My horrible husband constantly tells people about our sex life, or the lack of sex life, to total strangers. He has been known to tell people I am a zombie in bed, and not sexy enough for him. I don't know if I can take much more of this abuse!
2007-07-25 05:57:46 · 26 answers · asked by H_bomb the III 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-07-25 06:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about the emotional abuse you are causing him? Sex is showing love for one another is a marriage, you are denying him of love.
Many of the responses on here are proof of why so many marriages fail. Its baffles me at how self centered some are and how easily some are willing to throw divorce around.
2007-07-25 13:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's a sucker!!!! he doesnt respect you at all. why would he tell strangers about your sex life? by the way how is he in bed? Does he satisfy you? You can sort this out try to find out what works well for both of you, theres no harm in trying out new things. all the best!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-25 13:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by cassis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh..
but his insensitive, candid and cutting ways were the reason you were attracted to him in the first place..
did you expect that he change and become a sensitive, loving docile man?
either that or he's a sensitive man who's feelings have been hurt.
you know it.
you're sensitive and you mind is 'jokes'
tell it to him.
do you guys not communicate?
tell him you dont like your private stuff being aired in public.
even psychiatrists are under oath not to reveal data of public clients.
that man has no regard for your feelings.
make the first step and talk to him nicely.. try it for 5 days.
if it doesnt improve, be a ***** to him...
if it gets worse and not better,
girl, find another man..
2007-07-25 13:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and let him know how much this hurts your feelings. If he is not happy with your sex life, then you guys and work on it together but when he discusses it with complete strangers it makes you not want to have sex with him. Let him know that it disgusts you to discuss your bedroom relationship with others.
2007-07-25 13:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit having sex with him then he'll have nothing to talk about. Except not getting sex, and you can then say well if you didn't kiss and tell, I wouldn't have cut you off.
2007-07-25 13:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he talks about you being a zombie...stand behind him and hold your thumb and index finger about an inch apart. Don't let him see.. It might not help the problem but it'll help you save face and giggle a little. Start sharing your own tales and see how he likes it!
2007-07-25 13:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So give him what he wants! Make sure that the next time he talks about your sex life, he's bragging about it and making all the other guys jealous!!
2007-07-25 13:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well tell him how you feel and when you guys are alone just one on one ask him what he would he like what you would do to him and maybe from there he will stop telling people about your self life
Good Luck
2007-07-25 13:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by Red K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you discuss with him how you feel.
Also, dont assume that the fault is only his.
You both have to make an effort to resolve this
Good Luck.
2007-07-25 13:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Dimitar A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Add your own little remarks after he has.
Perhaps the reason you are a zombie in bed because he bores you to tears?? haha.
2007-07-25 13:01:29 · answer #11 · answered by Lizzie A 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋