2007-07-25 04:02:27 · 14 answers · asked by Secret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him very calmly that when he can talk to you like a human being that you'll be glad to talk to him...then turn around and walk out of the room and do not speak to him until he stops yealling and cussing!
2007-07-25 05:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are not fighting, talk to him about it and tell him that he should still treat you with respect even though he is mad at you. You have given him no reason to talk to you like a dog. Mine done it once and I made him feel bad about it and he hasn't done it since. Hopefully it will work for you as well. Or when he does that, calmly tell him that you are finished talking to him until he can tone it down and speak normaly. If that doesn't work, show your bottom! Just go crazy on him and yell and cuss right back at him and even throw something, that will get his attention!
2007-07-25 04:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would walk out on the argument till he learns to fight right. You can't get anything accomplished with foul language. Try to mention to him not to cuss when you guys are not fighting and in a good moment.
2007-07-25 04:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by carolynjlalena 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because he s angry,i cuss at my wife because,she doesn't cook,clean,have sex with me,food shop,take care of our six year old daughter the way she should,and has not had a job in 7 years,gets out of bed at 10,but has called me useless and threatens divorce all the time.maybe if you can see things from his stand point,cussing at you is not that big a deal.i cant help but to cuss/my wife contributes very little and very little is expected of her,she has nothing to complain but does.you could be as ignorant as my wife or he s just an asshole.as long as he doesn't hit you.
2007-07-25 04:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by spiritof687 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
explain to him that cussing only hurts. Establish boundaries with him. If he cannot respect the boundaries and starts to cuss during arguing, tell him the conversation is over
2007-07-25 04:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by mars 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Set rules for fighting fair! If you dont have boundaries things are bound to get out of control when you are angry. Cussing and name calling is compltely unacceptable.
2007-07-25 04:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him know how you don't appreciate him degrading you as if your nothing....There's no excuse why he can't speak to you as his WIFE without disrespecting you...No matter what the arguement is...Leveling to his way of dealing with things is immature and really not worth it...You need to let him know how important YOU are and you shouldn't feel like your not when he treats you this way...I understand how this must make you really feel but, know that the way he is has nothing to do with you....He needs to grow-up and learn how to communicate with you.....
2007-07-25 04:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either cuss back or ask him with conviction not to use those words with you. And refuse to argue. If you can't sit down and discuss it like adults then it won't get resolved.
2007-07-25 04:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Record him, then play it back so he can hear just how ridiculous he sounds. Walk away and tell him that if he can speak to you respectfully, then don't speak to you at all until he can act like an adult.
2007-07-25 04:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by mischiefinthemoonlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuss back,i think it makes people feel better plus it might shock your husband a little and he might slow down a bit himself.
2007-07-25 04:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋