? Please help!!
2007-07-25 07:40:46 · 31 answers · asked by Bien Chula 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey You're Not A Real Boricua......No One Can Act Rude Towards My Husband And Still Make Nice With Me............They Would Be Told Off Then Cut Off !!!!! Just Like That, Jack. When You Get Home And They Come Up To Talk To You, You Have To Say, Just Like This........"Yo, What The *****? I Can't Come And Go Without You Two Little Mierditas (shits) Stalking Me?..Do Me A Favor And Stay The ***** On Your Side! You Get Stupid With My Husband Then You Gonna Act Like Everythings All Good?....No, No, No, No, No,.....Par Carajo (go to hell) .....I Ain't Your Friend Puneta!!.....So Stay The ***** Off My Property Before My Husband Comes Out Here And Beats Both Your Asses With A Bat........Now Step !!"
2007-07-25 07:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Those two kids are punks. Probably spoiled by their dumb parents. They would friggin bang you in a heartbeat. You need to avoid them and be rude to them.
Your husband would probably beat the crap out of them if he could get away with it but he probably would be sued by some liberal lawyer, and that is one reason teenagers get away when they act like punks.
Just ignore them, maybe make fun of their zits or clothes or something, because your husband deserves those brats to be given a hard time. Maybe your husband should try to be more intimidating & psycho, like have him chop firewood with an ax in the backyard & brag about his gun collection.
2007-07-25 07:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by David S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, speak to their idiot parents. If that doesn't work, have your husband speak to them for you. If that doesn't work, I'd put up the largest fence your area will allow. Having them sneek a peak is one thing. Only talking to you and being rude to him is another ball game. Letting it go without interaction may lead to more intense problems in the future. You would like to avoid those if possible.
Best of Luck :)
2007-07-25 08:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless they are saying rude remarks to your husband or hitting on you & making you feel uncomfortable ... I would just ignore them - smile and go on with my business - their just kids ... if it's bothering you two that bad - have a talk with their parents ... but 16 is pretty old - they might just do what they want regardless of the talk ... good luck ... you must be a hottie ... lol ... !
2007-07-25 07:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your hubby to not be so insecure. What would you want with 16 yr old boys? They are 16 and haven't polished their social skills yet so this kind of behavior shouldn't be that big of a shock. Just tell these boys that you are very busy and you don't have time to chat. Eventually they will get bored and leave you alone.
2007-07-25 07:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to them in a round-about-way in there language since they seem to have your attention, Be nice they are only kids when the time comes you will know what to say it maybe when you are with your husband or by yourself it will come but until then be very brief and serious with that MOM face"you the one we give our kids when we are very serious"
2007-07-25 07:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by keepitreal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ignore them. If they have a crush on you any attention you give them would be construed in the wrong manner. If you are in a situation where you can not avoid contact. A polite discussion regarding their inappropriate behavior would be the right move.
Remember they have the hots on you and will respect your comments.
2007-07-25 07:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Willie J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor baby. It must be so difficult to be adored. Next time you see them out there, put a sock down your pants and strike a pose for them. They will surely leave you alone from then on. Now your husband on the other hand, he might step up his game.
2007-07-25 08:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with the boys' parents. Let them know that they are rude to your husband and that you want it to stop. If all else fails, cease communication with them all together.
2007-07-25 07:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be really obnoxiously touchy and lovey dovey to your husband in front of them and annoyingly roll your eyes a lot whenever they talk to you and look completely disgusted and disinterested in them. They should get the message. Don't even give them a hint that you're enjoying their attention or it will get worse...
2007-07-25 07:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by Scatter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋