One of my good friends is having a birthday party on friday that im going to. The problem is that my fiancee is coming with me and she does NOT like him but i already invited him. She said she doesn't want him there and she's going to be mad and not going to have fun if he comes. i cant un-invite him plus i want him there. what should i do?
2007-07-25 05:36:01 · 9 answers · asked by Annabanana 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Does your fiance know she doesn't like him? I have this issue with a friend of my gf. I know she dis-likes me and I feel the same "love" towards her. For a birthday party, I wouldn't go. If it were just drinks or something I'd be right there in her face, but that's just me.
If your fiance understands this, he should realize not everyone loves each other, that's life. A great statement to your friend is to go to her party, but split early and be sure to tell her... since I knew you didn't want (insert your fiance's name here) he stayed home out of respect and now I'm leaving to go do something with him. Maybe she should get the picture that you are a package deal now so she can suck it up or lose you as a friend. Turn the tables on her. And at the same time make your fiance feel like you respect him and there are no hard feeling for un-inviting him. Let him know where he stands.. and her too.
2007-07-25 05:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My uncle was addicted to Heroin for several years, it is the hardest drug to come down off of, and it destroys everyones life around it, if she truely loves him, Im not sayin to leave him, but she should def postpone the wedding until he is clean, maybe the pressure from gettin married is what made him relapse! I think she should make him consider a drug rehabilitaion program, it will save her a potential heartache, stress, and maybe even save his life!!!
2016-04-01 01:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fiance needs to chill out seriosly i have a guy that i like that likes me but we arent officail and he has a best friend that i dont really like but they have been best friends forever so im trying to suck up my feelings and be nice and im 14 and the guy i like is 16 if i can act this mature at 14 your fiance should be able to since she is probably 20+
2007-07-25 05:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well tell your friend:
"If you respect me, you respect him too! How would you feel if you were with a guy and I didnt like him and I treated him like dirt? This is who im with, take it or leave it!"
GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!!! Hopefully she will have more respect for him!
2007-07-25 06:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by BlAZE` 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that if your fiancee is not welcome then neither are you. Wsh her a happy birthday and don't go to the party.
2007-07-25 05:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like him then maybe she isn't a true friend...i woulnd't even go to the party?
2007-07-25 05:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by dumbblonde 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you're serious about him...YOU WANT TO MARRY HIM! If she can't accept both of you then she can't be a good friend
2007-07-25 05:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend refuses to support your relationship? What is it about him that your friend dislikes? Usually friends can see something that you won't be able to see... Seriously think about it.
2007-07-25 05:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just don't go she can't be a true friend!
2007-07-25 06:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by witty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋