Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

My horrible husband constantly tells people about our sex life, or the lack of sex life, to total strangers. He has been known to tell people I am a zombie in bed, and not sexy enough for him. I don't know if I can take much more of this abuse!

2007-07-25 05:57:46 · 26 answers · asked by H_bomb the III 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Together for almost 16 years with alot of good times. She started a relationship with a coworker and left me for him even loved me right up to leaving me. We are divorced now and she told me that she fell out of love with me. But its a small town and I know she had to say more than that or she would look bad. I heard from a friend that she tells her close friends that I was emotonally abuseing her! Telling her she is beautiful and sexy is abusive? I was good to her maybe to good as I think she is nothing more than a spoiled brat who got everything she wanted growing up. Do I defend my character or just let it go??? I really am a nice guy as I have no reason to BS on yahoo Q&A...

2007-07-25 05:56:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He only mentioned to me that he would sell the car to settlle th debt. Instead he paid and did not sell the car but gave it back to her. Shes a manipulative woman. he decided to give her the car after she gave him a tie and a card signed by her 2 sons as a birthday present. he has gone into our savings to pay her debt. i dont opppose him helping his family but he should have the decency to tell me the truth. he thinks Im not aware do I ask him?

2007-07-25 05:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by cassis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I caught my x cheating so i left him,shortly after i ran into a mutual friend of his and we instantly clicked.he held me that night till slept and was so sweet.he liked me,i liked him,but it was such a messay situation at the time.I saw him a couple months after and he said i was'killing him',my x was also there with him and upset that we liked eachother.Everytime i see him(my x's mutual friend)i catch him out of the corner of my eye staring at me.last time i saw him we kissed uncontrolably but i had to stop him because he started seeing someone,he said he cant help it because he thinks im the most beautiful girl alive and he wished he had known how I had felt for him before he started seeing his girl.he had been drinking that night and kept going on about how beautiful i am and how he had felt so bad for me that night he held me,should i believe him? does he have feelings?he has a girlfriend now and i still think about him.

2007-07-25 05:54:39 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 05:54:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Adultry and financial infidelity. One partner has one problem the other partner the other problem. Now coming to blows and wondering if divorce is the only answer. How do you know? They said it wouldn't happen again, but it did time and time again. One more than the other. Both equally guilty. How do you move on and grow together or is there so much flooding under the bridge it's washed out?

2007-07-25 05:53:59 · 16 answers · asked by Mystress L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If I wanted to take both names would I be.... Jane Doe-Doe??

2007-07-25 05:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey whatsup..i'am 18 years old turning 19 in one month and a guy here.. I"am planning to move out. Things are not working out betweeen my family..and trust me they are not, its going crazy..but thats not the point. HOw do i move out. How much money do you think i neeed. I'am going to New Jersey. I live in houston texas right now..so any advice how to do this

2007-07-25 05:47:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you believe in grounding your children? if so what would be the maximum and minimum amount of time you would ground them for? How long would you ground them for if they got a warning saying next time your childs behaviour and attitude slips they will be expelled?

2007-07-25 05:46:59 · 33 answers · asked by sport loving steph 2 in Family

2007-07-25 05:46:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 4 years, and it seems that my husband has been cheating ever since.I only know of two girls he has had in our home, but every time i am gone for more then an hour he is on the pc talking to girls or phone sex.He says that he has a problem and he can not help it but i find that hard to believe. I really want to make us work out. Is there anything that could help him or should I just give up on trying to help him??

2007-07-25 05:45:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 05:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by J7 3 in Singles & Dating

Heres the deal. My parents divorced when I was 3 years old and the judge ordered my dad to pay $50 a week. If he did pay it was very few times. I am now 19 years old and I wanted to know if there is anything I can do to make him pay the money he owes. We never tried to get it from him before because I had a good relationship with his parents (my grandparents) but now theres different circumstances. Please help!

2007-07-25 05:43:04 · 10 answers · asked by sneeker_peeker1309 2 in Family

2007-07-25 05:43:03 · 8 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Singles & Dating

give me your screen name and i'll definitly talk to you

2007-07-25 05:42:56 · 6 answers · asked by iheartfob56 1 in Friends

i need help please tell me wht to do yesterday my sis told me that she had searched me a school in europe the school is really great it has only 6 kids in my class and its like a privite school if i want to go to that school i should leave my mom and dad here and go with my sis to europe heres the problem if i live with my sis after 3 days we'll start fighting then i will feel like go back home if we start once we will never stop and i dont me and sis to be that way and i had to skip a year of school so in the class ill be one year older that all the other kids please tell me wht to do wht to chose my sis or the school?????????????????????

2007-07-25 05:41:27 · 2 answers · asked by THE_NICE_ONE 1 in Family

My boyfriend hates to shop with me, doesnt like to go clubbing or out to eat. He also doesnt share the same movie interests or hobbies, but I love him to death for who he is. I also have a gay guy friend who loves everything I do and we go out about twice a week and have fun. My boyfriend hates this and says its wrong for me to have a straight boyfriend and a gay one. Am I wrong here?

2007-07-25 05:39:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have seen him out throughout the years and he always tried talking to me but I blew him off for I was always stuck on my x.Well i saw him out a couple weeks ago and he looked adorable(and im over my x)he seemed into me still but i ended up getting a little buzzed and found him on myspace the next day and sent him a message apologizing,he did not respond,so the next morning I sent another message saying'your suppose to accept my apology'he responded with'im pacing myself'and a smily face.a couple days went by and i sent him a message asking him to add me to his friends list,he did.a week went by and i send him a message about how i know a friend of his and how i dont like his friend,well no response,i take it there is no interest on his part? what did he mean with'pacing myself'?

2007-07-25 05:37:56 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

any thought on it, or changes should be made, please help thx

I would like to sit down face to face with you somewhere quiet near future. Sit down and explain what the best interests for us in this marriage we can both accept If we don't, it will come back to haunt us in many ways. We can both accept. The key is to do it maturely, without deliberate pain, so that we can both accept. You as my wife have questions, I answer them as fairly as I can for you without confusion.
Or choose other options, such as marriage counseling. These can also be logical steps that may help to keep this marriage together. Might even be able to stay friends. Or if not, we can look back on our time together as an enjoyable experiment which just didn't work out the way we originally hoped. I hope to spend some time together in November, I still would like to fulfill that day for you in Vegas,Canada or at a Romantic Lodge. We can share a peaceful moment together as best as we can. .

2007-07-25 05:36:18 · 17 answers · asked by newyorkerhpd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my good friends is having a birthday party on friday that im going to. The problem is that my fiancee is coming with me and she does NOT like him but i already invited him. She said she doesn't want him there and she's going to be mad and not going to have fun if he comes. i cant un-invite him plus i want him there. what should i do?

2007-07-25 05:36:01 · 9 answers · asked by Annabanana 4 in Friends

2007-07-25 05:32:00 · 20 answers · asked by reebabe 2 in Weddings

Yeah, I know, the title's really melodramatic.

Anyway, I just came back from this week-long class sponsored by a group called Klemmer. The class is called Teen Leadership. One of the rules we agreed to was no bf/gf stuff.

The problem is, they get you so close and emotionally involved in these people, it's almost impossible to not feel something. And there's my problem.

It's hugely unlikely we'll ever see each other again, It wasn't even much of a relationship... it lasted 7 days, although those were the longest 7 days of my life. But...

If nothing was happening, I could get over this. Time, right? But my parents have informed me that we're going on a week-long camping trip/family reunion tomorrow. We leave at 5 AM. So, I need a way to get over this quickly, even though I don't really want to. I already tried not going on the trip, they said too bad. It kills me that they don't realize what I feel is real. They act like since I'm 16, it's not serious.

2007-07-25 05:29:53 · 6 answers · asked by notmakani 3 in Singles & Dating

about 1 1/2 years ago I caught my x cheating so i left him and was so sad.shortly after I ran into a mutual freind of his and we instantly clicked,he was so sweet and ended up holding me that night till i slept.He liked me,i liked him,but it was such a messy situation at the time for anything to work.Now he has moved on even though he told me I am the most beautiful girl alive and he wished he knew how I had felt.But I still think about him and wonder when I wont?

2007-07-25 05:28:32 · 10 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

(I'm the bride) I HATE taking pictures and I have my whole life (hate being the center of attention). I am paying for a pro photographer and have the pro take a few pictures with my soon-to-be husband and our children and just be happy. At the reception the photographer will take a few pictures of everyone, except me. I'm not handing out any pictures with me in them, just pictures with the kids and my fiance. How do I add no cameras of any kind allowed?? Or should I just call everyone and let them know? All my family knows I don't take pictures and so does my fiance. But because this is a wedding, i know people will think they should take pictures. Thanx

2007-07-25 05:28:19 · 38 answers · asked by Amused 2 in Weddings

I've heard this before and I've never experienced a broken heart. Does it really hurt that much?

2007-07-25 05:25:22 · 17 answers · asked by U Wish 2 B Me 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife, if you have been paying attentionto my previous questions, has made my life difficult by physically abusing me, trying to frame me, and playing mind games with me...really bad stuff...amd I was the VICTIM in all of this...to say I am 100% guilt free would not be right but I would NEVER have done this kind of stuff to prove a point or to just be a jerk...

Anyway, she says she misses being with me and sees the errors of her ways...I have to be honest, I have heard all of this before...many times with no results...so I tend to be cautious when she says these things...

Well the thing is I love her and I do not want to be blinded by love when it comes to her drinking problem and past phyical abuse towards me...nobody deserves to be treated like I was treated...NOBODY!!!

Well my stipulations were that she go into a minimum 6 month detox and rehab program to stop her drinking and that she attend an anger management program as well to control her temper...

2007-07-25 05:25:04 · 12 answers · asked by ashley_bottoms 2 in Marriage & Divorce

long story short. lets just say a friend of mine a very close friend of mine she is older then i am. and we had some issues so we talked about the issues they were as follows : you should vs i feel, how she never asks interesting questions to show interest in my life i.e.:
Me: i asked for a rasie today
Her: did you get it
Me: no but they are giving more tools to help me advance my career in sales. It's my goal to go into sales now.
"""" she showed some interest""""
Her: i got to taste the potato saled!

Where did that come from! are we not talking about what i'm talking about any more you know once i'm don't talking about me you will have your turn to be all negivita and tell me what to do again!
she over helps and gets sad when i don't take her help
after the talk we had i thought things would be better but there not!
i love her so much BTW she is my mom. but if you read anything she rights it's always about her! then wonder why i'm her only friend.

2007-07-25 05:24:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

All we asked is that they do their own laundry, keep their rooms cleaned etc. I almost have to beg them to do this most the time. We love them both-but sometimes they drive me nuts! What do you think might help?

2007-07-25 05:19:58 · 31 answers · asked by Tammy 4 in Family

2007-07-25 05:19:49 · 17 answers · asked by Susan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 05:19:34 · 1 answers · asked by danamina o 1 in Singles & Dating