Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

Do you think I should be concerned?

2007-07-25 04:32:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as stated... we have been dating for approaching a year.
her parents are very conservative and given the current situation (her divorce not being final-final) she thinks it is best if i dont meet them until it is...
given what i have heard etc... i agree....
problem is....
We are IN LOVE and have been fully and completely for the whole time... we talk about marriage, a family, we live in the same home (another thing kept from her parents obviously)
It is just getting harder the longer it takes....
Given we want to marry, and given i will ask her fathers blessing before proposing that is obviously putting a BIG hold on things...., as when i meet them in a month or two they will assume we just started dating etc...
she plans on telling them we have been hanging out, doing things etc for over a year before i meet them when she tells them of me...
can you think of any creative ideas to make this process easier or tell them.
BEFORE YOU SAY IT...

2007-07-25 04:29:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a Got Out of Hell Free card from someone. What does that mean?

Should I use it now or save it for later?

2007-07-25 04:29:47 · 7 answers · asked by smittybo20 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 04:29:16 · 38 answers · asked by dennis 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going to a friend's wedding and she is 22 years old. Her husband(23 years old )and her are going to be moving into a new house after the wedding and they both love decoration pieces that are unique and interesting. I live in Toronto, Ontario so does anyone know any good shops here that I could get them something from? do you have any suggestions of what I could buy for them? thanks so much

2007-07-25 04:28:12 · 7 answers · asked by kenya 1 in Weddings

My mom is engaged to her boyfriend of 3 years...
my sisters and the rest of our family all hate him.
My mom divorced our dad to be with him..
and cheated on our dad with him.
I'd say 60% of my family's problems come from him and my mothers relationship.
The sad part is my mom isn't in love with him.
She constantly complains about him and she never wants to talk about their wedding.
When she has been drinking she doesnt even want to talk about him.
I'm not completely sure why they are together but I'm pretty sure it's for the extra money...
because there is really no other reason for her to stay with him....

So.. my question...
What can I say to my mom to show her she can do better and doesn't have to marry him and we can be fine together...her a me and my sisters...?
We don't have a good relationship so it's hard to talk to her about this kinda stuff.
Also...my mom has had like 3 boyfriends in her life and she married the first 2 and is engaged to the 3rd one.
HELP!

2007-07-25 04:25:39 · 7 answers · asked by X0_JUSTxF0RxFUN 2 in Family

2007-07-25 04:24:06 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i go out on who ever can make me laugh all my friends say i can do ALOT better what do you go by

2007-07-25 04:23:45 · 11 answers · asked by Brianne 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 04:21:15 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating a Iranian for almost 8 months, he was nice very sweet with me, but when he's around his friends i felt ignored, they call each other like crazy and somethings just some things make me think bad. Is like they ignore the womans when they are together and the do everything for a friend...

2007-07-25 04:21:13 · 2 answers · asked by gigisli 1 in Singles & Dating

does he have a conscience

2007-07-25 04:21:08 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are Calla Lillies appropriate?
I know you gonna say its you wedding have what you want, but I dont want them to look goofy.

What other flowers would loook good?

My colors are going to be maroon (wine) and champagne.....

2007-07-25 04:20:40 · 17 answers · asked by BTB 10/04/08 4 in Weddings

Is it better to set them free and take the chance of losing them forever or hold on to them not knowing where the relationship is headed?

2007-07-25 04:19:53 · 15 answers · asked by fa0099 2 in Singles & Dating

were in bed the other night just talking. Due to having "summer" colds (me first then him) we haven't had sex as often as we normally due. I made the comment that I can't wait until we are both healthy enough to resume our active sex life and he agreed. I then made the comment "aren't you glad that our sex drives are so equally matched and that I want sex as much if not more than you do". He then remarked "I guess I have been lucky because every woman, except for one, has wanted sex just as much if not more than me". Then he went one to tell me that his ex-wife was insatiable!!! I know he has a past but was he out of line for saying these things or am I being to sensitive??? Of course, he doesn't think that he was out of line and was just having a conversation with me and that I just get to hung up on things. On one hand, I'm glad he is so open and honest with me about things but on the other hand, I would never tell him "my ex and I f*cked like rabbits"! What gives, is it me?

2007-07-25 04:18:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My future husband and I are getting married and were wondering where the best place to elope is? We are on a budget...another reason not for a big wedding...but we want it to be completely romantic and beautiful...that means no Vegas...

2007-07-25 04:17:48 · 17 answers · asked by jenben 2 in Weddings

Okay i have friend and she is dating a guy that is going to move and that they have been going put for a long time and she really likes him a lot and they have been going out for a long time and when he moves how can i make her happy?PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-25 04:17:36 · 1 answers · asked by cutiepie6400 1 in Friends

How should she get past the resentment? Or is marriage now doomed?

2007-07-25 04:16:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you had to choose between being in your most ideal location in the world where you'd always dreamed of living but with average people or in an average place with the best people, which would you choose?

2007-07-25 04:14:11 · 16 answers · asked by Alex 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Been married 2.5 years, and although there wasn't much sex, I thought we were getting along fine. Now she started a new job, she's saying she's having crushes on other people, and she's not "in love" with me anymore. I want to win her heart back and am not willing to separate yet. I've always been the kind of guy who helps her out around the house a lot, massages her, stuff like that. Should I put a stop to all of that and make her feel what it would be like if I didn't love her and treat her good? Or should I keep it up, maybe try some other things....take her on trips, out to dinner, anything else you can think of???
I feel really lost lately. I don't understand how she can marry me, and now so soon after decide that she wants to date other people. But of course she want's to keep me around too because I'm such a great "friend"! Well I aint having that! She hasn't cheated yet, but has said she has felt temped to. What think? Any hope for our marriage?

2007-07-25 04:13:09 · 26 answers · asked by qu1ck80 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 6-1/2 year old daughter who has my last name, from my previous boyfriend. I am now 24 weeks pregnant with another girl with my current fiance. I want our girl to have his last name. What last name should I take when we get married? I was thinking hyphenating, so I could have both of my daughter's last names, but am not sure if that will get confusing on their school records, and all other records. If I take my fiance's name, will it be hard on my 1st daughter if the rest of us have a different last name? Would that be confusing for her at school?

2007-07-25 04:12:17 · 16 answers · asked by angel_of_love_1981 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i'm 14 and my gf is 13
she might be comming over this Saturday and i want to know something such as a food because i'm going to try to get her here at 4-9pm and i wanted to know what should i make for her for dinner?
I was kinda thinking Spegett(or however you spell it)

2007-07-25 04:12:11 · 4 answers · asked by ausi 2 in Singles & Dating

your turn to say what you really want!

2007-07-25 04:11:29 · 34 answers · asked by NovemberRain 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 04:09:59 · 7 answers · asked by roboxer2502 1 in Singles & Dating

Ulike ur best guy friend but u cant tell them, but he like shows jealousy when u talk bout another guy, does that mean he likes u? He remebers things i told him months ago & suddenly brings them up. He's jealous because i consider him 1 of my best friends and i barely got to really know him this year, & i tell my other guy best friend everything before i tell him. & if i tell him my crushes hell be like well Y do u like him? When i would hug my one of my guy friends he had a look like he really didnt like it. But he also told me he had a crush but by the end of the school year he said that she wasnt worth it..so im really confused and i need help because hes coming back from work for school this year again, do i tell him i like him? I mean even my dad thinks he likes me. theirs days wher i dont even think about him and i dream that he comes back and we are together. But he said that when he liked a girl HE tells her...do u think he would still like me??.

2007-07-25 04:08:19 · 1 answers · asked by Squishy 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this guy for a few months. We're not in a relationship but have sex every so often.

At first it was just a booty call thing but now we haven't been having sex so much and he wants to talk to me every night. He's made it clear that he has other girls, so I know he doesn't want a relationship.

We have conversations that last for hours and talk every night. What does he want from me? I'm getting mixed signals.

2007-07-25 04:08:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not sure if i like this girl or it im just enjoying my time hanging out with her and her little sister

2007-07-25 04:06:26 · 1 answers · asked by rizyq 3 in Singles & Dating

I know I've changed a lot. I used to be a nice, giggly, hyper preteen, now I'm a quiet, stroppy, moody, argumentative teen. I understand this is probably normal, but my friends seem to hate the fact that I've changed, and this may be a selfish view point, bt if they're my friends, wouldn't they accept me for who I am, even if I have changed a bit?

2007-07-25 04:04:49 · 11 answers · asked by LinnLovestruck<3 3 in Friends

My boyfriend lost his place about a month ago. We're both living with my parents for now until we can get up on our feet. He's been having a hell of a time finding a job, and he's getting frustrated and worried that he's not going to find one. Not only that, he doesn't want to stay in Bakersfield, which is where we live. He wants to move out of state.

I'm all for it, but here's the deal. I was out of state for almost three years and just got back home last year. My Mom has already told him that he's not taking me out of state. It's not her choice, I am an adult, but it's so confusing. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, and I would follow him anywhere. But I love my Mother also...

Should I choose my heart over family?

2007-07-25 04:04:23 · 10 answers · asked by ♫♪Evie'sMommy♪♫ 2 in Family

ive fallen in love with my best friend who i used to go to school with but i cant tell her how i feel about her! ive known her 21 years.

2007-07-25 04:02:42 · 2 answers · asked by dazcorkhill 2 in Friends

2007-07-25 04:02:27 · 14 answers · asked by Secret 1 in Marriage & Divorce